LGBTQiwis

[Nauseated Courgi]

Maybe the mindset required to do it healthily is possible. I'm not encouraged by the field I've seen

Yeah, you just need to be in the mindset of a sociopath that's only in it for the sex.

 

[Kinnie]

Maybe I'm too much of a curmudgeon traditionalist or something, but I have -never- seen what I would deem a happy or functional polycule. The dysfunction in their households is palpable.

Doesn’t help that by increasing the number of non-blood-related males in the household, you increase the chances of child abuse. Just look at Tory Ojeda and her male harem.

 

[Whatevermancer]

Tory Ojeda

 

[Local Coyote]

Spoiler: Angry Sperging

Where do I even fucking start. I guess I’ll go down the list:

• Putting “queer” and “questioning” together implies that if you have any doubt you’re a cisgender hetero who fucks and romances, you’re part of a marginalized group that needs to be protected. And you’re more important than the people who know for sure they’re not cisgender or straight.

• Transgender, as we all know, lumps tomboys together with FTMs, traps together with MTFs. Because crossdressing and gender role reversal means you need to chop off your boobs/dick.

• Intersex people actually have collectively said many times they do not want to be included in LGBTQA++* because intersex is not a third/trans gender or sex.

• Equating polyamory with bisexuality was one of the things bi activists have been fighting against since the inception of bisexuality as an identity. Not that anyone will know of bisexuality now since it’s being wiped out by the Pannies who for some reason want a sexuality label that emphasizes their attraction to exceptional individuals.

• Even from an all-inclusionist, everyone’s-queer perspective, this is a mess. Aromantics and asexuals don’t want to be compared to the dirty straight allies. They will literally throw fits if you call an aro/asex woman and an aro/asex man’s relationship “hetero.” And supporting faggots and trannies doesn’t make you as oppressed as them, sad to say.

• Having no gender falls under transgender because nobody is “assigned agender at birth” and raised agender.

• Lesbians will literally crazy murder you if you suggest “lesbian” is an umbrella term like “gay.” “Lesbian“ being “woman exclusively attracted to women” supposedly protects them from pervy men.

• All others who need it. First, who decides if someone needs it? Second, this is literally playing into the rhetoric that LGBT acceptance will lead to shit like pedosexual and transspecies. Where do we draw the line?

• Cutie pals. Because the LGBT community is just a fun club full of rainbows and sprinkles and open doors. Yeah, nah, I’m not buying this shit.

Poly isn't even LGBT just by itself. It's a lifestyle. I also am sure bi and pan people are thrilled to be grouped with poly people who have nothing to do with each other.

I have never understood the animosity between asexuals and allies even as an asexual. In my experience allies have been much nicer and more tolerable than any of the handwringing prudish faggots from AVEN. The asexual community is completely insufferable and most of their complaints about oppression are just frivolous nonsense that most people get over.

 

[Sigma]

Somehow all my friends since high school ended up lgbt. And I did too.

 

[Picnic_Boy]

Poly isn't even LGBT just by itself. It's a lifestyle. I also am sure bi and pan people are thrilled to be grouped with poly people who have nothing to do with each other.

I have never understood the animosity between asexuals and allies even as an asexual. In my experience allies have been much nicer and more tolerable than any of the handwringing prudish faggots from AVEN. The asexual community is completely insufferable and most of their complaints about oppression are just frivolous nonsense that most people get over.

Internet asexuals are the loudest vacuum in nature.

 

[Nauseated Courgi]

Internet asexuals are the loudest vacuum in nature.

It's gotten to a point where I don't believe anyone that claims to be an "asexual". Obviously that's something that's hard to prove, but from what I've heard of it, actual asexuality is either incredibly rare or are a side effect of some kind of trauma.

That's not even getting into the "debate" of rather or not Asexuals should be considered LGBT (even though, I'm pretty sure most, not counting the snowflakes, from the community would say no).

 

[Banditotron]

It's gotten to a point where I don't believe anyone that claims to be an "asexual". Obviously that's something that's hard to prove, but from what I've heard of it, actual asexuality is either incredibly rare or are a side effect of some kind of trauma.

That's not even getting into the "debate" of rather or not Asexuals should be considered LGBT (even though, I'm pretty sure most, not counting the snowflakes, from the community would say no).

Saying you are asexual is a bit like saying you don't feel a particular emotion, like anger, or fear. I don't believe you. A particular emotion may be heavily, heavily suppressed for a wide variety of reason, but as far as I can tell, no emotion is ever flat out absent from a person. I could be wrong, of course.

 

[Sigma]

Saying you are asexual is a bit like saying you don't feel a particular emotion, like anger, or fear. I don't believe you. A particular emotion may be heavily, heavily suppressed for a wide variety of reason, but as far as I can tell, no emotion is ever flat out absent from a person. I could be wrong, of course.

My sister is asexual and she says she's fairly sure about it. She described it like it was probably similar to how much attraction you feel to the sex you're not attracted to but it's for both. So both gross her out.

 

[Whatevermancer]

I feel like most so-called "asexuals" are:

1. Late-bloomer teenagers.

   All my friends have been talking about their crushes since they were 14, but I'm already 17 and hand't had a crush yet... I know! I must be asexual!

