So many beautiful passages (no pun) there...
I was never clocked before and now I live somewhere that they assume any woman over 5'9 is probably a dude - Perhaps that is a statistical outcome to be expected in a place where 90% of all tall women are, in fact, men?
Fun Fact: If you're a troon, and get "clocked," it's because you don't actually pass. In Omaha, people might be polite and play along with the social fiction that you're a woman, because they want to at least be nice, or else don't want to antagonize a crazy person and potentially have their life ruined. But San Franciscans deal with crazier people than you every fucking day, and are not-too-secretly bitter at the hell they've created for themselves, so they will call you out as the non-woman you obviously are.
But I straight up have ball sack lips - Uhh, because they are?
The procedure was explained to him before he agreed to it, and he knew scrotal skin was going to be used to create something approximating labia majora. But I guess he believed that skin would just magically not look like a used scrotum once it had been rearranged? Then again, the decision to troon out, and the hopes and expectations for what surgery will achieve for them, are not rational, and infused with an almost magical worldview, so this should be no surprise.
I feel part of the misunderstanding about the level of detail of severity and incongruity here, is that some don't understand the burden of a stealth woman. Eventually, a partner will be close up and personal with it, and that can be disastrous - that is, tfw he withdraws and pulls out the parts of the vagina with it?
More like he smells it. The interior is often constructed from part of the bowel, and that tissue continues to behave as bowel tissue, with its own secretions (that are not analagous to those of a natural vagina), and which are host to different kinds of bacteria. So the odor (and taste) of a neo-vagina is unpleasant.
That even the best results almost never look like a natural vulva, and even the non-horrorshow ones are more likely to resemble an incel fantasy of what "roasties" look like, doesn't help.
Wow that is so much worse than I thought it could be. That's terrible. How can any surgeon give this as a result to a patient and think that this is acceptable or normal.
I'm convinced you've got to be a sociopath to perform experimental surgery like this on patients in the first place. That they end up mutilating patients, treat gross complications as normal, and refuse to perform revisions--essentially abandoning those patients, because nobody else will do revisions on another surgeon's work--is appalling.
This doesn't happen in other surgical fields, because techniques are well-established and if the anatomy is rearranged it's understood what went where and why. But with GRS, every doctor has their own "technique"--they make up their own experimental way of doing it--so any other surgeon going in isn't quite going to know what's going on.
But there's no outcry because the radical activist trans fringe is just as sociopathic, and doesn't care what happens to actual trans people, so long as they get to set the agenda and control the narrative. If someone kills themselves after failed GRS surgery? That's okay; they're part of the politically-useful 41%.
