- Joined
- Jan 31, 2015
Thinking about it...has there been sightings of Opa orbiting since the apology/Marl confessionals came out? These logs are old at this point and I don't think I remember seeing him pop up during recent happenings?
That aside, I really don't think there's much to Opa honestly. I mean... I wouldn't trust him with anything, but I think his major relationship issue is that he seems well versed in manipulating via disagreements/debates like Glip. Outside of that? I think he mentally checked out of the marriage well before it was over - I dunno if the ex was abusive but the leaked logs were mostly Opa whining about the ex wanting to know what he was up to, him not wanting to share, complaining about the foreign in-laws offending him by being very "French" ect.
Also moving to another country is a lot of stress. Some people fully embrace their new home, or they end up longing for the surroundings that they found comfortable. Which then colours how you interact with people. Unhappy people who outright hate where they live are more likely to snap at loved ones or be surly, even on a good day.
At the very least he was actively visiting his kid in spite of the distance which is something at least. Opa's not a great person - but kid deserves an active dad (and with them living abroad, mom might have the most influence anyway and will see off any "Discord-sourced" parenting attempts)
That aside, I really don't think there's much to Opa honestly. I mean... I wouldn't trust him with anything, but I think his major relationship issue is that he seems well versed in manipulating via disagreements/debates like Glip. Outside of that? I think he mentally checked out of the marriage well before it was over - I dunno if the ex was abusive but the leaked logs were mostly Opa whining about the ex wanting to know what he was up to, him not wanting to share, complaining about the foreign in-laws offending him by being very "French" ect.
Also moving to another country is a lot of stress. Some people fully embrace their new home, or they end up longing for the surroundings that they found comfortable. Which then colours how you interact with people. Unhappy people who outright hate where they live are more likely to snap at loved ones or be surly, even on a good day.
At the very least he was actively visiting his kid in spite of the distance which is something at least. Opa's not a great person - but kid deserves an active dad (and with them living abroad, mom might have the most influence anyway and will see off any "Discord-sourced" parenting attempts)