Late and powerlevel, but I get unsolicited pussy photos on grindr about once a week. I think they look weird, but I'm not "experienced" enough with female anatomy to know a standard vagina from a funny one.
I'm late in responding to this, but here's one thing to consider: Women don't send unsolicited pussy pics. They just don't.
Guys however, will send unsolicited dick pics. Exposing one's genitals to somebody who may or may not want to see them is very much a male form of exhibitionism.
So if you're getting unsolicited pussy pics on Grindr? That ought to ping your troondar. Because no matter how badly troons insist they want to be women, they still act like men.
Straight men don't want them because they're obviously MEN and gay men don't want them because it's obvious from how they look, sound and conduct themselves that they come with several built-in personality disorders. Many gay men I personally know stay away from "femmes" because these guys are more often than not walking drama bombs. Now take that times one hundred, and you get one of these "transfeminine" non-binary loons with their ridiculous affectations.
Gay men don't want them because they look fucking hideous,
and because they are bottomless pits for attention and validation.
There are ways for gay men to be very feminine and wear makeup that, while they may raise eyebrows among straights who don't see that every day, are still aesthetically pleasing and coherent. They put a tremendous amount of time and effort into perfecting their look, choosing the right colors, finding (or making) the right clothes, getting their hairstyle and makeup just right. They're going for glamour and elegance that's typically associated with women, yet they are men who still want to be attractive to other men, and thus there's a fine line to walk.
They're a rare breed, especially these days; the only example that springs to my mind right now is Austin Scarlett, a wedding dress designer who was a contestant on one of the early seasons of
Project Runway.
These guys? First of all, neither of them can dress themselves for shit. Jacob Tobia always looks like he's grabbed random women's clothes out of a box discarded on the curb and changed into them on the spot. Alok Vaid-Menon alternates between that, and what look like artsy theatrical costumes that aren't even pretty, and wouldn't be attractive on anybody.
And their hair and makeup? Good fucking lord. They're no better at grooming themselves or choosing makeup colors than any other low-effort troons out there.
They have no taste, no skills, and, typical of troons, they're trying to act out fantasies of their respective "femme" ideals, rather than starting from the reality imposed by their less-than-ideal male faces and bodies. So they just look like ugly men clowning around with women's clothing and makeup. They look dirty, too. And that's not a look that's going to get anybody laid, even before you get to the fact that they're bottomless pits in their need for attention.
Throw in friends writing articles about how it's society's fault that these brave, beautiful, gender outlaws can't get laid, and that anybody who finds them unattractive needs to offer themselves up for re-education out of shame? LOL NO.
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FTM 7 weeks bilateral mastectomy post-op. The scars look downright uncanny valley. At least she's still got nipples that don't look like they're about to die and fall off, but I'd be damned if she wants to go topless "just like any other guy" with such an unnatural-looking result.
Well, that's a fucking disaster.
She's obese, so she wasn't going to get a good result to start with, but holy shit, that nipple placement is just
bizarre. Men's nipples are much further apart than women's, but hers are too close together even for a woman. What the hell. Her surgeon's got to be one cynical motherfucker to give her a chest that looks like that--but I guess getting paid to lop off perfectly healthy tissue in order to appease mentally troubled people's delusions will do that to you.
