@Ron Toye "The Road to Hell is paved with good intentions." I think a lot of this would have been better handled behind the scenes.
How much has this ruined everyone involved? Look at the Funi voice leaks. Look at everyone being into your past.
Had everyone tried to talk this out and be honest about how they felt when it happened, you could all be in a happier position.
We are definitely happy you haven't had a violent problem with Monica but how much better would it be for you if that didn't even cross anyone's mind?
Honestly, everyone who has been involved in this personally seems to have come out a loser in one way or another.