The concept of the Force was never that of a space god who decides the fate of the galaxy, it is the energy of all life in the universe, an ecosystem with the same concept of "life" that a forest, the planet's climate or the human body has, without only provides an "institutional response" to disturbances in its equilibrium point
Our body kills several cells and eliminates several organisms to always maintain a healthy state, nobody calls the body itself a monster for this reason, just as there are climatic changes and natural disasters, no one blames the planet for affecting human life with its " will"
Kreia went through the path of Sith and Jedi and decided to blame the Force for human nature for abusing the power it has, as if destroying the Force was to "fix" the galaxy, it is bitter and spiteful because it projects all the blame on the power it used and not herself
the Force does not control the Jedi, in fact the ideal would be that nobody would use Force to avoid disturbances, the Jedi only exist to fight those who abuse the Force and build a galaxy that no longer needs them, but they are not exempt from abusing either and end up wanting go beyond their function and the price of the "balance sheet" is expensive since they continue to use the Force for their purposes, even though they are mostly benevolent
Christianity has free will as the only limitation that God imposes himself for a reason, no one is responsible for his decisions besides you, especially if you will try to blame the stars, planets, trees and wind for your decisions
Lily only wants to blame someone since she is never guilty of anything, it is always the "authority" that demands her attitude
