Shy Hard 2: Shy Harder

5) I haven't seen much of this from him! Maybe Enginehead has changed his stance? She was like his angel.

He hasn't been able to name one thing he likes about her. He's only been able to list the things that he's glad that she doesn't do. It's all framed in negatives, nothing positive.

Fonduman = nice guy

He's not nice, he's a "nice guy." He's an entitled brat that looks down on an entire gender. All of his interactions with women are treated as a transaction. Fouduman does X, therefore women owe him Y. He refuses to treat women as actual people. There's nothing nice about that behavior.

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Enginehead is perfect for him lol

Only if she's a awful person who deserves a life of misery and emotional isolation. I don't know, maybe she is.
 
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@IceCat, do you still consider Elliot Rodgers to be an anti-hero?
 
he's never come across as one of these entitled bastards to me
Enginehead certainly does not think so she thinks the world of him

you're coming off as butthurt loser here Virgin with a Cage

@IceCat, do you still consider Elliot Rodgers to be an anti-hero?
in a way I do

I realize I may not 'fit in' around here, I'll admit
I just wanted to drop a quick comment or 2 really

So yes, I understand my time here may be short-lived
 
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he's never come across as one of these entitled bastards to me
After this exchange
@IceCat, do you still consider Elliot Rodgers to be an anti-hero?
in a way I do
let's just be succinct and say that your judgement and observational skills are extremely poor. If you think that Elliot Rodger is even a bit of a hero you wouldn't be able to recognize an entitled bastard even if one hit you in the face.
 
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he's never come across as one of these entitled bastards to me
Enginehead certainly does not think so she thinks the world of him

you're coming off as butthurt loser here Virgin with a Cage

This isn't the Loveshy forum, we don't have a Thunderdome, don't insult other users.

In what way do you consider Elliot Rodgers an anti-hero? And what's your opinion of Fschmidt?
 
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yeh well I think he is...

Enginehead is perfect for him lol

2) I think he can grasp it, however he will likely remain silent if he does. He's not a full-on crazy!

Which is rather sad when you think about it that "not being full-on crazy" indeed makes him one of the nicer guys on there.
Baseline of comparison and all that.

3) You know what I don't think he does do this? I think the guy honestly hurting over his appearance. Yup, he's a fatty but he registers this - and of course he NEVER expected stunners.

Have you ever read his Bad Boys Evopsych rants and how nice guys finish last? He should at least start wearing better clothes, I've known guys with his mass who wore it 10x better.

4) I can kinda believe stuff like that sometimes...

Have you watched that video I linked about babies being aerodynamic because we used to catapult them from town to town?
Evopsych suffers from the problem that it tries to explain data in hindsight without it being testable.

Take "eggs are expensive, sperm is cheap": sounds great, intuitive and therefore must be true. Only... look at bonobos and you see that it's bullshit. Everyone fucks everyone. Chances are therefore that you just tried to explain artificial social norms by "it's just nature!". Maybe you're not, but you can't be sure, making your hypothesis worthless.

5) I haven't seen much of this from him! Maybe Enginehead has changed his stance? She was like his angel.
You should read his posts on this forum. He didn't change one bit.

6) I read through that thread and he seemed one of LEAST crazy. I think he voted Rapists were more hated? Roughly half of LS.com voted that Incels were more hated so he can't be THAT bad. You a fan of Ethnocide? Did you see the shit he was writing?

"Rape is hated, but rapists not so much, I think what's hated most is sexual advances from incels"

"Don't ask them what they think of rape as a concept, ask them what they think about specific examples of rapists"

We again run into a baseline of comparison problem. I'm comparing him to the people I like to hang out with in real life, and you're comparing him to other posters on LS. "Not being the worst" doesn't make you a good guy in my book.

Spoiler: I'm not a fan of ethnocide either.

Fonduman = nice guy, with perhaps little chip on his shoulder to me. I would love to hang out with the guy, I find him interesting and I think would have a laugh.

To be honest, I think I would too. I just wouldn't discuss politics with him. But since that's been 100% of our interactions (seeing as we're posting on forums to discuss shit), I don't think I'll change my opinion just yet.
 
I believe I explained my opinion in the thread you yourself copied onto this forum

Heh, yeah, good times.

Ok, new questions. What are your thoughts on interracial dating and marriage? Also, we've noticed that a number of Loveshies (Marjan, half of the SlutHate forum) think 12-year old prostitutes are a good idea. Do you agree?
 
@IceCat , why don't we stop mouthing the bait and take a step back from this "u/no u" exchange? Rather, let's see if we can extract some knowledge from the cautionary misadventures of your friend fonduman.

People who buy their own hype - or who respond in a defensive, reactive fashion when their ideas are challenged - tend to have a difficult time around here. On the other side of the coin, this forum's culture is almost astonishingly well-disposed toward self-improvement.

