Women for some reason are more quick to latch onto white guilt and black adoration. I guess it's just a reflexive response to piss off daddy, I don't understand it.
Plenty of reasons given elsewhere on here, but my two cents:
1. Women are socialised to be nice. When you get to a certain age you often stop giving a fuck about being nice because people just walk all over you, and you no longer care about appeasement. (But then people say you’re a bitch so you can’t win.)
2. non confrontation is deeply hardwired in. I’ve said on here before but most men I think don’t realise how much physically stronger they are than women, because most men are decent enough to not knock them around. There’s also a lot of bullshit spouted about there being no differences between the sexes. But reality remains - You cannot win a fight physically with a man - you’ll get hurt. There’s a very deeply ingrained response to aggression which is to not return it, but rather to deflect it, by being nice. Niceness is a protective mechanism.
3. fear. Rather like point 2. A lot of this is a submissive ‘eat me last’ response. and i can understand this as well - it’s a deeply inbuilt response of the physically weaker party. And in current year, the aggression is to be doxed and lose your job, which leads to family insecurity and threat. That’s a very powerful control mechanism for anyone. Appeasement says ‘I’m not like those other females. Don’t kill me, keep me, I’m useful.’
All this brings out the absolute worst of humanity, and plays on our deeper behaviours and fears. I am long past the being nice stage, I mean I treat everyone with decency but I don’t take being messed around any more. Even so, I’m keeping my mouth firmly shut at work and on social media because I have no desire to have the focus of the mob on me with all that entails.
I guarantee you there are a lot of people like me out there - the silent majority if you will.