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Why would Jake legally change his name but not his gender? Even Becky 'hi here are my tits' Gerber managed to get an X so why is our dainty girl Violet Cassandra Ocean still a proud male?
Secret Gamer Girl / SecretGamerGrrl / Googleshng / "Violet Hargrave" / Jacob Lawrence (Jake) Alley / Violet Cassandra Ocean - Delusional Zoe Quinn Stalker, Libelous Tweeter, Thirsty Gnome, Faux-Tranny Neckbeard Incel, Micropenis, "Known Troubled Person", Creator of "Massive vs the Masses", Self-Described "Noise Making Thing"; Lives in Niantic, CT
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The dreaded GATEKEEPING. You need a doctor to sign off on a gender marker change in Connecticut.
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Because he's a lazy cunt who never does anything except in the most half-assed inept way, blaming everyone else for his failure.
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It's really remarkable that in New England, where woke pieties are intoned with as much reverence as the Paternoster ever was, Jake still hasn't been able to get what would ordinarily be a rubber-stamp for his gender fantasies.
Even there, doctors take one look at him and say "Jesus Christ, I can't sign off on this, the guy's a lunatic."
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He’s said in the past that his doctor wouldn’t sign him off because he presents as male. Possibly he only got the name change because that was the easiest way to make a commitment to being female.
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I think Jake is usually spurred to action by someone close to him (mom, almost always) having a fight with him. In the fight, mom says "it's ridiculous you say you're a woman! You still have a beard, and you're not the slightest bit interested in going shopping for clothing, and you've always had the most boyish interests imaginable." Or "You've been telling me for years you're a woman, but you won't get appointments about surgeries, you won't change your ID sex, and you haven't even changed your name!"
He latches on to one of the individual things she says, whichever one is easiest to change, and "fixes" it. This is a common technique for the demand avoidant to do as little as possible while giving their loved ones hope of progress and change.
The next step after doing something like this is to continue as usual, until the normie brings up the remaining things the demand-avoidant person hasn't done, at which point the demand-avoidant person whines "You're so controlling! Nothing makes you happy! I did _____ for you when you told me I needed to change and it still wasn't good enough. Next time, I won't even bother."
He latches on to one of the individual things she says, whichever one is easiest to change, and "fixes" it. This is a common technique for the demand avoidant to do as little as possible while giving their loved ones hope of progress and change.
The next step after doing something like this is to continue as usual, until the normie brings up the remaining things the demand-avoidant person hasn't done, at which point the demand-avoidant person whines "You're so controlling! Nothing makes you happy! I did _____ for you when you told me I needed to change and it still wasn't good enough. Next time, I won't even bother."
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Okay, the way you detail this exchange between Jake and his mother - it sounds so organic, that I could believe something playing out in exactly those words.
Jake has just that sort of attitude, being so thoroughly unwilling to do the normal adult things that his mother would want him to do, growing increasingly resentful, and using it as an excuse to shut down all interactions while feeling sorry for himself and trying to get asspats by acting pitiful on top of everything.
I know we always joke around here about the armchair psychoanalysis, and how it's really just conjecture, but what you've put forward about Jake here has such an authentic ring of truth to it, I just can't help but think it must be at least in part accurate, if not entirely so. Well done.
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I think you may be onto something here. While it's not certain, it does sound kind of like he changed to his current anything-goes therapist in early 2019. It could be that this new therapist, unlike previous ones, was willing to accept a legal name change as proof of "living as your chosen gender".
But I disagree with this, because he's never mentioned his mom wanting him to do any of this stuff. All indications are that she wanted him to get psychiatric help because he's a nut, not because he needs help becoming a woman. If he was placating his mom it'd be about applying for jobs or demonstrating that he has some sort of career.
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I think his mom has brought these things up in the past not as a list of things he ought to do, but as a list of reasons he's not actually a woman and clearly isn't even committed to his LARP.
It's very typical for someone with pathological demand avoidance to take a loved one saying "you're not telling the truth about your reasons for x, and I know because you haven't done a, b, or c that you'd have done if x were true" and respond by actually doing one of those things as simply if they'd been a normie who had been instructed to.
Much like other disordered personality types, people who are permanently brokebrained about responding to demands have typical, repeating patterns that almost make them seem like they're all working from the same manual.
It's very typical for someone with pathological demand avoidance to take a loved one saying "you're not telling the truth about your reasons for x, and I know because you haven't done a, b, or c that you'd have done if x were true" and respond by actually doing one of those things as simply if they'd been a normie who had been instructed to.
Much like other disordered personality types, people who are permanently brokebrained about responding to demands have typical, repeating patterns that almost make them seem like they're all working from the same manual.
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Or that they rolled with someone paying ~$200 to legally change their name. The new therapist expected a Violet Cassandra Ocean to show up and he did, it would be easy to call him male but using his previous name would be trickier if they don't know what it was. Like a situation where it is forbidden to call Rumpelstiltskin by his name.
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Jake should switch back to his story about being of unintelligible gender and instead claim to be an assigned she that is trying to transition into a man.
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Brilliant. How to Succeed in Passing Without Really Trying.
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To-day I bake, to-morrow brew,
the next I'll have the young Quinn's child.
Ha, glad am I that no one knew
that Googleshng I am styled.
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Jake came out of his slumber to tweet his most important life work for having called it:
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"Hello? FBI? I'd like to report that someone on Xbox Live told me to make them a sandwich! Another one said tits or GTFO. Hello? Did you just hang up on me?"
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"Never a good sign when you catch all your thoughts about your life are suddenly in the past tense."
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I see someone’s been reading our speculation on why he chose the name “Cassandra.”
You’re right, Jake, it is a long time since you’ve done anything with your life. Get a job.
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Soha FKA Rakshasa gets a glowing write-up/blowjob from some video game website, I don't know, I honestly forgot what it was called already.
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Who but a disgusting male Gamergater MRA neckbeard would spend years harassing and stalking this brave and beautiful woman?
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