Q1

o you look at peopel differenly due to weight?
Doesn't notice that people are fatter notices if they are skinnier
Most thin people are not receptive to fat people doing things that are "active"
"Beginning of New Years day thin people bitch about chubby people in their gym."
Q2: How do you help fat people in your life make their lives more acccessible?
When going out to eat making sure that they are aware if a place is fat-friendly.
Making sure they can be dropped off in front before finding parking spot.
Being mindful of things such as not being able to go up flights of stairs.
Making sure to walk slow FGF comments that when she gets "10 feet ahead she'll stop and wait ususally"
FGF Compares being as fat as she is to someone hurting an ankle and that people have to understand that being like her could happen to anyone.
Places being accessible is a part of her life. Let your fat friend choose what locomotion to use.
Q3: how do you field unhelpful advice about your body differences?
They don't get many comments, people are widly kind about their pictures cause they need to wildly prize a person being fat. In general they dont get compared. Should neutrally respond to negative comments. No one beleives they are sisters and FGF says she used to be extremely thin and they look "so fucking similar" at the moment its absurd
Q4: how do i make my thin freinds not think i'm lazy
Shes not lazy her sister just enjoys movement more then she does, but that doesnt mean shes more lazy. Sister says the movement she needs is not the movement FGF needs.
FGF states theres nothing wrong with being lazy if your thin, and that if a fat person's friend think a fat person is lazy they are not their friend.
q5: does it annoy you when someone thinner then you compalins about thier body?
"I feel so fat today" is triggering to all of them. "What they are saying is that when they feel like I am they do not feel good about themselves." Everyone gains and losing weight and if you dont understand that you need to look at the relationship you have with your body because this is what always happens to your body. Takes almost everything personal about how peopel think about their OWN bodies, but won't admit it.
Saying you Want to lose weight has nothing to do with losing weight and is only hurtful. Should say "I want to feel better about myself" instead since you will never lose the weight anyway, oh but you might lose it, but still it won't matter"
If they just talk about losing weight they are not your friend. It would them using an unhealthy activity to be more confindent in their bodies.
q6: are you scared to get fat?
No. (backpedals) I would only gain weight if something happened to me. Cause of weight gain would upset not the gaining of it.
FGF states that her sister only eats intuitively for what her body wants.
FGF Practicalities of gaining/losing weight is annoying for everyone.
FGF admits shes gaining weight with Jay and shes happy about it because its good to gain weight when happy.
Q7: How did you learn to be chill with fatness? or were you always accepting?
FGF states she used to say if she was ever fatter then 16 just kill me.
Her friends should have checked her when she said that, but they were shitty friends so they didnt.
FGF comments that her doctor told her 1200 calories a day is what she should be eating (They consider this deprevation status eating)
"Being thin does not mean your mentally happy."
FGF at kindest when fat, not nice when not eating. Dieting makes her struggle and be sad. So her sister and her know its bullshit to lose weight.
Q8: what do you get self conscious about?
Sis has a belly but FGF says its so cute. "Nobody cares about what you look like"
Q9: what has broken your heart most about COCO'S different life experience as a fat person?
Sis has privilege. She can blend in she can go into any situation with confidence because of bieng thin.
FGF Advertise IG sis coudlnt want the medical thing cause of how FGF was treated.
Scared docs will decide shes not worth it when she needs something. her and her family know fat bias doctors could mean her death.
Her and Jay want to adopt but they wont give babies to fat people because they can't because you have to be a certain BMI to adopt. And they won't her to do IVF. These boundaries exist because of bat bias doctors.
Q10: do you call out your friends for fat phobia? How can she do it better?
Yes. Baseline for friendship is treat all people with respect. FGF learnt about kidness and acceptance from her sister. Occasional fat joke, don't laugh so they get point to not do them.
Had a friend who spoke about her weight a lot (FGF scoffs) Had to get rid of friend because her values were bad. To make a fat joke is unoriginal and lame cliche.
This is not safe place to talk shit on fat people or marginalized groups.
FGF ideas for fatphobia stopping:
Everytime someone who loves a fat person is able to talk to someone it takes the work away from the fat person which makes their life easier. Be on look out for fat phobia, even minor instances and microaggression in yourself and others.
Allyship should lead by example discuss fat phobic things you saw so your fat friends know you see it too and so others can see its fucked up.
Thinspiration people private message her about how good her stuff is, but they wont publicly say it or admit thing arent same for fat people.
Loving someone who is fat will change your opinions about fat people.
Q11 : people who eat extremely healthy are they judging peope who are fat?
Healthy eating is done around weight loss and that is wrong. Diets have nothing to do with losing weight. Should be no values of food.
Culture of healthy eating is anti-fat.
q12 : iS BODY poisitive culture an attack on being thin?
Sis don't identify as thin. (FGF continually states she is Medium) Does not use labels fat or thin.
Thin bodies are not marginalized in anyway. Body positively should lean more towards fat acceptance so they can get clothes in stores. Fat people are opressed. Thin people having issues eating only 1200 calories should join body positiveity.
Got lost towards end when she started talking about saying it was annoying that peopel state "think about your daughers" when discussing rape. No idea why she went there.