Honestly, looking through things, I believe that was her goal all along. To get him to completely submit to her.
Earlier in the thread, the screenshots where she shittalks Ian to her discord, I notice she never complains of him being controlling, which you know she would if she had any reason to. Everything she complains about is stuff that's completely normal (save for the dirty room), him focusing on his job. It's like she wants him to do nothing but serve her every need, any time. She seems incredibly manipulative to me. Especially with those streams where she cries crocodile tears to earn money or get people to stop criticizing her.
I'm incredibly interested to see if she dumps Ian any time soon. What a shitshow that would bring! But since her onlyfans isn't doing so great, I doubt she will. Sad.