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When someone tells you no, you can't, you won't, to stop, etc through text. It just feels infuriating tbh
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...what?When someone tells you no, you can't, you won't, to stop, etc through text. It just feels infuriating tbh
When someone goes through text rather than say it to your face...what?
OH, okay. That makes much more sense.When someone goes through text rather than say it to your face
Genocide isn't new at all. It's always existed. The only thing new is actually having a name for it and having decided it's bad.
I forgot about Carthage.The Romans were very fond of brutally sackibg cities-- enslaving the children and the younger women while killing everything else-- men, crones, dogs, horses, livestock.
The Third Punic War was the culmination of a long and intentional process to weaken and provoke the Carthaginians before massacring them and destroying their city and civic institutions for all time. The Carthage later founded on the spot had nothing contiguous with the city of Dido but the location. They demolished utterly the Temple at Jerusalem. They demolished Corinth, a city so famous for its art, architecture, and history that it's perhaps equivalent to bulldozing Venice today. In Caesar's illegal wars of conquest in Gaul, perhaps a third of the population of modern-day France and Belgium perished, while another third was carried back to Italy in chains. The Gallic tongue was utterly erased; the Bretons speak a British language, not Gaulish. Likewise they extinguished every other Italic language, the venerable Etruscan tongue, and the entire Iberian language family.
So don't say genocide is new. Pax Romana was built on a lake of blood.
Did they go to war with the intention of slaughtering a population, though?What part of "kill everyone except a few children for sex slaves" isn't genocide? The Romans did that hundreds of times.
The Mongols were also famous for systematic extermination. See also: Assyrians, Zulus, Huns, Turks-- Even the Athenians got in on the action during the Punic War, slaughtering the populations of disloyal allied states.
Yes. Completely destroying cities and massacring their populations was par for the course back then, especially if you were a hated enemy.Did they go to war with the intention of slaughtering a population, though?
Oh, no, it was a big surprise. Whoda thunk that they'd die when we killed them?
Read the Iliad some time. It may not be Historical, but the idea of intentional mass extermination existed even in Homer's time, circa 700 BC. Seriously, read it. Agamemnon and his cronies repeatedly state their intention to kill everyone they didn't haul off for sex slavery; the erasure of Troy was premeditated.
Guess I was wrong, then.Yes. Completely destroying cities and massacring their populations was par for the course back then, especially if you were a hated enemy.
Have you considered finding your own place to live without this human vacuum? What is your bf's relationship with her, what reason does he have to be concerned with her health when she appears to not be a nice person? If the only reason is that "she's family" then that's utter bullshit.A relative of my boyfriend that we live with irritates me quite a bit. I might have already vented about their hygiene issues and laziness here before. But they also embody greed too. Food isn’t safe ‘round here.
To give you an idea, said person has eaten two full takeout containers of Chinese food of ours in one sitting. Never even asked us. I made several types of cookies for my family recently, and ended up with extra to keep here in a few Tupperware. Bf caught relative grabbing like ten at once so I went with my gut and put my favorite two boxes in my room, leaving one box out. It’s immediately gone and we find the empty box on the table that evening. A dozen cookies gone. Me and bf accidentally left a box out on the table after playing a board game the next day and welp, that got snatched too. Also had a dozen cookies in it. I’m pissed. I personally made them and barely got to enjoy any. I will add that we had left a box of leftover grocery store Christmas cookies to appease her grazing after the first incident and that was all gone the next morning.
It’s one thing if she wanted a few cookies. I’d gladly offer her some. But she takes my whole fuckin box (twice) into her cave. It feels like theft. Boyfriend is also annoyed, but none of his complaints or blunt remarks seem to get through. He’s worried about her health, and also her mental health. I don’t know if it’s maliciously not giving a shit about other people, or legitimately lacking self awareness. She’s an adult so it’s difficult to really do much. Either way since she lives on the other side of the house I rarely interact with her, by each time I do it’s stressful.
I was thinking: excess rules in the modern world can be like trying to plug holes in a boat that's like Swiss cheese. The real problem is the craziness of the modern world, and excess rules can be like trying to just treat the symptoms of it.Anyone else think the modern world has way too many rules in just about everything?
sounds like you and your bf have a feeder fetish but just don't want to admit it yet.A relative of my boyfriend that we live with irritates me quite a bit. I might have already vented about their hygiene issues and laziness here before. But they also embody greed too. Food isn’t safe ‘round here.
To give you an idea, said person has eaten two full takeout containers of Chinese food of ours in one sitting. Never even asked us. I made several types of cookies for my family recently, and ended up with extra to keep here in a few Tupperware. Bf caught relative grabbing like ten at once so I went with my gut and put my favorite two boxes in my room, leaving one box out. It’s immediately gone and we find the empty box on the table that evening. A dozen cookies gone. Me and bf accidentally left a box out on the table after playing a board game the next day and welp, that got snatched too. Also had a dozen cookies in it. I’m pissed. I personally made them and barely got to enjoy any. I will add that we had left a box of leftover grocery store Christmas cookies to appease her grazing after the first incident and that was all gone the next morning.
It’s one thing if she wanted a few cookies. I’d gladly offer her some. But she takes my whole fuckin box (twice) into her cave. It feels like theft. Boyfriend is also annoyed, but none of his complaints or blunt remarks seem to get through. He’s worried about her health, and also her mental health. I don’t know if it’s maliciously not giving a shit about other people, or legitimately lacking self awareness. She’s an adult so it’s difficult to really do much. Either way since she lives on the other side of the house I rarely interact with her, by each time I do it’s stressful.