I've lost a number of friends to TDS not in the sense that they hate me for disagreeing (they don't know) but they became so angry, anxious, and withdrawn from the constant anger and hate. One I even talked to about it justified it as saying it was
important to stay angry, even as her hobbies died, her career suffered, and her BF of several years finally got fed up with the constant freakouts. I don't think she actually did anything constructive except maybe attend a protest or two (lol). I don't talk to her anymore, less hiding power level (though that too) than that it's fucking depressing.
Pretty much all institutional power in the US has jerked to the far left in the last ten years, and it's jarring. Trump in the White House, for his myriad personal and policy flaws, was a weighted blanket for those of us who never got on board the SJW bullshit, especially those of us trapped in left wing bubbles at school, work, social circles, whatever. The Emperor Protects, after all. Well, maybe we were the ones in a bubble.
A lot of us had hope that if we could just weather the storm, reality would start to reassert itself, and the pendulum would swing back, like
Syaoran Li et al always say. The fact that this election was even close enough to steal given what a terrible candidate Biden was, and the lack of actual campaigning, has forced many of us to finally accept that the culture has ratcheted permanently left yet again, and realize too late, just like every generation, that this has been going on for a long, long time. Call it a descent into communism, call it the elites have always run the show and it's just time for a new Janissary demographic, it looks the same from here.
And if you previously believed that you lived in a democracy and now realize you soon won't, whether you are losing your freedom or never had any, it
hurts. Modern life is so good compared to most of human history that we would even
care about the common man having any say in government. Even entertaining that the meaning of life is about truth, or justice, or even consoomerism, rather than a grim fight for survival.
Yes, you're losing something important to you, and being forced to confront your lack of control in the world sucks if you've gone through life believing in it. I think anxiety over control has become a bigger problem as religion has faded. That anxiety of control, more than anything else IMO, is what drives the engines of SJWism, white guilt, etc. God is dead, so if you're too ignorant of history to know about Marcus Aurelius, so all that's left is the system's greatest trick or the black pill, take your pick.
TL;DR it's basically just TDS, except given how spun up the left got under Trump,
vae victis is gonna suck. Let off some steam if you have to, but try to face whatever the future holds with a bit more grace than that NOOOOOOOO genderblob. There will always be wars and rumors of wars.