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- Apr 15, 2019
Well, that is understandable, but why rush to get married? Also, we both have insane schedules. Getting married really only is a piece of paper and some additional tax benefits. I love her the same and she loves me the same married or not. We wanted to do it this winter but the lawsuit happened and then Covid. But, one day, we will get married, when the time is right.
@Ron Toye Why get married at all? You've been through this twice. The woman you marry ends up not being the woman you are married to. You should be well acquainted with how costly and painful divorce is for a man. Not to mention a disgruntled spouse can use the court filings to lie, defame and damage your career. It would behoove you to tread carefully in this situation. Your fiancee wrecked a man's life on a dime. She could very easily turn on you and then the next crusade would be #RuinRon, #HimToo.
What was the driving factor to you getting engaged to Monica? Was it primarily family pressure? Pressure from her? Was it external or something you wanted to do?
What prompted Monica to get fit and improve her lifestyle? I find this telling. (1) Woman is a subject of harassment. Woman's self esteem takes a hit and she lets her looks to to deter harassment. (2) Source of harassment removed. Woman's self esteem improves. Woman takes care of herself. Or there could be a reason that wouldn't be beneficial to you. Time will tell.