Stephanie Cianfriglia / Sapphire Crimson Claw / Yarrow Brown / the-ghost-fucker / transmascdruid / anarchoenby77 / darktwistedpussy / Druid of Endicot - Xe/xyr ghost-fucker, womb wizard, hand sanitizer sommelier, trans-boomer, violently abuses her elderly parents, has sexual fantasies about raping children

[WinchesterPremium]

I’m late on this but I truly don’t understand the urge to shove potentially upsetting/disruptive shit in the face like wearing a “queer” shirt to see a dying man.

Spoiler: PL

I say this as a homo who has lost family over it too, but not on purpose to prove I could.

It would be one thing if he were like, alive and well and they were close and she had a serious girlfriend and wanted him to meet her, even knowing that he may struggle to “get” it or approve. It’s another entirely to wear a shirt specifically to make a dying man feel uncomfortable. It’s so bizarrely selfish and chip-on-the-shoulder-y.

Spoiler: PL-ish spergery

I also just can’t understand walking into a situation that is not going to have any homophobia in it and trying to set things up to ensure homophobia will happen. Like Jesus Christ, Steph, tell on yourself more.

Edit: “I’m not giving up this movement.” You don’t do anything for the movement, Steph, and that’s fine, I guess, but you’re not exactly one to stand bravely among the ruin. Go out and fucking protest, it’s happening in historic numbers. Give some of your pins-and-tincture money to a bail fund or a mutual aid fund. Call your representatives! Do jail support, do phone banking, contact mutual aid, contact your local union, donate to a covid bail fund, do the dishes for the people who are actually doing things. Do something, Christ on a cross.

Spoiler: Again tho

fuck the police

Spoiler

#BlueLivesMatter. Staph should go to the riots just so every side can join hands and laugh at her. Imagine just a moment of peace as she tries to throw a "spell" jar full God knows what at a police line, drops it on herself, then speds out. Everyone pointing and laughing at her as one organism.

Here's the thing, Stephanie.

You are not trans. You really, genuinely are just a self hating woman.

Spoiler: a smidge of PL

I spend most of my day around LGBT people, and a lot of trans people in particular. I've introduced all of them to Stephanie and shown them her own posts pertaining to gender and sexuality, and they've all come to the same conclusion: that she's a liar and trying to worm into the community for brownie points on her oppression card. If 6 different trans people both MtF and FtM of varying social and political stances and standing from separate fucking countries look at you, look at the way you talk about things, and all go "hmmm this reeks of a trender", you should maybe take a step back and evaluate yourself.

We know you're not trans. YOU know you're not trans. You make it a point to wear feminine clothing, all your made up genders have "femme" or "neutral" attached to them, you freaked out at the concept of being mistaken for male, you. are. not. trans.

You are an overweight 31yo with the mentality of a teenager who hates her body and herself and would dive into a community she doesn't belong in rather than try to improve. You have expressed over and over a wish to return to the body you had in high school because you don't want a gender neutral body, you just miss being thin and acceptable looking instead of looking like a wad of pale, uncooked dough in a trashy wig.

You hate yourself, and you manifest that hate outwardly, lashing out at everyone around you and trying to force your way into spaces that actively reject you.

Things could be so much easier for you if you just accepted that you hate yourself and committed to some fucking self improvement, but you'd really rather make LGBT spaces unsafe and uncomfortable by forcing your way in and shouting down the people who belong there telling you to get out.

Is there anything real about her? Her identity revolves around being an "NB witch" when she is demonstratively neither. I've been trying to determine just how serious she is about the witchy parts. Its hard to tell how much is just LARP and how much is legitimately believing in spiritual nonsense. She like...started gardening and occasionally taking trips to the forest, but this hobby directly ties into being "witchy". Her theology is all over the place and consists mainly of Tumblr reblogs from edgy teens. When she talks about her ghost husbandos, her demons, her spells does she really convince herself it is real or does she know on some level its just playing pretend? She doesn't seem to bothered by the failure of all her spells, I can't think of anything that she prayed for that actually worked out for her.

