Disaster Newlywed woman dies after 48-hour BDSM session involving a barbed hook left her with 'perforated bowel' - Here comes the bride...ass gaping wide

A German man is in court facing manslaughter charges for killing his new wife in a 48-hour BDSM sex session just days after they walked down the aisle together.

Ralph Jankus, 52, and his wife Christel, 49, took part in a 48-hour sex session for their nuptials, he claims.

New bride Christel suffered severe internal injuries allegedly after a sharp object was inserted into her.

When emergency services were called four days later, they were unable to save Christel.

Self-confessed sadomasochist Jankus faces manslaughter charges at the court in Krefeld, a city in North Rhine-Westphalia, in western Germany.

He is being prosecuted for failing to call for help, allegedly leaving her injured for four days. He claims he was not aware his wife was seriously ill.

The public prosecutor believes that Jankus must have been aware of how unwell his wife was and that her life was in danger.

When questioned, he told police the sex had been consensual and that he had been taking part in sadomasochism sessions for the past thirty years.

He told police: 'It was our honeymoon period.'

He added that he loved his wife dearly, that the sex had been consensual and that instead of going on honeymoon, they had enjoyed a steamy sex session lasting days.

Jankus has reportedly admitted that his wife had previously complained about discomfort and had been to see an internal medicine specialist who had carried out a colonoscopy, but nothing had been found to be wrong with her.

Forensic medicine specialists came to the conclusion that the woman must have had some sort of barbed hook inserted into her and when it was removed this caused a perforated bowel.

The victim's 30-year-old son, who has not been named, claimed his mother had been abused as a child and was mentally unstable.

He added that his mother was dominated by her husband and had started wearing clothes that covered her up well.

She had also allegedly reported abuse at the hands of her husband before they got married, in 2017, but later withdrew these allegations and had spent some time in a psychiatric clinic.

Her son claims that she fled to a women's shelter in 2018, before turning up happier and marrying her partner in July of the same year.

He said: 'She had injuries over her whole body and in her genital region.'

The son said: 'I made accusations to her that she was putting up with too much and that it should never have gone this far.'

He added he had seen bruises which his mother had shown him and she allegedly told her son that she never wanted to see her partner again and never wanted to be hurt by him.

He claims that Jankus 'abused, mistreated and humiliated' his mother, but added: 'I do think she loved him though.'

Her son's partner, who is also a witness and who has not been named, said: 'We had no idea about the violence at first. But over time it became more apparent, she was not allowed to leave the apartment. She was forced into taking drugs. She was beaten for going to the hairdressers without permission..'

Just days after proudly announcing his marriage on social media, Ralph posted: 'I want to thank you all for the good will messages received on our wedding day.

'Unfortunately I have to tell you that my dear wife suddenly died just eight days after our wedding.

All the happiness I have experienced was in the years with my wife.'

The couple had been together since 2011.

The public prosecutor have confirmed he is facing charges of manslaughter for not calling for help for his wife.

The trial is ongoing.


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Wait. A barbed hook?
I thought the anal hooks had balls on the ends to stop this kind of stuff, so this must have been more extreme than those.
I wonder if law in Germany allows anyone to be charged for this.


Whoa.

Interestingly, Kink.com has a very detailed set of rules regarding what's allowed and not allowed in the videos they will purchase from suppliers At least on paper, looks like the safety and well-being of those performing are very well addressed. I add this...if you know a particular scene of this genre is being done by consenting professionals, in a professional manner and in compliance with clearly stated and enforced rules, would say it's much easier to enjoy the scene than if the opposite were the case, at least for most people.


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