Alice Walker Wright / Alice Weaver Wright / Alice Ridley / partypantsNYC / Mercatur / nycaw - The morbidly obese raging alcoholic thieving owner of GOMI.

[RI 360]

Ha, I’m not Alice. I’m not sure how to prove that to you without revealing who I am, which I definitely don’t want to do. I’m also sure she reads these forums and will still know exactly who I am.

Maybe this was a mistake, coming here. It seems like anything but spewing hatred for her may not be tolerated.

I’m sorry to hear that your friend got hurt by her. She’s hurt me too, over and over and over. I don’t follow her on GOMI and am only vaguely aware of the bad things she’s said or done. But please don't think I’m here to defend her or make excuses, I just see her as a broken human, not an evil human. There is a difference.

What lies have you caught her in over the years? Like her mother being dead one day and alive the next, or her larping as a Jew, or giving her son up for adoption to a gay couple?

 

[SituationTypeThing]

I was never on GOMI I tried to join and Alice refused to let me get an account. I've always wondered why tbh!

Honestly it was originally Stephanie Nielson that got me interested. I fucking despise NieNie

As it is these days I much prefer here anyway

NieNie is what brought me to GOMI. I loathe her, she's the blogger I mentioned above who used to unironically wear a shirt that said "I did my best"

 

[Umaibae]

NieNie is what brought me to GOMI. I loathe her, she's the blogger I mentioned above who used to unironically wear a shirt that said "I did my best"

no1curr

Keep it about Alice, or don't post anything at all. This isn't your Twitter feed.

 

[Fliddaroonie]

no1curr

Keep it about Alice, or don't post anything at all. This isn't your Twitter feed.

I'm really confused with Alice. The naive part of me desperately wants to think one person cannot have that much cognitive dissonance. I mean, if you look at her IG feed, she is so, so desperate to be this person. But the person she's gagging to be is something/one she spent so long pillorying.

It's tragic, sad and pitiful in equal measure

 

[SituationTypeThing]

I'm really confused with Alice. The naive part of me desperately wants to think one person cannot have that much cognitive dissonance. I mean, if you look at her IG feed, she is so, so desperate to be this person. But the person she's gagging to be is something/one she spent so long pillorying.

It's tragic, sad and pitiful in equal measure

I think the addict side of things is providing the shift between personal desperation and the extreme bitchiness. I'd like to think her banning sprees are related to her being drunk/high at the time, but she'd have to be drunk/high around the clock. I think in either state of mind, the ability to ban/block people from her site is the only bit of power she has in her life.

Her original blogger hate that motivated her to start GOMI was probably motivated by jealousy. But the fact that she can't see how obvious her jealousy is is bewildering. I mean, nobody commits to matching their entire apartment (at least when she was in brooklyn) to the hipster blogger style, just for irony and giggles.

Sad, tragic, sure, but I find it hard to pity her because she's such a complete bitch.

 

[Rabbit Bones]

She's nearly 45 years old. If you don't have your shit sorted by 45, you're never going to have your shit sorted. Boo hoo, I did bad things and now everyone else must pay.

Pretty much this. By 45, you're not a 'cute' wino or a trendy party girl like she seems to think she is. You're a drunk. It isn't an adorably quirky character trait... it's an extremely destructive method of self medication. She seems to be a jealous, bitter cunt of a woman, who can't seem to accept herself for what she is. A below average looking woman who wasted her youth raging online at women who were happy with their lives, and now only has bingo wings, a sub-par leased apartment, and a child who has nothing to do with her to show for it.

 

[kirani90]

From Alice's stories last night, her second job is bartending at a gay bar. What an idea for someone with her history! And then there are snippets of her drunken conversation with a cab driver...this is gonna go well.

 

[Um...]

Watch her come out as gay next.

 

[kissbummer]

How is she affording her lifestyle as a bartender?

 

[Rabbit Bones]

A dumpy, middle aged drunk straight woman doesn't seem like the first (or second or third or fourth) option for who I would hire to bartend in my gay bar. I wonder how she managed that.

 

[StrawberryDouche]

It's like giving a bank robber the combination to the safe and leaving the front door unlocked.

Here are a couple of standard twinks with their standard middle aged fag hag.

 

[rocknrollmartian]

A dumpy, middle aged drunk straight woman

Isn't that the very definition of a "fag hag"?

 

[MirnaMinkoff]

Ha, I’m not Alice. I’m not sure how to prove that to you without revealing who I am, which I definitely don’t want to do. I’m also sure she reads these forums and will still know exactly who I am.

