I think she honestly uses the gaslighting word, the patriarchy word, along with several others that she doesn't understand as a way to distract from actual discussion. Sort of like when you call out a member of (insert protected class person here) for bad behavior and they start talking about this 'ism, that 'ism, or the other 'phobia there, so you get caught up explaining that none of these things are even fucking relevant and meanwhile they've gone on and done whatever again and you're still defending yourself against being a whatever kind of shitlord.
I'm sure this tactics has served her well a few times, hence her feeling the need to poor mouth herself all over a court filing and point out fucking patriarchy of all things.
But this is KF, and many users simply don't care if they are called racists, sexists, instruments of the patriarchy, gaslighters, narcissists, sluts, virgins, satanist, demon sex freaks, porn addicts, mentally ill, barren, users of birth control, women who have had abortions, deadbeat parents, divorced, fat, on medication, alcoholics, haughty, obsessed with education, not educated, having too close or not close enough of a relationship with parents, a member of any or no religion, wearers if comic book character pajamas, video gamers, free masons, social service employees John Candy... or any other of the many things she has accused us of being. I really hope we get another year of this.