You can buy many things - a nice house, a good car, a place in a good school - but you cannot buy common sense or decency. Her parents fucked up real hard with her.
Honestly, older I get, more I find myself agreeing with the Trads that College is only useful for STEM and Nursing. Anything else is going to be used in the education and schooling system, which i think is where a lot of problems come from, or as a bunk, useless, fuller degree with no real career plan or progression.
if your kid just wants to go to College for "the College Experience", fucking say no. Refuse to pay for it. If they want some life experience, or are not sure what to do at 18, then that is totally fine. There should not be any shame in that. Make them go out and work, do volunteer work, for a couple of years. Maybe get them to earn enough money to save a little and contribute to the household costs. Teach them skills like balancing finances, sewing, canning, hunting, and cooking on a budget and doing so well. But DO NOT send them to college to do some useless, mediocre fluff degree with no real point other than deferring adult responsibilities and accumulating a masside wadge of debt in the meantime.
Because the utter genetic slop trays out protesting?Those people did precisely that, and look what it has done to them. Even better, keep them out of a super expensive college for as long as you can. Send them to Community College then have them transfer for the final year. But sending your child to College at 18, is no longer about them getting an education. It is about packing them off to be brainwashed.
This is where it has gotten us. Anyone who thinks it's a good idea just needs to look at the current batch of snivelling, puling, pathetic, weak degenerate little shits that make up the white pricks protesting and rioting.