Fat Acceptance Movement / Fat Girlcows

I dunno, I agree with Abra's take. Nearly every woman does the "I'm fat" thing at some point. It's not a personal thing or directed toward actual obese slobs. Yr Fat Friend makes everything about herself and honestly never seems to care that her friends have their own problems and insecurities. She just seems like a miserable, self-centered twat.

During my teens and twenties people like Kate Moss and Nicole Richie were the thing, so it was really easy to feel like a whale. Fishing for compliments in any situation is irritating, I agree, but it's also possible to be normal or even thin and genuinely feel inferior, fat, and gross.
Her post is way too long, but I can see where she's coming from.
I'm 5'3". Sometimes I feel short and complain about it. If I did that in front of the chick I know who's 4'8"...I bet she'd be annoyed. Or if I complained about things being slightly blurry without glasses in front of someone who can't even seen their glasses when they're not wearing them. If you're really outside the norm and have to deal with that all the time, it's aggravating when people who aren't talk about their just-outside-the-norm problems--what do they know about struggling? This isn't something she should express to her friend because it is normal for women to talk like this, but she's also not wrong for disliking it.
 
Her post is way too long, but I can see where she's coming from.
I'm 5'3". Sometimes I feel short and complain about it. If I did that in front of the chick I know who's 4'8"...I bet she'd be annoyed. Or if I complained about things being slightly blurry without glasses in front of someone who can't even seen their glasses when they're not wearing them. If you're really outside the norm and have to deal with that all the time, it's aggravating when people who aren't talk about their just-outside-the-norm problems--what do they know about struggling? This isn't something she should express to her friend because it is normal for women to talk like this, but she's also not wrong for disliking it.

I still believe that YFF is no friend at all. She's petty, mean, and unfair. She assumes the worst of most people and uses her fat to distance herself from people who have her best interests at heart. She's really just a terrible, bitter person with no accountability or sense of proportion and embodies some of the most destructive parts of FA imo.

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I mean, I'm 5'10", and people here routinely compare 5'9" Anna (her height, not just her weight) to a monstrous, gargantuan freak.

Well, she is. I mean she literally looks like someone shoved a huge oversized torso into some lower legs like some kind of fucked up bootleg action figure that came from China.

Otherwise idgaf about people's height. One of my friends meets the requirement for dwarfism (she's 4'9") and I've never heard her complain about that shit. She also makes more money than I do and has been on national television before, soo
 
Well, she is. I mean she literally looks like someone shoved a huge oversized torso into some lower legs like some kind of fucked up bootleg action figure that came from China.

Otherwise idgaf about people's height. One of my friends meets the requirement for dwarfism (she's 4'9") and I've never heard her complain about that shit. She also makes more money than I do and has been on national television before, soo

Yeah, what I'm saying is that Anna's height and accompanying grotesqueness have nothing to do with me, even if I'm taller, same as YFF's friend's "fat" stuff has nothing to do with YFF. Of course no one here is saying Anna looks awesome, lol.

It's pointless to absorb every criticism that people have of their own bodies or even of other people's bodies.
 
You sure that is not a troon? Looks fairly troony to me. They has the pronouns.


So she gained a bunch of weight, makes herself ugly on purpose, and from what I know has eaten herself into a chair, so he met her when she did not have to be pushed around, all the while he works to just feed her as she wastes oxygen and no doubt scolds him for not cooking more food faster as he comes home after a hard day work. Sound about right? Let's just say I am kinda familiar with the situation. She is not going to keep him, either he gets fed up, kicks her ass to the curb, or he will cheat and leave for greener pastures. And I can barely imagine more abject rotten pastures than this.

The thing is, she's his first proper relationship and possibly his first ever kiss/sexual partner/anything romantic. According to his family member who submitted her to the LCF PC thread, he has autism although Phoebe has denied this and stated it's HER who has autism (she's waiting for a diagnostic appointment). She certainly overlaps into Munchie territory - claims crippling fibromyalgia and IBS, when massive weight gain (100 pounds in a few years) and terrible stodgy vegan diet could certainly account for both of them. She's had her disability benefits taken away pending tribunal as she has little actual evidence of disability. I expect she's hoping her shiny new crowdfunded wheelchair will convince them she's legit.

