Culture Emma Thompson: 'Why can't older women have sex on screen with a much younger man?'

Emma Thompson: 'Why can't older women have sex on screen with a much younger man?'​



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Pick a Hollywood film at random and chances are that the leading man is paired with a much younger woman.

Emma Thompson would like to turn that on its head, and in her next film we will see her “largely naked” with a man in his 20s.

Good Luck To You, Leo Grande, stars Thompson as a recently widowed teacher who hires a young sex worker for a night of passion.

“It’s very interesting with this woman I’m about to play. This young man says, ‘You’re perfectly attractive, why can’t you find another chap?’ And she says, ‘Because the only people willing to sleep with me are people my age, and I want to sleep with someone younger than me.’

"Now I’ve never heard a woman say that on screen. With men, it’s completely acceptable,” Thompson said of Hollywood’s double standards.

“It’s completely acceptable for George Clooney - who is delightful - to have someone who is 30 years younger than him. If I have someone playing opposite me in a romantic way, they have to exhume someone, because I’m 61 now. Do you see what I mean? It’s completely and utterly unbalanced.”

While male actors are considered distinguished when they reach middle age, women “get past 50 and you’re invisible”.

To change attitudes to older women with younger men, Thompson told the Culture Blast podcast, you “just have to show it” on screen.

“If Leo Grande, the film that we make, speaks to people and people aren’t averse to seeing someone who’s 61 largely naked with a very much younger person, it’s going to be very interesting. We’ve got to keep being brave about that.”

When the podcast’s host, Farah Nayeri, asked Thompson why she was so unafraid to discuss taboo subjects, the actress joked: “It’s a personality disorder, really.” She added: “I probably could do with being slightly more boundaried, but I don’t feel much of a boundary between myself and other human beings.”

Good Luck To You, Leo Grande is written by Katy Brand, the comedian. Thompson’s character is Nancy Stokes, 55, a former religious education teacher who spent years in a stable but stale marriage and finds a new lease of life after her husband’s death. Casting is under way for the male lead.

Asked if the #MeToo movement had made the film industry a better place for women, Thompson said it was changing “but not nearly fast enough”. There is still a dearth of intelligent roles for women, she explained.

“It’s not good enough simply to give the women the guns and then make the women bad-ass as well. Now women have to bad-ass… they’re not allowed to cry any more, apparently, because we’ve got to be just like men. I remember thinking, ‘That’s not what we meant.’"

Women characters shouldn’t have to ape Superman or the Godfather to be considered great, Thompson said. “That’s not where our heroism lies. So how do we make it heroic? Why are there no films about birth, for crying out loud? Does anyone even know about that? No, it’s all hidden.

“All our heroism is hidden because what we’ve done is we’ve just given women the same parts as men and that’s not the point.”


 
Multigenerational age gaps in sexual relationships are just repulsive, and it's a visceral thing for the majority of humans in the same way incestuous relationships are.

People rightfully shame cougars who go out of their way to get pregnant and then give birth to genetically fucked up children, but decrepit old men are more likely to produce damaged offspring too (regardless of how young, healthy and fertile their mate is).

Knowing that the sex isn't going to result in pregnancy wouldn't make it any less disgusting.
 
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Good Luck To You, Leo Grande, stars Thompson as a recently widowed teacher who hires a young sex worker for a night of passion.

“It’s very interesting with this woman I’m about to play. This young man says, ‘You’re perfectly attractive, why can’t you find another chap?’ And she says, ‘Because the only people willing to sleep with me are people my age, and I want to sleep with someone younger than me.’
She made this movie so she could fuck him. No way around it. If the plot really is just that, this is bond to be the saddest softcore porn since Mums Make Porn.
 
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Why are there no films about birth, for crying out loud?

What is Junior? A film YOU FUCKING STARRED IN.

Hell, any film about pregnancy tends to feature birth too.

Piss off Emma, no-one likes you since you went super-leftie and this clear fantasy film (in more than one way!) will not endear you to the public any further.
 
Didn't that happen in Bird Box?

Also, there are older guys who are still desirable.
Jason Statham is 53 and women still drool over him because he's in top shape.
I can't think of any woman in Hollywood who is 53 and still in top shape, not at the level that male actors have to be these days.
There are women like that in general but they ain't in Hollywood.

“It’s not good enough simply to give the women the guns and then make the women bad-ass as well. Now women have to bad-ass… they’re not allowed to cry any more, apparently, because we’ve got to be just like men. I remember thinking, ‘That’s not what we meant.’"

Women characters shouldn’t have to ape Superman or the Godfather to be considered great, Thompson said. “That’s not where our heroism lies. So how do we make it heroic? Why are there no films about birth, for crying out loud? Does anyone even know about that? No, it’s all hidden.

“All our heroism is hidden because what we’ve done is we’ve just given women the same parts as men and that’s not the point.”

Then you should have said something when tens of thousands of angry feminists were advocating for exactly that all throughout the last decade.
NO MORE GENDER ROLES! MEN AND WOMEN ARE THE SAME!
The fuck did you think they meant?
 
Then you should have said something when tens of thousands of angry feminists were advocating for exactly that all throughout the last decade.
NO MORE GENDER ROLES! MEN AND WOMEN ARE THE SAME!
The fuck did you think they meant?
They don’t want solutions, they want to be mad.
 
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I can't think of any woman in Hollywood who is 53 and still in top shape
Reba McEntire is 65. You can't tell me with a straight face that woman is not a total smokeshow.
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