I don't know what to say 06/04/20 - "not at the beginning stage"

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could be over the phone cause of covid. idk though
Kentucky has reopened and I don't think they closed again.

I feel like she was being honest about what she believes is the truth, but also that she may have gone straight to worst case scenario when really they found precancerous cells or something abnormal and just want to take another scraping.
 
I feel like she was being honest about what she believes is the truth, but also that she may have gone straight to worst case scenario when really they found precancerous cells or something abnormal and just want to take another scraping.
It really is LiesByJen 2.0, she got treated for endometriosis and possible "pre-cancerous" cells and all she got was an IUD.
 
To everyone talking about chemo, she's probably going to get a hysterectomy and possibly an oophorectomy at worst case. No chemo.
Okay... Possibly a week or two of chemo if her tests still indicate cancerous cells after surgery. But in cases like this, it's best to try a clean surgical removal first. Possibly some radiation.
 
PL but everyone mentioning it doesn't sound right that she got a call.
I had cancer. How I found out first was through my EOB from a surgery I had just had to remove the rest of my thyroid. The eob said Malignancy of the Thyroid as diagnosis. My heart dropped.
The same day my surgeon's office called to tell me. My ENT surgeon took out a huge tumor that didn't look right. He sent it off. They got me into the office the next day to discuss options.

That's how it worked with me. But since she doesn't have insurance she wouldn't have gotten a letter. It would have been a phone call from a physician.
For pre-cancerous cells I have no idea. It's entirely possible that's what she was told.
 
I am bothered by the way she found out. Did she say she got a call? I believe her reaction is 100% real, and she is in a panic, but in my experience, they don't call you and tell you that you have cancer. It is really nerve wracking, but usually you have to wait for an in-person visit with the surgeon for results, even if it is benign. If anyone else has any insight to this, please enlighten me.
After waiting on biopsy results, I too, have gotten a phone call to confirm cancer. My reaction probably looked a lot like Ambers. Though my cancer was a relatively easy fix as far as cancers go, I doubt they would have called for a brain tumor. Maybe a phonecall says something about the severity of Amber's cancer.
 
They were up in her uterus not too long ago,so I think they could sit at a desk with her.

Yeah but that was emergency surgery. My state has reopened for the most part and you still do most medical visits over the phone unless it's something urgent. They can tell her she has cancer over the phone but obviously she will have to go in for treatment and shit
 
She might fit into a PET machine but she's on the upper end of the weight limit. There is a possibility that Amber is over reacting honestly... they don't diagnose cancer over the phone, they tell you they've found some abnormal findings and start booking appointments.
I'm gonna be doing a lot of speculating here, but since Al was seen for this at an Emergency Clinic, and since it my understanding that she has no regular GP, add to that her absolute ignorance demonstrated by allowing her medical issues to become so bad...
It seems to me that there was no Family Practitioner to send the results to, who normally would give Amber the news, it is quite possible that they purposely gave her the Cx diagnoses over the phone, in hopes that it may scare her enough to follow-up and grow up.
 
Amber if you don't make it
put your body to good use: donate your organs or your whole body as a cadaver for research. Would be interesting to see how a brain addicted to orange chicken looks like
as harsh as that sounds I'm being dead serious do something to at least battle against not only cancer but Eating disorders or mental health.
 
Holy shit... here I thought she would confirm the beetus

2020 don't fuck around

Go big or go home.

I would have guessed that she would have first "minor" health problems. Like Diabetes or high blood pressure, maybe loosing a toe due to it. But not he big C in her dainty c.

I also believe that her UTI stuff was a signal.
 
I’m not saying she doesn’t actually have cancer, however are we sure it’s not just ‘cancerous cells’ that were found?
I say this becauseI know someone who had cancerous cells found in the cervix and they just did surgery to remove that part of the cervix and put in a IUD to prevent more abnormal cell growth.
im wondering if this could be the same thing in the uterus?
i don’t feel sorry for her at all, and quite frankly, I think she is embellishing the truth. She needed a winning hand to get out of the hole she dug herself on her channel and her usual trollbaiting bullshit.
having cancerous cells is having cancer. I think your friend had pre-cancerous cells (dysplasia) that were concerning enough to act upon. Cells mutate over time to become cancer, but there is some space between abnormal and cancerous. The person who judges the difference is a cytologist, and it is all they do. All day long, looking at cells and grading the degree of abnormality.

an FYI for anyone who cares about her cancer- if it hasn't spread, total hysterectomy may be all that is needed to treat this. She is gonna need a lot of tests to figure out what is needed. Because of that, regardless of what treatment she needs, she is going to be totally financially ruined. If she had just bought health insurance she would have a chance at not losing everything, but she will 100% end up with a bankruptcy if she lives through it (and chances are that she will live through it, she doesn't have something like liver or pancreatic cancer).
 
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