‘I Lost All My Friends’: Trump Talks About Friendships In A Much Different Way Than Obama - 45 is the lonliest number

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Topline

For a brief moment during a rally in Wisconsin Thursday evening, Americans caught a rare glimpse into personal life of President Trump, who ranted about the loneliness of the office, seemed to joke that he likes to surround himself with “less successful” people to make himself feel more “powerful,” and complained about his friends treating him differently, a stark contrast to President Obama, who once said his friendships gave him “serenity” when reflecting on his time in the White House.

Key Facts

“I lost all my friends” since becoming president, Trump said during a rally in Mosinee, Wisconsin, before complaining about how before he was president, he could regularly hang out with his friends, who were “nice and loose.”

Trump said since becoming president his closest friends have become much more formal with him and now call him “Mr. President,” instead of “Donald,” and he now has to rely on “people in Congress” to be his friends.

This change has happened even though most of his friends are “very important people,” Trump explained, before the president told the crowd he actually prefers “less successful” people because it makes him feel “so powerful.”

The comments strike a contrast with Obama, who once talked about having a “gift” of “really, really good friends.”

Those friends gave him “a certain serenity in the midst of a lot of foolishness," Obama told his former senior advisor, David Axelrod, during an interview on Axelrod’s podcast, The Axe Files, in 2016.

Obama also told Axelrod that his friends never call him “Mr. President.”
Tangent

In 2019, Trump reportedly cut ties with one of his closest friends, Tom Barrack, due to a dispute about Barrack’s job as chairman of the president’s 2017 inauguration fund.

Key Background

Trump’s rant about his relationships may have been his way of trying to convey the sacrifices he feels he made to become president. The president and his campaign have repeatedly talked about the life Trump “gave up” to run for office. During an interview with Barstool Sports in July, Trump said that the “best day” of his life was the day before he became president—though he later added he was “glad” he ended up running. “Everything was good,” Trump said about the day before he began his presidential run. “The company was good. I had finished up a lot of jobs that were very successful, and then I said, ‘I want to do this.’” The president also talked about an event he went into shortly after announcing his presidential run in which he was booed, he claims, “for the first time” in his life.

Further Reading

The Loneliest President (Politico)


Obama on friendship: My friends never call me Mr. President (CNN)
 
What a petty way to write an article, this could've been actually interesting.

If anything it makes Obama sort of look unobservant, like really Barack NONE of your circle changed their behavior around you when you became the most powerful western leader??? Either you hang out with only beta toadies or you are lying out your teeth, both are probable.
 
What a petty way to write an article, this could've been actually interesting.

If anything it makes Obama sort of look unobservant, like really Barack NONE of your circle changed their behavior around you when you became the most powerful western leader??? Either you hang out with only beta toadies or you are lying out your teeth, both are probable.
Yet again the media, in an ill advised "This will end Drumpf this time" Obama cock-sucking article, somehow make Obama look worse.
 
“I lost all my friends” since becoming president, Trump said during a rally in Mosinee, Wisconsin, before complaining about how before he was president, he could regularly hang out with his friends, who were “nice and loose.”

Trump said since becoming president his closest friends have become much more formal with him and now call him “Mr. President,” instead of “Donald,” and he now has to rely on “people in Congress” to be his friends.
I wanna give Orange Man a hug
 
What a petty way to write an article, this could've been actually interesting.

If anything it makes Obama sort of look unobservant, like really Barack NONE of your circle changed their behavior around you when you became the most powerful western leader??? Either you hang out with only beta toadies or you are lying out your teeth, both are probable.

IMO it is mostly a difference between their lives. Obama was always a politician and became a higher-tier politician as his career went forward, so he and his friends where used to it. Trump went from being a playboy businessman to having the highest political position in the country. Its a much different change of pace, and they're are plenty of reminders of his current position like an army of black suited security following him everywhere that would make it difficult for his old friends to act natural around him.
 
This all makes me wonder what Mr.Trump's personal life is going to be like after his time as president. I'd say most of his friends were on the liberal side of the spectrum and most of those broke off of him. He's going to have a very lonely retirement.

He'll probably work until he dies, he's that type of person. Even if he's a pariah in the business world post-presidency he'll have more than enough assets to do that
 
It's lonely at the top.
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In a way, the press and the leakers are to blame.

You know if Trump had ANYONE he was still friends with, even if it was Joe Slackjaw of Cletusville, IL, they'd climb up that dude's ass to find about the time he called a woman who cut him off in a traffic a bitch and write thousands of articles about it.

Combine it with the fact that the Democrats have made it exeedingly obvious with plain language that once he's out of office they're still going to attempt to destroy him in every way possible, it would make it hard to have, keep, or even make friends.
 
At most, we could get Barron, but that's about it.

Don Jr seems like the type.

Combine it with the fact that the Democrats have made it exeedingly obvious with plain language that once he's out of office they're still going to attempt to destroy him in every way possible, it would make it hard to have, keep, or even make friends.

Even just people who voted for Trump are regularly under threat by mainstream society. You're more likely to get harassed, fired, or beaten to death in the street for JUST wearing a MAGA hat than for being LGBT or Black - regardless of how much the left likes to act like being black or gay/trans is somehow more dangerous today than it was in the 1950s.
 
It is kind of sad that Trump ever thought he had friends.

His entire life has been filled with people who surround him because of what he can do for them. Whether you hate Trump or love Trump or whatever that is the reality.

Donald has never had a friend. The closest thing he probably had is his parents and kids. Maybe Melania because she seems above it all.

The one reason I think he has a good heart is that he believes that everyone he has ever known is not grifting.
 
Donald Trump's life and the man himself are fascinating in so many ways. The story that probably no one will ever properly tell until we're all long dead because passions are totally uncontrolled now.
Perhaps if we've looked at his psyche, we could see what makes Trump ... Trump. Never thought I'd feel bad for a villain, but that's good character arc I suppose.

Or maybe I'm just soft.
 
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