What justifies her actions
No, what justifies YOUR actions...?
So she acted like a shit to you, so what? At what point does that ever justify what you did to her? More to the point, unless she's the same one who you tried to blackmail, that's two women you have acted like a shit towards while claiming to respect ALL women. And you haven't justified trying to blackmail that one, nor have you justified punishing someone for not going out with you...
You keep on claiming that you respect decent women... while showing that you are in no way a decent man. Let's be honest and apply your own standards to yourself...
You are not a decent man, therefore did not deserve to be respected as a person, therefore the way TFO acted towards you was justified.
Yes, I'm a "fool" who claims to respect all women while trying to blackmail one into a relationship... I'm a "fool" who thinks punishing someone for not getting into a relationship with you is a good thing. (and you thought it was a good thing BEFORE you discovered she was playing you for a fool... you had NO justification before that point, so you "respected" her by punishing her for being a person making a choice)
Just because you can come up with some justification after the fact, it doesn't mean what you did was right... since you DIDN'T KNOW IT AT THE TIME! And that is how we know you didn't respect women and certainly don't have any empathy...