That is creepy as fuck. No, you are not entitled to someone else's affection, nor can you force anybody to develop feelings for you. Love has to be earned, you're not entitled to it.
I think it's going to be at least a decade or two. In a way, sexual reassignment surgery is still kind of in its infancy. Trans women end up with a wound that is constantly attempting to close itself and therefore has to be dilated for hours every day, made from stomach lining or a piece of colon, and trans men have to inflate their wieners with a pump. Doctors are still performing Mengele-tier experiments, like blocking a boy's puberty at age 9, and then realizing years later that they don't have enough material to make them a coochie, and that the kid is forever robbed off the ability to orgasm or procreate. Oopsie!
Eventually, doctors and psychologists will come to the conclusion that if you're unhappy with your own, healthy body, there is no way you are going to be any happier with a butchered body that will never be exactly the way you want/expect it to be, unable to reproduce or even just enjoy sex, and running on a cocktail of hormones you're not supposed to be taking in the first place. That's not even mentioning all the serious health complications and side effects you might have to deal with due to the surgeries and treatments, and how it affects your chances of finding a romantic partner. In a way, I wouldn't be surprised if the suicide rate after SRS was actually higher than before, because a lot of trans people seem to have really unrealistic expectations and think getting the chop will fix their entire lives.
I'm sure that there will be studies about that very topic eventually. There are already documentaries about detransitioners and people who regret transitioning, they're just not really in the eye of the public because it's not something people want to hear right now. Being trans/questioning your gender is what's in right now. Wannabe influencers/celebrities love it because it nets them attention, woke points and a victim card, and doctors/the pharmaindustry love it because SRS and hormone pills make them lots of money. The more people question their gender, the better!
I seriously and genuinely hope we can come up with a better way to help dysphoric people sooner rather than later. Dysphoria has got to be awful and people deserve a better solution than the ones we have now. And I really hope that people come to realize that questioning your gender is actually pretty fun, but there is a better way to do that than inventing 666 genders/labels to stick on people. Just do who- and whatever you want. You're a guy and you like beards and pink skirts? Go do your thing, you fabulous viking you. You're a chick and want to shave your head? Sure, why not. Yes, people are going to say something, but people ALWAYS say something. You could be a pretty, feminine career woman who is married with two children, and people would still talk shit behind your back because your new car's color is tacky and you bought the wrong brand of shoes.
