I really don't understand the point of, uh, "studies" like these. What's the actual goal of pointing out that no one wants to have sex with a certain fetish group other than to try and "raise awareness" aka validate victim hood and increase the ability to guilt others?
Yes, how you choose to dress, talk, act, conform to gender stereotypes, what you eat, how much you work out, where you live, what your job is and what you do in your free time will all effect who will or will not be interested in you sexually and romantically.
And yes it is always a choice, even if it's one compelled by dysmorphia or OCD. Your mental disorders may not be your fault but they are your responsibility and if you treat it with pills, routine or stealing your mom's underwear and heels will effect how you are seen and treated by others. It's not unfair that the person you like doesn't like you back because you let your dick swing out from under your skirt anymore than it's unfair that someone won't date you because you're not in the same country. You may not have chosen to be born and stuck in France while the person you like is in China, but if you're not willing to move there, to make the changes that would make you a partner worth considering, it's completely stupid to get angry at them for it or for not meeting you half way, especially since they're not interested in you in the first place.
And calling them racist for it just makes you look even stupider.
The same thing happens when you have a dick and want to date women. You can take off the wigs and stuffed bras and find a straight woman, or you can keep your ill fitting dresses and adam's apple covering chokers and
try to find and partner in the significantly smaller pool of women who are actually interested in "girl dick".
Going back to our distance example, You accept that you, in France, will have to find someone in China who wants a long distance relationship even if that significantly reduces your dating pool. It's not any form of "phobic" if they don't conform their preferences to your life choices.
I mean, how nuts would you have to be to want to actively punish people for not wanting to sex you because of how you were born?
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