Fat Acceptance Movement / Fat Girlcows

Finally getting around to watching Anna's AE haul video. It's pretty tame by her standards (ie she appears sober) but I just chortled a bit when her 1st "scenario" for the haul was "a holiday party with cute men". Anna is most likely a virgin by the way she acts. She has never, ever shown any romantic interest (male or otherwise) in her 5+ years online. She is basically a female incel. So of course you should take her advice on how to dress up for men. The outfit she chose of course isn't any good, as any men looking to go in for a quick feel and get to 3rd base under the mistletoe would have to iron and press her jeans off first:

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This look for a "girls' evening" makes her look like Barney.

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This look is flattering on her but it's for a 16-24 year old, not a 35 year old. Which duh, like if you were born in the 80s when's the last time you thought "boy I should go buy a bunch of American Eagle stuff". Probably not since about 2011. I mean, what's Abercrombie up to? Pac Sun? If a mid 30s 400lb woman showed up in wreath suspenders to a party I'm at hopefully she at least brought good drugs.

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And finally, you might think this jacket runs a bit "small" from when it's on her body:


Then you see it off...


Jesus, hope nobody else needs the coat rack at any holiday gathering she attends.
I just realized that she pulls a clever camera trick. She films with the camera at waist level, so her waistband is at the horizon and looks straight.
 
How is that view from the back even a human being. If you showed me that as a black and white image I would not identify it as a person. Your focus should not be on “being represented more often,” it should be on doing everything you can to resemble your own species.

Just...there ought to be a “no words for this” sticker. How can this be tagged #fatandfree? This woman is trapped in a giant prison of flesh and looks miserable.
 
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How is that view from the back even a human being. If you showed me that as a black and white image I would not identify it as a person. Your focus should not be on “being represented more often,” it should be on doing everything you can to resemble your own species.

My first instinct was that this was two fat people, sewn together or at least a single body mirrored and shopped that way, not a single human body in and of itself.

The woman must be in pain night and day and that photo says a lot of things to me, like 'self harm', 'self-hatred', and 'shame' .... I would never associate anything to do with freedom with the image of someone marrooned in a sea of body fat which is killing them.
 
So liberated, gasping and wheezing after walking 10 feet and nearly choking to death in your sleep. Having to order your tarps online. Jesus.

isnt jay like 22? I almost feel a little sad for them. They could be a nice kid if they’d stop drinking the FA kool aid and sure they’d have loose skin but they could undo some of the damage to their body
 
I am not familiar with fatlippodcast, but I assume this pic is a selfie of the person posting it, right? I have to ask because the caption gives the sense that she is talking about another person, "celebrating" someone else who is an infinityfat. But there is no attribution, and that bothers me almost as much as the photo horrifies me. It's a problem I am working on.

E: Also, does she not have clothes that fit her anymore?
 
I don’t know. According to Sierra, they are trying to conceive. Which is also a reason she made that dumb PCOS video crying that she can’t get pregnant. So he’s gotta still be into her? They have both gained weight since they got married:

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Reminder that Sierra is only 23 right now. She married that dude about two years ago.

Those photos look like they should be 15+ years apart, two slimmish young early twenty-something people returning to Disneyland now stout, blobby self-satisfied old marrieds in their late thirties. The reality is there is what .. three years or so between them. They have both lost their faces and figures to fat already. Sierra may not be ALR but she already has eaten herself to the figure of a 50-something who has given up on life. Matronly, to put it mildly.

As for permanent damage, well, Sierra already has triggered PCOS with her obesity. Again, she's only 23 and she's bloody huge for a 23 year old who was actually a reasonably healthy weight not THAT long ago. IF she continues to drink the FA kool-aid and deny there's any link between her health and her weight, she's going to be end up a super-fat in her thirties. She's young enough to nip all this nonsense in the bud now and take control of her weight and health instead of sperging out about body image for youtube bucks, and she certainly has the resources to do so, but I doubt she will. Like I said, I think she will be the size of LearningtobeFearless in very short order and the health problems will continue to compound as she does so.

Honestly I find people like Sierra way more confounding and frustrating than lost causes like ALR and Jay etc, because Sierra knows what it's like to be a normal weight, she has a decent family background and some education, and really has no need to glom onto all this FA nonsense. She has every chance of regaining control of weight and health if she makes the effort. She goes in the exact opposite direction though, and makes things worse for herself as well as influencing a lot of younger girls with her idiocy. ALR is a trainweck who pretty much everyone recognises is dying and idiotic. Sierra though is at that point where she isn't so far gone and still has the ability to lead other naive girls down the FA path.
 
Holy fuckballs, that tweet just makes me want to slap the shit out of her.

And you know she and all like her would lose their damned minds if someone were to post "and it's just a huge Q&A with my fat sister about our experiences in different bodies and asking her why fats are the way they are".

They're the way they are because people would have sex with them, Coco. Just like you're a bitter bitch because you're fat and no one will have sex with you.
 
Why thins are the way they are. Wow. Sounds like she’s really gearing up to make this less of a “sharing experiences” discussion and more of a “make my sister apologize for being thin” vid.

Why are fats the way they are? You see how moronic and insensitive that sounds?

Here’s why thins are the way they are: because they don’t eat double their recommended daily calories every single day. The end.
 
Pretty boring mainly the sister sucking up to everything FGF wants. I don't hate myself enough to edit this more I lived thru it once I cannot live through it again.

Susposedly offended even while "not fat" growing up when people said "it looks good your losing weight"

Sister says that if FGF is not complimented (on her weight loss? gain? looks?) every time she sees family it sets her up for failure cause she feels shes not doing good enough. Feels every family gathering is a test then of her strength to like herself.

