Because the more people you talk to, the more likely a misunderstanding will happen. I talk to more people then most people thus more misunderstandings will happen with me. That's not a mistake. It's the law of averages.
You have no idea how many people anybody in this thread talks to. You have no idea how many people any of your few remaining friends talk to -- and no, the hundreds of people you copypaste "*purrs and nuzzles* What's up? ^^" to in Telegram every morning are not people you can consider to be friends.
But let's talk about people -- particularly, people in positions to which you aspire. Every single high-profile furry has a larger social circle than you. Every single person whom you look up to in show business has more social contacts than you. Every single celebrity, politician, and successful businessperson interacts with more people, with higher stakes, and more societal norms to observe, every single day, than you.
I guarantee you that misunderstandings occur every single day, between every single one of those people and at least one person with whom they interact. But you don't hear about those misunderstandings, the consequences are generally quickly smoothed over, and those people's lives go on. You are not special. You are neither famous nor popular and you have no noteworthy responsibilities. Yet you fuck up, and you fuck up, and you fuck up, and every time you try to fix your fuckups
(when you even bother to, given that you prefer to just deny that you fucked up) you fuck things up even further. You fucked up your marriage, you fucked up your kids, you fucked up your acting career, you fucked up every attempt you made at slumlording, you fucked up your IRL name and your furry name, and you fuck up every time you come into this thread to insist that
actually I didn't fuck up at all you guys.
Do not use your futile attempts to become "popufur" as a shield. And get better at making friends. It's hilarious that you like to scroll giant telegram lists with no heed to who says "DON'T FUCKING PM ME YOU IDIOT" right in their nickname and copypaste the same creepy shit to all of them. You're not prone to misunderstandings, you're just bad at social interaction, period.