Maybe this was a mistake, coming here. It seems like anything but spewing hatred for her may not be tolerated.

I’m sorry to hear that your friend got hurt by her. She’s hurt me too, over and over and over. I don’t follow her on GOMI and am only vaguely aware of the bad things she’s said or done. But please don't think I’m here to defend her or make excuses, I just see her as a broken human, not an evil human. There is a difference.

You do understand that Alice runs a site that does nothing other than hate on women, right? She calls it “snark” but the incandescent hatred is quite clear in recent years. On GOMI the one person who can never be criticized is Alice, she even combs through reddit to try to proactively ban any GOMI accounts for thought crimes.

The fact that some forums brim with piss and vinegar for such a hypocritical bitch can be no surprise.

Don’t waste more years worrying about a narcissistic headcase because she was “cool” twenty years ago when getting naked online for money. Just think of this KF thread as what GOMI would be like if criticism of Alice wasn’t verboten

It's like giving a bank robber the combination to the safe and leaving the front door unlocked.

Here are a couple of standard twinks with their standard middle aged fag hag.

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Nah, those aren’t twinks just scrawny unattractive dudes.

 

[Rabbit Bones]

Isn't that the very definition of a "fag hag"?

Yeah but do gay men give a shit about fag hags? If I was a gay dude who went to a gay bar, I'd much rather have some hot dude serving me. Not a woman my moms age who looks like she got botoxed in a motel room. I can't imagine there's a shortage of attractive, gay bartenders in NYC.

 

[rocknrollmartian]

Yeah but do gay men give a shit about fag hags? If I was a gay dude who went to a gay bar, I'd much rather have some hot dude serving me. Not a woman my moms age who looks like she got botoxed in a motel room. I can't imagine there's a shortage of attractive, gay bartenders in NYC.

They can make the sad, dumpy hag do most of the grunt work so there's more time for gay bathroom hookups, I assume.

I love that Alice is working in a bar. A raging needy alcoholic surrounded by booze and excess--what could go wrong?

 

[Rabbit Bones]

They can make the sad, dumpy hag do most of the grunt work so there's more time for gay bathroom hookups, I assume.

I love that Alice is working in a bar. A raging needy alcoholic surrounded by booze and excess--what could go wrong?

They're going to be in for a shock when they end up with double the work because their work mule got shitfaced and starts screaming about random mommy bloggers in Utah to the confused gays.

 

[thejackal]

@MirnaMinkoff compared to the Farms' posters 90% of GOMI posts are just "oooh what a fat/lazy/crazy bitch" and then 500 words about how their kids, their hubby, their c section scar, their post partum weight is different and better and makes them so better better.

Alice's posts aren't much better. It's not insightful or cutting hate it's just HS level gossip for the most part.

 

[MirnaMinkoff]

Yeah but do gay men give a shit about fag hags? If I was a gay dude who went to a gay bar, I'd much rather have some hot dude serving me. Not a woman my moms age who looks like she got botoxed in a motel room. I can't imagine there's a shortage of attractive, gay bartenders in NYC.

If you go to the bar website they have a page that shows “staff” which is only attractive gay dudes, no Alice. I’d guess this bar is a way for an older gay couple to keep a bevy of hot younger dudes in their orbit. Alice is just a token who will only last until a hot bitchy gay male employee decides he hates her fat old fag hag ass.

@MirnaMinkoff compared to the Farms' posters 90% of GOMI posts are just "oooh what a fat/lazy/crazy bitch" and then 500 words about how their kids, their hubby, their c section scar, their post partum weight is different and better and makes them so better better.

Alice's posts aren't much better. It's not insightful or cutting hate it's just HS level gossip for the most part.

Oh I know, it’s the most pathetic and boring type of catty behavior - intense jealously cloaked as criticism from bitter women with inferiority complexes.

The blogging posts alone make half the GOMI posters cows.

 

[Dog Prom 3D]

Alice is a bartender. At a gay club. Of course she is, all Met Opera ladies tend the bar at night. And this is her second job? Please tell me GOMI isn't her first job. Please tell me she's an office temp who never gets offered a long-term gig, or she works from home fielding tech support issues.

She looks awful. Her face is absolutely bloated. Being around all that alcohol and bitchy gay men is going to destroy what's left of her physical and mental health.

 

[Rabbit Bones]

You can't even really access GOMI. I went to look at it, and got stuck in a redirect loop because I have Adblocker installed. I think realistically, the bar is probably her main job at this point.