She didn't say "kill yourself" or intend to. It was clearly meant to say "drop it." She would've come out and explained herself, but everyone jumped on her throat just because you all went looking for a reason to hate her. I know subtext a whole fucking lot more than you do, because I fucking studied it, and can appreciate shades of grey. Actually applying myself and reading for fun will help a lot with that.
Shiloh never stole pictures of dead babies. That was fucking Greg who did that to plant the image of "Shiloh is a crazy liar who can't be trusted," remember? She also never told anyone to dox the dissenters, and even said "I have no ill will towards this person." There's no proof that these people were ever actually doxxed, and that they didn't just lie because they wanted to attack Shiloh and gain clout and sympathy with fake crocodile tears. The "I'll find out where you live" has very likely been faked.
Shiloh said she wants to heal privately. Give her a fucking chance. If you're looking for apologies, she can only give them after a long period of self-reflection and actually mean it. Saying it right now is fucking meaningless, and you all know it, because you would've jumped on her for being "not sorry enough" and "not sincere enough." She's damned if she does, damned if she doesn't.
Meanwhile, everyone is supposed to be focused on Greg and Lainey, Greg and Lainey, Greg and Lainey. They and their actions are what matters now. If they ever get off and whatever investigation there is derailed, it's not because of Shiloh, it's because you dropped the ball and focused on Shiloh, with the intent of sowing division among everyone, when you should've kept a united front. My advice? If you have differences, put them aside for the good of the shared mission, work together to achieve it, then after it ends (whatever way that is), then say your piece and bitch and moan to your heart's content. For now, keep the center and work with everyone. Especially Shiloh.