Aside from that she has politics...but her political ideas almost entirely tie into her "NB witch" identity. They're also incredibly shallow and, much like her theology, all over the place and contradictory. She's an anarchist! Tear down the government! Also she's a socialist! Government programs for everyone! She thinks white supremacists exist as a force capable of great destruction like riots and follows true crime but wants to abolish police systems. She doesn't have any real idea of how she would implement any of her supposed political ideas, puts only the most lazy effort into supporting them, and if she somehow was given vast political power she would be incredibly confused and just do whatever someone else told her to. Its not like she is a legit anarchosocalist who has some idea of what her ideal society would be like. She says she's a socialist because everyone on Tumblr/Mastadon does. She says she's an anarchist because everyone else in her circle does. She treats politics as part of her aesthetic, the same way she treats genders. I'm sure any political debate or discussion she managed to get in would just be repeating other people's talking points.

Take away her fake identities, fake abuse, fake mental illness, fake disabilities, and every other fake part of her all you're left with is a faker.

 

[ooglywoogly]

everything is about the optics for staph. identifying as "gothgender" or whatever the hell, wearing exclusively shirts and pins proclaiming her various identities, the performative activism, claiming to be a victim and disabled, the witchy spirituality with crystals and herbs... none of it has any real substance beyond the surface level. everything is for the aesthetic. yarrow, more like hollow.

 

[Hamplanet Fitness]

 

[Ellesse_warrior]

'My vagina never properly grew in' is a great random text

 

[Cogsworth 2: Overclock]

Which is is, Staph? You could menstruate, offer period blood to lilith, violently finger yourself enough to hurt yourself and put your 'fluids' on the edges of bowls, have a double XL urethra that makes you piss yourself all the time and were able to fuck a college professor and then claim that he raped you, OR you don't have a vaginal tunnel or distinct urethra (whatever that means) and are too tight for sex or fingers.

Choose ONE and stick with it.

 

[Boris Blank's glass eye]

Which is is, Staph? You could menstruate, offer period blood to lilith, violently finger yourself enough to hurt yourself and put your 'fluids' on the edges of bowls, have a double XL urethra that makes you piss yourself all the time and were able to fuck a college professor and then claim that he raped you, OR you don't have a vaginal tunnel or distinct urethra (whatever that means) and are too tight for sex or fingers.

Choose ONE and stick with it.

She won't. She's probably a scatophile, that's why she's so preoccupied with POO POO PEE PEE. She, however, would never admit this, and needs something to make her sooper speshul, preferably in the same part of the body, to justify bringing it up so often.

 

[Piga Dgrifm]

Which is is, Staph? You could menstruate, offer period blood to lilith, violently finger yourself enough to hurt yourself and put your 'fluids' on the edges of bowls, have a double XL urethra that makes you piss yourself all the time and were able to fuck a college professor and then claim that he raped you, OR you don't have a vaginal tunnel or distinct urethra (whatever that means) and are too tight for sex or fingers.

Choose ONE and stick with it.

Whatever makes her the most special is what's true.

 

[Don Dyker]

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I love that even in her telling only her friend was actually interested in going to the heart of pride (Greenwich Village, Christopher St. specifically). Steph was there for Oreos and body paint and feeling special. What’s her claim to gayness, anyways? Why would an “aro-ace” person want anything to do with Pride? Whatever.

She is right about the crowds tho. That was insane.

'My vagina never properly grew in' is a great random text

The ultimate “weird flex but ok.”

 

[BoobWhiskers]

Honest question, but does anyone else out there honestly mind that much at accidentally being called the wrong gender? I understand for honestly dysphoric trans people who are working hard to pass as one end of the binary and getting called the opposite, but for someone like Stapphy who actively WANTS to be closer to masculine than her birth sex dictates I don't get why she freaks harder at being mistaken for a man than most cis women would.

I mean, maybe she's freaking out because they're mistaking her due to her being UGLY, but that's neither here nor there.

 

[Ellesse_warrior]

Honest question, but does anyone else out there honestly mind that much at accidentally being called the wrong gender? I understand for honestly dysphoric trans people who are working hard to pass as one end of the binary and getting called the opposite, but for someone like Stapphy who actively WANTS to be closer to masculine than her birth sex dictates I don't get why she freaks harder at being mistaken for a man than most cis women would.

I mean, maybe she's freaking out because they're mistaking her due to her being UGLY, but that's neither here nor there.

She doesn't have a personality, she has labels so while a regular person would maybe get a little offended, she has nothing else to define her so has to sperg.

