Disaster Parents Claim Death of Teenage Son with Autism Was Caused by Deputies Who Sat on Him for 9 Minutes - He was a big guy


The parents of a teenager with autism have filed a lawsuit against the sheriff's deputies who detained their son, alleging that they sat on the 16-year-old for a combined total of nine minutes.



Daren Parsa and Donna Lou are accusing Jefferson Parish Sheriff Joseph P. Lopinto III and seven deputies of negligence and excessive force in addition to violating their son's rights under the Americans with Disabilities Act, the New York Times reported.

Eric Parsa, 16, had severe autism. He died nearly one year ago on January 19, 2020.

According to the lawsuit, Eric had a "meltdown" as he and his parents were leaving a laser tag center in Metairie, Louisiana, the Washington Post reported. He reportedly slapped himself and his father, prompting the laster tag manager to call reserve deputy Chad Pitfield who was providing security to the shopping center where the incident took place.



Pitfield and the other deputies who eventually arrived on the scene allegedly pinned Eric to the ground and later bound his hands and feet. Lou and Daren's lawyers reportedly said that the deputies who responded had been told Eric had autism.

Pitfield sat on Eric for about seven minutes, the lawsuit said, according to the Washington Post, and then another deputy took over. The lawsuit reportedly said that seven deputies ended up "sitting on, handcuffing, shackling, holding down, or standing by E.P. as he was restrained and held face down on his stomach against the hard surface of the parking lot."

Eric was allegedly held down for a total of nine minutes and six seconds, during which "there were several clear and distinct opportunities, when E.P. was secured, was calm, was not actively resisting."

"They should've taken the weight off of Eric Parsa's back," said William Most, one of Eric's parent's lawyers, per the New York Times. "They should have rolled Eric Parsa on to his side to ensure that he could continue to breathe."

But they didn't, according to the lawsuit, until the teenager had gone limp.

"By then it was too late. E.P. was dying," the lawsuit said, according to the Washington Post.

Lou, a doctor, tried to help resuscitate her son, but was reportedly told to "stay back and let them do their job," the Washington Post reported.

Eric was eventually taken to East Jefferson Hospital, where he went into cardiac arrest and died, the New York Times reported. His death was declared an accident by the Jefferson Parish Coroner's Office, but said his prone position had been a factor.



The Jefferson Parish Sheriff's office did not immediately respond to PEOPLE's request for comment, but disputed the lawsuit's claims in a statement to the New York Times and the Washington Post.

"While the Sheriff's Office understands that all deaths are cause for sadness and a time for grieving, this lawsuit is rife with false claims and malicious accusations against the first responding deputies," the statement said.

Lou said in a news conference Thursday that "not a day goes by" that she and Daren "don't yearn for Eric and grieve the loss of his life and the future he would have had."

"Never did we ever think that our 16-year-old son with special needs would die in front of our eyes at this age and in the hands of law enforcement," she said. "Unfortunately, it is our reality of a nightmare."

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The grieving mother added that she and Daren "bring this lawsuit in hopes that Eric's death will not be in vain and no other families will have to go through the same horror, loss and shock that we are experiencing."

The couples' lawyer did not immediately respond to PEOPLE's request for comment.
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I'm torn on this, because the parents brought him to a laser tag place which would hype up anybody, let alone a severely autistic person. Really unfortunate situation but I don't think the cop should be charged particularly because the parents were there watching.
 
I'm torn on this, because the parents brought him to a laser tag place which would hype up anybody, let alone a severely autistic person.
This part really makes me wonder. If he was actually so autistic that he was prone to sudden uncontrollable fits of rage, he would certainly be too autistic to partake in one of the most sensory overloading activities in human history. Either they actually didn't know that autism plus loud noises, flashing lights, and adrenaline don't mix, or they're lying about their son being autistic. Neither option is a great look on them and makes me think something else was going on.

Another parents get upset when someone else is forced to parent their child and did a bad job at it.

Was there always this much trouble with autistic people in the past pr a very recent thing?
The antivaxxers are right about one thing: autism rates are spiking in a huge way, but it's not because of vaccines. It's because people are having children older and older. It's been proven, beyond a shadow of a doubt, that the older the parents, the higher the chances and severity of autism.
 
