Okay hey, so... I've turned you down twice now and I think I did it pretty gently. Since you're still double and triple tagging me, I guess I have to get firm about this. Pamela, a man's 'no' is not negotiable, and I should not have to repeat myself. When you say things like you're going to cry yourself to sleep because I won't sleep with you, this is what's commonly known as 'emotional blackmail', and while it isn't on the same level as rape or coercion, it's still extremely manipulative and does take advantage of societal power imbalances, and it's a downright shitty thing to do. I am not responsible for your emotional well-being, and I do not owe you sex. I'm not going to kick up a big fuss over this or anything, but as a feminist I expected better of you. A huge part of feminism isn't just fighting for the rights and privileges you deserve as a woman, it's also standing up and demanding to be held to the same moral and legal standards as a man would.
So for the third time, I'm very flattered, and I'm perfectly happy to continue talking to you, but I am not in any way interested in you sexually and I'd kindly ask you to drop the subject. Thank you.
