They reveal how very male they are with this. Not because it’s rapey, which it is, but because most females have a primarily responsive sexuality. We respond to being desired. And a significant % also have a contextual element to our sexuality, meaning everything that’s going around us at the time, and even for a while before, accumulates and increases/decreases sexual interest#. This is why women don’t use prostitutes. Not because we wouldn’t pay for the sex we want, but because no one can sell the sex we want, any more than you could package and sell any other honest human response to another human.
Most males have a spontaneous sexual response, meaning they’ll just...want to have sex. Nothing else has to be going on or not going on, they don’t have to be responding to someone else wanting to have sex with them. That doesn’t mean they don’t also enjoy being desired, of course they do. It just isn’t a requirement and it certainly isn’t the MAIN requirement.
So you can see how the vast majority of people who would be ok with being sexually tolerated rather than wanted are going to be male, or females on lots of testosterone actually having a legit effect upon them, as we know it does in TIFs. But even TIFs display how very female they are when they lock themselves in a bathroom at the chemsex party to cry about how unwanted and unwelcome they feel. TIMs may claim they’re sobbing and may even pretend to do so as part of their girl-mode, but their primary response is to rage and threaten.
This could also explain lesbian bed death. If you have two females who are following the typical female responsive sexual pattern, it’s obvious why things would fizzle.
# for example, I need clean sheets, an orderly bedroom, and my daughter occupied elsewhere, sleeping or whatever, her needs all met (I also need two AZO standards but I can pop those very quickly). But consider that those things are indicators of safety and a wholesome home and family. I am a married adult with responsibilities. I *should* want cleanliness and order, and I should want my child safe and settled and excluded from our sex life. If my husband didn’t like that I wanted to create and maintain a warm, clean, orderly, wholesome home and family life, he would’ve married someone else.