I think what everybody is missing here is that Colin Robertson (Millennial Woes) has narcissistic personality disorder, and elements of other personality disorders/mental health issues (autism/homosexuality) have sidetracked people from the main issue. If you have never dealt with a narc personally in your life, it can be hard to spot the signs, but having been married to an NPD for five years, and just escaped with my life, I can tell you that this guy absolutely ticks all the boxes. Normally I only lurk on this forum (my ex makes me paranoid about posting online), but this guy is a danger to society, so I have to put the warning out there.
Off the top of my head (I'm a bit drunk right now).
Delusions of grandeur/fantasy. Anybody who has seen this guy in his videos give a speech, and you can tell that the thinks that the world revolves around him and his hot takes. He fancies himself an intellectual and a movement leader, and can't even get out of bed in the morning. OK bro.
His delusional narc thinking means that he surrounds himself with people who'll blow smoke up his ass, which makes his condition worse. Because he doesn't ever have to face the real world, but just stay in his fantasy bubble.
Entitlement - Narcs have an insane sense of entitlement. They really think they are God's gift, and deserve the best of women, regardles of their own looks or achievments. With Colin, Lucy told him outright she wasn't interested because he is fat, but that doesn't stop a delusional narc.
Narcs target people who they know they can manipulate with their vulnerability act. Narcs don't have normal boundaries, and overshare (Colin ticks that), which encourages people, women especially, not to see him as a threat, and they reveal secrets of their own. BOOM that's when he's got them. They are trauma bonded to him. So a narc's modus operandi is to look for very young women with a history of trauma, low self-esteem, etc, because they will be a sucker for his act. Once they are emotionally bonded to him with his helpless-little-boy act, they can't get away, because he guilts them into giving him what he wants (known in the trade as "narc supply"). This narc supply is usually adoration and affirmation of his fantasies about himself, but it can also be stuff like money, a roof over his head, connections, publicity, sex, control of their image, so many things.
This thread has evidenced that Colin targets generally teenage girls, who he counts on not having life experiemce to spot narcs like him. This checks out, because I was young when I met my NPD ex, and once bitten....The only exception to this ITT is Lucy Brown, who is a classic Borderline Personality Disorder. Colin will have seen her attention-seeking, binge-drinking, self-harming neediness and thought - BINGO. I can control this girl.
Shared Fantasy. What the narc does with the target female is build up a castle in the sky of what he believes her fantasy will be, and how he will make this come true for her. He might have promised the young girls romance or commitment, knowing Lucy's ambitiousness, he has dangled the carrot of "we could be the king and queen of British Nationalism" (or something) in front of her. Creating the shared fantasy, no matter how ridic to outsiders, is a key part of the trauma bonding. Its more sharing secrets, hopes and dreams, and keeps the target with the narc.
Devaluing the target and narc rage. The narc, after the initial stage of love-bombing the target to get her to fall for him, then blows hot and cold, making her doubt herself and feel like shit. This is called by NPD professionals as "the devaluing stage". This is to destabilise the target, and make her work harder to do what the narc wants to please him. It is also to break her down and remind her that she is nothing outside of the reflection in his eyes. We see that in the message to Lucy, and the video, where Colin is tearing her down and reminding her of her mental health problems (the same problems that made her a target in the first place). When the target fails to repsond as desired to this devaluing, the narc then responds with NARC RAGE, where he throws his toys out of the pram. At this stage he loses his mind, his self-image and fantasies are being exposed as the delusions they are, and he can be genuinely dangerous at this stage. I think that this is why many of his previous victims would never come out against him, because they would fear his narc rage, and I'm sure he has recordings/video/texts of them saying unPC things which could ruin their lives. A narc is all about CONTROL, so he will keep these things as power to wield against them.
Kinkiness. Narcs are also big into kinky sex, so I 100% believe the foreskin fetish rumours. Kinky sex is again about sharing secrets, getting the partner to do what she doesnt want to do, cede to the narc's will (which is what really gets him off). It's about humilliation, and again, trauma bonding., making the victim feel like nothing without him, so that he has full control.
This is why I've written this long screed. I believe that Colin Robertson is DANGEROUS and WILL NOT STOP his predatory behaviour towards women. The victims will keep piling up in silence, and everyone will keep silence because they feel loyal towards him. Well, they shouldn't. He should be outed if he ever dares to become a public figure again, because this thread proves he is just using his public persona for evil ends.