2. Coomers.

   This perfectly fine human being doesn't arouse me at all, that must mean I'm asexual! Surely, the fact that I've been jerking off to increasingly more extreme and perverted hentai 4 times a day has nothing to do with it.

3. Special snowflakes.

   I want to have sex, but, like, not all the time, I could just say that I'm hetero with a lower sex drive, but being a demisexual sounds way more interesting!

 

[Dr. Sexbot]

My sister is asexual and she says she's fairly sure about it. She described it like it was probably similar to how much attraction you feel to the sex you're not attracted to but it's for both. So both gross her out.

Maybe she just has unreasonable standards. I know that is uncommon among women, but it merits further consideration.

 

[Gingervitis]

Maybe she just has unreasonable standards. I know that is uncommon among women, but it merits further consideration.

>women having unreasonable standards
>uncommon

 

[AlexJonesGotMePregnant]

My sister is asexual and she says she's fairly sure about it. She described it like it was probably similar to how much attraction you feel to the sex you're not attracted to but it's for both. So both gross her out.

your sister sounds fat

 

[Sigma]

your sister sounds fat

She's not. She could pretty easily get a date if she wanted to and plenty of people have told her that they've been attracted to her.

 

[CivilianOfTheFandomWars]

I honestly think that our current culture is so deeply sexualized that it has fucked up a lot of people’s brains, especially girls’.
You have a low libido, you’re asexual/repressed. You’re a straight guy who’s not actively pursuing women, incel/closet gay. You’re a chick who’s not putting out ‘enough’, you must be religious or something.
It’s this strange culture of extremes that we’re having, at least in America.

 

[Dr. Sexbot]

I honestly think that our current culture is so deeply sexualized that it has fucked up a lot of people’s brains, especially girls’.
You have a low libido, you’re asexual/repressed. You’re a straight guy who’s not actively pursuing women, incel/closet gay. You’re a chick who’s not putting out ‘enough’, you must be religious or something.
It’s this strange culture of extremes that we’re having, at least in America.

I want to propose a poorly-considered radical solution. Maybe UBI is the path forward, but not in the way most people mean it.

You filed your taxes this year? You get four fuck tokens, transferable. These tokens are each good for one, 1-hour bang at any state-administered brothel. With every adult guaranteed an occasional bang and a safe, clean place in which to do it, some of the bullshit disappears.

Think about it. With the shittier mysticism taken away, I think people might not be so hung up on it. The incel problem completely vaporizes overnight; people with low self-esteem hanging on their inability to get laid can at least get some human contact and build confidence in themselves. People no longer have to have retarded, complicated, clandestine affairs just to get a taste of something different, if that's their mid-life crisis. If one is in a happy, monogamous relationship, you can jetty those tokens for whatever you want (someone's gonna need more than four). Plus, the whole "Pussy/Penis Power" means of manipulation goes up in smoke for the most part.

You lose some of the magic though, and some of the drive to succeed and not be a pig when you can just coast by. That's socialism for ya.

Universal Booty Insurance. Let's give everyone a hand.

 

[Nauseated Courgi]

I honestly think that our current culture is so deeply sexualized that it has fucked up a lot of people’s brains, especially girls’.
You have a low libido, you’re asexual/repressed. You’re a straight guy who’s not actively pursuing women, incel/closet gay. You’re a chick who’s not putting out ‘enough’, you must be religious or something.
It’s this strange culture of extremes that we’re having, at least in America.

This. For the most part, people are just confusing not having an active interest in being in a relationship to being asexual.

 

[CivilianOfTheFandomWars]

I want to propose a poorly-considered radical solution. Maybe UBI is the path forward, but not in the way most people mean it.

You filed your taxes this year? You get four fuck tokens, transferable. These tokens are each good for one, 1-hour bang at any state-administered brothel. With every adult guaranteed an occasional bang and a safe, clean place in which to do it, some of the bullshit disappears.

Think about it. With the shittier mysticism taken away, I think people might not be so hung up on it. The incel problem completely vaporizes overnight; people with low self-esteem hanging on their inability to get laid can at least get some human contact and build confidence in themselves. People no longer have to have retarded, complicated, clandestine affairs just to get a taste of something different, if that's their mid-life crisis. If one is in a happy, monogamous relationship, you can jetty those tokens for whatever you want (someone's gonna need more than four). Plus, the whole "Pussy/Penis Power" means of manipulation goes up in smoke for the most part.

You lose some of the magic though, and some of the drive to succeed and not be a pig when you can just coast by. That's socialism for ya.

Universal Booty Insurance. Let's give everyone a hand.

What about just having legal hookers?

 

[Justtocheck]

My sister is asexual and she says she's fairly sure about it. She described it like it was probably similar to how much attraction you feel to the sex you're not attracted to but it's for both. So both gross her out.

Asexuality as a term reflects what this culture is. The term originaly comes from asexual reproduction, which of course is a classification that has nothing to do with human sexuality. The term is used to muddle understanding and give very human choices some kind of "scientific" becuase people are afraid to be honest. This whole society loves to shield in "science". And it appeals to narcissim to say "I'm X. I'm special and different".

It would make more sense if they admit "hey, by a personal choice and due to my temperament, I don't think I'm interested in sex, nor do I believe I will in the future."

 

[Michellandin']