Btw, do you watch porn? So if yes--which considering how you think, I think the answer is yes-- explain to me why women who act in porn are sexually desirable despite the fact they have dozens on sexual partners but if a man marries a woman outside of the framework of patriarchy she's dirty/slutty? That's an American paradox I'd love to see answered.
The porn industry is a multi billion dollar industry that American men back with $$$ but if any man married a woman who isn't a virgin or who has been married before it's not sexually desirable. Go ahead, explain your sexist paradox