Speaking of which, here is Mx Tickner absolutely bulging out of her shiny new crowdfunded wheelchair and wearing something incredibly unflattering. She's also stated she rarely wears underwear too. At least she's actually smiling and not trying too look hideous.

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Taking anything that YFF writes at face value, and not something heavily manipulated to portray herself as Abra mentions ("...stoic, grounded and deep fat person who is inexplicably friends with a thousand skinny Stacys who say carelessly horrible things to her literally all day every day?") then um tee hee :shit-eating: Not to mention what being discussed is wholly different. Your height is not something you can change, how much you shove into your mouth to reach 350lbs definitely is.

Various Jude sperging out spam below:

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Additionally, she's been posting a bit about her 'eating disorder recovery' on instagram - stating that she needs to remind herself that "weight gain is normal in recovery," because she's definitely looking like an emaciated waif:

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Women who aren't fat who like to talk about how they are can be pretty annoying--it feels like they're fishing for compliments.
Some of them might have body dysmorphia though. It's possible to be a normal weight and still legit think you're fat. The one thing the FAs get right is that some magazines have unrealistically thin models that make normal girls feel inferior.
 
Jude's rant in a nutshell:

"Your happiness and path to self-fulfillment and growth makes me uncomfortable! Fuck your story, I wanna hear about me bc everyone oughta be like me! And fuck your commentary, but disregard that my entire platform was built on me commenting on things I don't agree with. Fuck everyone else but me; but everyone oughta wanna fuck me."

Eta: I cannot with this ED bullshit. Eating 500 calories a day every now and then parading it as EDNOS is incomparable to being totally emaciated and your body shutting down but being too scared to eat something, or binging and purging your way to an empty bank account and heart palpitations because the compulsions have poisoned your brain. Yeah, fat people can have EDs but Jude's dieting did not ruin her life as eating disorders do. She's just mad that losing weight is hard.
 
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Jude wants to lose weight so badly, but can't find the discipline, and can't say no to her beloved excess of food. Why else would she be so fucking obsessed with other people doing it? There's not a "narrative" about weight loss making you happy, it's a truth people experience. Being fat and happy is also a truth, and she is clearly not that.

I had to cross post this pic from fph since it was just being discussed:
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Jude wants to lose weight so badly, but can't find the discipline, and can't say no to her beloved excess of food. Why else would she be so fucking obsessed with other people doing it? There's not a "narrative" about weight loss making you happy, it's a truth people experience. Being fat and happy is also a truth, and she is clearly not that.

I had to cross post this pic from fph since it was just being discussed:
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Has it ever occurred to this shop that maybe some of their customers are shopping for others? And some people are very sensitive when it comes to the fit and feel of their clothes.
It's also not the retail store's place to tell the customer what size clothes they can and can and cannot purchase.
 
Her post is way too long, but I can see where she's coming from.
I'm 5'3". Sometimes I feel short and complain about it. If I did that in front of the chick I know who's 4'8"...I bet she'd be annoyed. Or if I complained about things being slightly blurry without glasses in front of someone who can't even seen their glasses when they're not wearing them. If you're really outside the norm and have to deal with that all the time, it's aggravating when people who aren't talk about their just-outside-the-norm problems--what do they know about struggling? This isn't something she should express to her friend because it is normal for women to talk like this, but she's also not wrong for disliking it.

Yeah, but you can’t change being short-sighted or short. If she’s struggling she could try putting down the fork instead of blaming everyone else for her own insecurity.
But since the first rambling paragraph was some imaginary inner monologue about the skinny bitch being filled with evil glee to see Hambo’s grotesque form looming in the mirror I doubt any of this really happened. Unless she’s psychic as well as a chonker.
If your self-worth is so precarious that a mundane remark by a friend (that you deeply resent because of their normal body) can tip you over the edge, it’s possible the problem is with you.
 
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