 

[Blonde Bomb]

How the hell does a 'vagina grow in wrong'? You're born with a vagina and with the exception of it growing with you & getting pubic hair, etc, it's not like your ovaries drop or you experience significant changes to it's outward appearance. Is she referring to the interior, like her uterus or cervix or vaginal channel? Some women have internal problems that aren't detected until they go to an OB/GYN or have their first sexual experience....so I could see that. But saying your vagina grew in wrong just doesn't make sense.

 

[NoFeline]

How the hell does a 'vagina grow in wrong'? You're born with a vagina and with the exception of it growing with you & getting pubic hair, etc, it's not like your ovaries drop or you experience significant changes to it's outward appearance. Is she referring to the interior, like her uterus or cervix or vaginal channel? Some women have internal problems that aren't detected until they go to an OB/GYN or have their first sexual experience....so I could see that. But saying your vagina grew in wrong just doesn't make sense.

She has a very mild case of vaginal agenesis/mullerian aplasia/MRKH, or as she exceptionally referred to it, "avagenesis".

It's not actually as uncommon as one might think, occurring in 1/5000 female births. In these cases, the vagina is more underdeveloped than the uterus, which may be completely fine, or on the other end of the spectrum may be missing pieces with a completely absent vagina. Regardless of severity, sexual function may be restored with the use of dilators, just as with trans women.

It's clear that she knows something about her condition-- she knows enough to make up contradictory lies about the severity of it. When we first met Staph, she claimed that she had no vagina at all. This was obviously not the case. Then she made up some shit about an excess of hymen which she blamed for her condition. () And then later, that her cervix was impossible to find via the vagina. The OBGYN simply couldn't find her uterus!

What she described happens to be the exact opposite of an actual presentation of MRKH, agenesis of the lower vagina. Her claim is more like the male intersex "blind" (not connected to a cervix) vaginas.

She also knows that vaginal agenesis can be associated with spinal deformities, which she blamed her rart-level motor skills on. What she doesn't know, is that MRKH accompanied by spine abnormalities is a completely separate condition called MURCS Association-- which also causes kidney defects including unilateral or bilateral renal agenesis, and an adult stature less than 5 feet.

 

[WinchesterPremium]

Spoiler: Peetie is Peetie because he has big peets

Spoiler: 31 Year old YOI fangirling

Spoiler: Trama art

 

[The Husbando Collector]

Spoiler: Peetie is Peetie because he has big peets

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Spoiler: 31 Year old YOI fangirling

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Spoiler: Trama art

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I know I'm not one to clutch my pearls over fictional characters under 18 but....something about the image of stephy fangirling to a teen really gets under my skin (apart from the fact that she attempted to groom one). Also peetie looks even more dead inside- like a hollow husk of what once was.

 

[NoFeline]

Poopie? Turdcat??

Leave Peetie out of your scat fetish, weirdo...

 

[Meowthkip]

Honest question, but does anyone else out there honestly mind that much at accidentally being called the wrong gender? I understand for honestly dysphoric trans people who are working hard to pass as one end of the binary and getting called the opposite, but for someone like Stapphy who actively WANTS to be closer to masculine than her birth sex dictates I don't get why she freaks harder at being mistaken for a man than most cis women would.

I mean, maybe she's freaking out because they're mistaking her due to her being UGLY, but that's neither here nor there.

When I was younger I used to delight in confusing people who weren't sure if I was a young boy or a woman, just because I had short hair and never dressed feminine.

Nowadays people assume I'm some kind of genderqueer or trans man and it's kind of annoying.

This looks like if somebody tried to recreate a Ralph Steadman piece but had a seizure, spilled their coffee, vomited, and died before they got to finish it.

 

[WinchesterPremium]

Spoiler: Maybe I shouldn't have said that stuff about my private parts

Spoiler: How Fuckable is Mike Myers?(Reblog)

Link for those interested, its a weird slideshow thing and not entertaining enough to repost here image by image.

Spoiler: Kiwifarms bad

 

[NoFeline]

Her hair? Whack.
Her clothes? Whack.
Her gender? Whack.

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[Bottled Water]

The legitimate embodiment of post ban wave tumblr

 

[Hamplanet Fitness]

...your waistline doesn't need barbecue.