How is it homophobic to say that even a gay man wouldn't hate women as much as you do? That's giving the homosexual community the biggest compliment ever, in my opinion. Holden, it's YOU, and men like you, that give straight men a bad rep. I've met some sassy gay men in my life, but I've never met one with hate in their heart; not like the hate you hold.
And you aren't incel. You've had sex and maybe a relationship... I don't even know with that poor girl; well within the past 6 months. So unless you're changing your own definition to be like 4 days... And, to be frank with you, your definition of what incel contains is just bullshit.
To any sane person, your definition is similar to someone saying "I'm Invalive." meaning they are involuntarily still alive. This just isn't a thing. Either you're suicidal (so a made up word isn't needed), you're alive, or you're fucking dead. Those are the only options. To sane people, this is what Incel looks like. You are either single by choice or by not choice, or you're fucking celibate. There are people who believe they are single against their own will. That's a thing. NO ONE but you and other sick little entitled bitches use words like Incel. It's fucked up.
How do you explain that you claim to be involuntarily made to be/do a completely voluntary act? Just say you're single against your will or some shit. We'd still think you were pathetic but at least you weren't some crazy hobo living off the government spewing insane ass words around. Seriously.