During his time as spherical-cow-in-residence at the kiwi farms, @mooooo claimed his degrees in physics and software engineering made him a credible authority on sundry matters pertaining to science, all the while uncritically defending some abysmal tripe. When it emerged that he'd washed out of his physics degree program with poor grades and had to pick up a masters in software engineering from a program with low admissions standards in order to be employable, he seemed ridiculous. When he further claimed he was justified in belittling others and diminishing their accomplishments because he was intrinsically the superior person, this made him seem very low indeed. He went after @Rammspieler in a particularly unbecoming way; although these remarks were expunged during thread clean-up, they were so revealing as to be almost poignant.

Yes, fonduman might seem nice to you; after all, you don't appear to challenge him. But here, he behaved like the kind of person who snuggles down in a fetid nest of rotten laurels and tells himself they're rose petals, all the while taking potshots at other people as they try to get ahead. No matter what the dubious merits of his ideas or whether Enginehead loves him, that's a very unattractive way to be.

I've been sitting on that spherical cow crack since January. Boy howdy, what a life I lead.
 
Tbh I don't really like interracial dating or marriage much, but I understand that it happens and when it does happen I don't go out of my way to hate on it.

I do NOT think 12 yr old prostitutes are good idea, not at all. I think Marjan (I thought his real name was Alexus?) and sluthate posters are idiots, losers and scumbags.

O and as for Fschmidt tbh I think he's quite an OK guy. Old fashioned, and quite honourable seeming in my eyes. I like his stance on religion, as I am somewhat of a Christian myself - that is I read and try to follow the Bible, even if I don't strongly believe in all the myth and divinity behind it. What lets down Fscmidt in my eyes is his alliance with Marjan, and I often jokingly chide him by saying it's a shame he has allied himself with him (a total clown basically) as it cheapens and hurts everything he says.

Yes it's true I've never really challenged fonduman, maybe that's why. But as for Ramm, I heard many ppl fell out with him, but I don't know why. I'm friends with another guy (that used to post as Hardliner), who said Ramm went to imdb.com, where Hardliner used to post, to laugh at him with guys he used to post with.
 
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It looks like if anybody had a falling out with Ramm, it was because he stopped blaming his problems on the world (and women as a whole) and took responsibility for his life. These are actually admirable traits, and it seems many of the loveshy crowd wants to drag him down for cleaning himself up and dealing with reality like a man.
 
Tbh I don't really like interracial dating or marriage much, but I understand that it happens and when it does happen I don't go out of my way to hate on it.
The fuck is wrong with you, man.
I do NOT think 12 yr old prostitutes are good idea, not at all. I think Marjan (I thought his real name was Alexus?) and sluthate posters are idiots, losers and scumbags.
You'll probably have a better experience here if you go share a laugh at their expense over on their thread, rather than entrenching yourself where you stand now.
O and as for Fschmidt tbh I think he's quite an OK guy. Old fashioned, and quite honourable seeming in my eyes. I like his stance on religion, as I am somewhat of a Christian myself - that is I read and try to follow the Bible, even if I don't strongly believe in all the myth and divinity behind it. What lets down Fscmidt in my eyes is his alliance with Marjan, and I often jokingly chide him by saying it's a shame he has allied himself with him (a total clown basically) as it cheapens and hurts everything he says.
You claim the bible's your thing, so why not have a think on Proverbs 17:28? Your post gets worse every time you edit it.
Yes it's true I've never really challenged fonduman, maybe that's why. But as for Ramm, I heard many ppl fell out with him, but I don't know why. I'm friends with another guy (that used to post as Hardliner), who said Ramm went to imdb.com, where Hardliner used to post, to laugh at him with guys he used to post with.
Why should I give a crap about this. If you want to have a loveshy Kaffeeklatsch, you weird biddies can gossip amongst yourselves on your own forum.

Or hell, I don't care - why not stay here, partake of our delicious bait, shit yourself and do nothing? Welcome to the kiwi farms.
 
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That's funny, because all Marijan can do is parrot fschmidt. Do the same beliefs suddenly become more crazy because they're said by Marijan instead of fschmidt?
no he does not.

Fschmidt is actually a practising, church going and following Orthodox Jew. He does not believe in such things like 12 yr old prostitutes etc. like Marjan does.

The fuck is wrong with you, man.

You'll probably have a better experience here if you go share a laugh at their expense over on their thread, rather than entrenching yourself where you stand now.

You claim the bible's your thing, so why not have a think on Proverbs 17:28? Your post gets worse every time you edit it.

Why should I give a crap about this. If you want to have a loveshy Kaffeeklatsch, you weird biddies can gossip amongst yourselves on your own forum.

Or hell, I don't care - why not stay here, partake of our delicious bait, shit yourself and do nothing? Welcome to the kiwi farms.
I really didn't understand most of what you said here
Or I don't understand why you don't understand maybe
 
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