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This part really makes me wonder. If he was actually so autistic that he was prone to sudden uncontrollable fits of rage, he would certainly be too autistic to partake in one of the most sensory overloading activities in human history. Either they actually didn't know that autism plus loud noises, flashing lights, and adrenaline don't mix, or they're lying about their son being autistic. Neither option is a great look on them and makes me think something else was going on.
Watch the video, the kid is certainly autistic he's slamming his head over and over. I think the parents were just really stupid.
Honestly the bigger problem is that the parents were watching the police do this and they said nothing at the time, they seemed to even support the police.
 
Once again the police use the bogus medical condition of "excited delirium" for someone they murdered.

What do you think is going to happen when 7 grown men sit on someone for 8+ minutes?

The Jefferson Parish Coroner's Office has not publicly released a cause of death in the case. But according to the lawsuit, the Coroner's Office says the teen died as a result of "excited delirium due to an acute psychotic episode in the setting of severe autistic spectrum disorder and disruptive behavior disorder."
 
According to the lawsuit, Eric had a "meltdown" as he and his parents were leaving a laser tag center in Metairie, Louisiana, the Washington Post reported. He reportedly slapped himself and his father, prompting the laster tag manager to call reserve deputy Chad Pitfield who was providing security to the shopping center where the incident took place
The manager called the police when they shouldn't have imo. He was only hitting his family and they likely would have been able to handle it on their own. Special needs is a tough one, but police are rarely trained in how to actively manage someone with behavioural problems on this scale. Looking at the video, I assume the guy he starts hitting is his father. That guy specifically stays parallel to him when holding him. You can hear him saying "calm down" as he starts and I think I heard him say "get off of him" but i'm not sure. The fact the police were involved in the first place is a problem.

Also, any time of face down restraint is extremely dangerous, even more so because this lad looks to have been overweight. The weight of your own body plus pressure from above can cause issues very quickly. There has been a big drive here in the UK for the past 5 or six years to reduce the use of this restraint technique because there have been a number of people, usually in psych hospitals, being restrained face down and dying from asphyxiation. Your diaphragm can't expand properly when on your front like this and when you're already stressed, hyperventilating etc, its a recipe for disaster.

I hope something comes from this, but the only thing that will help is better training for all police officers and I doubt people will sort out.
 
The censor blur in that video makes it look like the cop was butt naked and putting on a shirt for some tard wrangling.
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>"They should have rolled Eric Parsa on to his side to ensure that he could continue to breathe."
I guess extreme fatties really are beached marine mammals, and will suffocate under their own weight.
 
It's because people are having children older and older. It's been proven, beyond a shadow of a doubt, that the older the parents, the higher the chances and severity of autism.
The worse part is that people simply don't care. I've met women in their late 30's to early 40's that still insist on having kids and get all bent out of shape when you tell them reasons why that's a VERY BAD idea.
 
The worse part is that people simply don't care. I've met women in their late 30's to early 40's that still insist on having kids and get all bent out of shape when you tell them reasons why that's a VERY BAD idea.
The narrative is that having children when you're 100 years old is perfectly healthy and the only reason anyone says otherwise is because they're misogynists who want to control women's bodies. Most people believe it because most people aren't aware of the statistics. I've known several people who bought into the idea that youth is a social construct, but most of them changed their minds as soon as I showed them the numbers. They genuinely didn't know better.
 
and the future he would have had
Okay even I think I am a piece of shit for what I am about to put here but...

Yeah sky was the limit. Costco lost a future hall of fame greeter:

On a serious note: I am sad the kid is dead. I am sure he was nice enough. This seems to be another incident where people failed to realize how something looked from the outside and then reacted poorly when things became lethal.

RIP Big Man.

The antivaxxers are right about one thing: autism rates are spiking in a huge way, but it's not because of vaccines. It's because people are having children older and older. It's been proven, beyond a shadow of a doubt, that the older the parents, the higher the chances and severity of autism.
Gotta use those eggs before the sell by date.
 
I really wish people gave as much of a fuck about police killing disabled people as they did about them killing black people.
Society as a whole couldn't care less about disabled people. My grandmother was in a wheelchair and everybody in public would treat her like a total retard based on that alone.
 
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