I don't know what to say 06/04/20 - "not at the beginning stage"

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At 2:40 she says 'As hard as this is I just want keep trying to live my normal life'. Then she says, 'I just want to put my energy into other people who need it, like Becky and her mom.' Earlier in the video at 1:43 she says, 'And I think, the reason I'm really scared is because of my weight; which is also my fault, so. .it's just. . .' and then she trails off but it seems she is aware she probably needs to lose weight to get the surgery, and it sounds like she currently is treating this as a death sentence. She ends the video crying that she wants her mommy, and that she has no idea where her dad is.

I just keep thinking of her smug smile from 2 days ago about how her Hymen was intact as she implores all women to 'Please, if you're a woman, just go to the gyno.'

My aunt's going through ovarian cancer treatments right now, so I hope your friends give you the support you're going to need. . .

ETA: Oh shit, I didn't think about all her urinary and bladder issues going back to last fall possibly being indicative that it's already spread. . .
 
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I wished there were more PSAs against obesity to help prevent stuff like this. I hope the Fat Acceptance Movement is happy for stopping those PSAs because we now have this. I hope when others hear "I just wished I had my mom." from her, they will eat healthier and drink more water and less sugary drinks to avoid cancer.
 
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Okay, uterine cancer is nothing to laugh at, but at least it hasn't spread. Yes, cancer sucks. Uterine cancer sucks. But there are treatments.

Also, I don't want to be that gal, but does she have cysts? Are they malignant, or benign? I could see her hearing that she has a benign tumor or two and then taking her doctor completely out of context.

She wants her Mom?? Seriously?
 
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Can't say I didn't see this coming a mile away, but at the same time I do feel a minuscule amount of pity for her. Cancer's a real bitch - one of my neighbours went through the chemo process and it left her reeling for weeks. How the hell Hamber here is going to cope with what's most likely going to come is beyond me (if she's telling the truth about this, that is).
 
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Uterine cancer almost never kills anybody. It’s just slightly more dangerous than skin cancer. She’ll have to have her uterous yanked, of course, but they can do that through the vagina. She is highly unlikely to need chemo.

Although, since she’s never gone she could be at a later stage but it’s such a slow growing cancer...she’ll be fine. No gravestones yet.
 
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Okay, uterine cancer is nothing to laugh at, but at least it hasn't spread. Yes, cancer sucks. Uterine cancer sucks. But there are treatments.

Also, I don't want to be that gal, but does she have cysts? Are they malignant, or benign? I could see her hearing that she has a benign tumor or two and then taking her doctor completely out of context.

She wants her Mom?? Seriously?
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She won't know yet if it's spread. They can't know that without taking more specimens. The D&C she had done was just to check for cancer cells in the uterine lining, they know now via scans and samples that she had uterine cancer, but they won't know the severity or the spread until they go in to remove the tissue.

She really didn't give us a ton of information, so we'll have to wait on an update to have a better idea her mortality. But honestly at her size, even going for a straightforward hysterectomy is complicated.
 
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