Sis refers to herself as an ally to the fat people.

They continually compare that being insanely fat by choice is the same as someone having a disability that needs accessibility.

"YOUR MENTAL WELL BEING IS MORE IMPORTANT THEN YOUR PHYSICAL WELL BEING." (backpedals later to state weight instead)

By about half way thru I had completely decided that Kielbasa will be dinner tomorrow since her fingers look like giant sausages.

Summary of Q&A:
Q1:biggrin:o you look at peopel differenly due to weight?

Doesn't notice that people are fatter notices if they are skinnier
Most thin people are not receptive to fat people doing things that are "active"
"Beginning of New Years day thin people bitch about chubby people in their gym."

Q2: How do you help fat people in your life make their lives more acccessible?

When going out to eat making sure that they are aware if a place is fat-friendly.
Making sure they can be dropped off in front before finding parking spot.
Being mindful of things such as not being able to go up flights of stairs.
Making sure to walk slow FGF comments that when she gets "10 feet ahead she'll stop and wait ususally"

FGF Compares being as fat as she is to someone hurting an ankle and that people have to understand that being like her could happen to anyone.

Places being accessible is a part of her life. Let your fat friend choose what locomotion to use.

Q3: how do you field unhelpful advice about your body differences?

They don't get many comments, people are widly kind about their pictures cause they need to wildly prize a person being fat. In general they dont get compared. Should neutrally respond to negative comments. No one beleives they are sisters and FGF says she used to be extremely thin and they look "so fucking similar" at the moment its absurd

Q4: how do i make my thin freinds not think i'm lazy

Shes not lazy her sister just enjoys movement more then she does, but that doesnt mean shes more lazy. Sister says the movement she needs is not the movement FGF needs.
FGF states theres nothing wrong with being lazy if your thin, and that if a fat person's friend think a fat person is lazy they are not their friend.

q5: does it annoy you when someone thinner then you compalins about thier body?

"I feel so fat today" is triggering to all of them. "What they are saying is that when they feel like I am they do not feel good about themselves." Everyone gains and losing weight and if you dont understand that you need to look at the relationship you have with your body because this is what always happens to your body. Takes almost everything personal about how peopel think about their OWN bodies, but won't admit it.

Saying you Want to lose weight has nothing to do with losing weight and is only hurtful. Should say "I want to feel better about myself" instead since you will never lose the weight anyway, oh but you might lose it, but still it won't matter"

If they just talk about losing weight they are not your friend. It would them using an unhealthy activity to be more confindent in their bodies.

q6: are you scared to get fat?

No. (backpedals) I would only gain weight if something happened to me. Cause of weight gain would upset not the gaining of it.
FGF states that her sister only eats intuitively for what her body wants.
FGF Practicalities of gaining/losing weight is annoying for everyone.

FGF admits shes gaining weight with Jay and shes happy about it because its good to gain weight when happy.

Q7: How did you learn to be chill with fatness? or were you always accepting?

FGF states she used to say if she was ever fatter then 16 just kill me.
Her friends should have checked her when she said that, but they were shitty friends so they didnt.

FGF comments that her doctor told her 1200 calories a day is what she should be eating (They consider this deprevation status eating)

"Being thin does not mean your mentally happy."

FGF at kindest when fat, not nice when not eating. Dieting makes her struggle and be sad. So her sister and her know its bullshit to lose weight.

Q8: what do you get self conscious about?

Sis has a belly but FGF says its so cute. "Nobody cares about what you look like"

Q9: what has broken your heart most about COCO'S different life experience as a fat person?

Sis has privilege. She can blend in she can go into any situation with confidence because of bieng thin.

FGF Advertise IG sis coudlnt want the medical thing cause of how FGF was treated.
Scared docs will decide shes not worth it when she needs something. her and her family know fat bias doctors could mean her death.

Her and Jay want to adopt but they wont give babies to fat people because they can't because you have to be a certain BMI to adopt. And they won't her to do IVF. These boundaries exist because of bat bias doctors.

Q10: do you call out your friends for fat phobia? How can she do it better?

Yes. Baseline for friendship is treat all people with respect. FGF learnt about kidness and acceptance from her sister. Occasional fat joke, don't laugh so they get point to not do them.
Had a friend who spoke about her weight a lot (FGF scoffs) Had to get rid of friend because her values were bad. To make a fat joke is unoriginal and lame cliche.

This is not safe place to talk shit on fat people or marginalized groups.

FGF ideas for fatphobia stopping:
Everytime someone who loves a fat person is able to talk to someone it takes the work away from the fat person which makes their life easier. Be on look out for fat phobia, even minor instances and microaggression in yourself and others.

Allyship should lead by example discuss fat phobic things you saw so your fat friends know you see it too and so others can see its fucked up.

Thinspiration people private message her about how good her stuff is, but they wont publicly say it or admit thing arent same for fat people.

Loving someone who is fat will change your opinions about fat people.

Q11 : people who eat extremely healthy are they judging peope who are fat?

Healthy eating is done around weight loss and that is wrong. Diets have nothing to do with losing weight. Should be no values of food.

Culture of healthy eating is anti-fat.

q12 : iS BODY poisitive culture an attack on being thin?

Sis don't identify as thin. (FGF continually states she is Medium) Does not use labels fat or thin.

Thin bodies are not marginalized in anyway. Body positively should lean more towards fat acceptance so they can get clothes in stores. Fat people are opressed. Thin people having issues eating only 1200 calories should join body positiveity.

Got lost towards end when she started talking about saying it was annoying that peopel state "think about your daughers" when discussing rape. No idea why she went there.
 
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