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Gotta stop checking on my cows right before lunch.
No, you see, the whole world needs to change for Kelly.Gee, if you don't like the way clothes fit you, then you can either make your own or lose weight so you can fit in standard sizes. It's not a difficult concept to understand, nor should ill-fitting clothing cause such EMOTIONAL TRAUMA.
That is the Kelliest pic of all Kelly pics.
And she expects regular lingerie to fit, lol.Holy cow, what is going on with her breasts? They exist in different universes.
Heh, that is exactly what a narc would say.
Translation: “a lot of malignant narcissistic traits apply to me and like a true narcissist, I refuse to believe it!!”
narcissists deserve a kick in the ass and forever lonelyness.and narcissists deserve care and no stigma
We get it, you're special and different to the cows on here.Gawd, I‘m a bit of a fat cow, but chicken tendies at bed are a no from me, dawg. I have a large glass of water. I’m 50, I don’t need any more protein or fat.
In case anyone doesn’t understand the context here, she’s almost certainly talking about her mom, who she has referred to as a narc in the past. She is likely seeing the same types of behaviors in herself too, maybe pointed out by therapy, which is why she’s starting to back off the label. But tough shit Kelly because narc behaviors are passed down so that’s not surprising. Also, let’s say she’s autistic and not a narc, it’s almost a moot point because being extremely self-absorbed is a hallmark of that disorder too, so it’s almost like saying you’re a narc but just too socially exceptional to be able to successfully manipulate others.
Lurk more,faggot/ phalanx imperious suckboi/ ex voat user.
"think carefully about nice things they have done for me and learn to emulate that kindness in the future" sounds so odd. You don't need to emulate kindness with your social contacts, it just comes naturally. Caring about what's going on in your friends lives also comes naturally because they're your friends and you genuinely wonder how they are doing.
It sounds like she has that fake empathy that high functioning narcissists have where they understand what they should be feeling but don't feel it, so they just play along without feeling any compassion or sympathy. It's like an alien who has spent some years observing humans and is adopting their ways to blend in.
It's not necessarily bad to keep track of social contacts, like whose turn it is to invite the other person but friendships are not meant to be rigid and transactional. She puts it down to being neurodivergent but it comes across more like a narcissistic trait.
"narcissists deserve care and no stigma" - narcissists are monsters who make the lives of people who can't escape them a complete misery, sometimes driving them (especially their children) to suicide. What care does Kelly think narcissists can get? Personality disorders are not like mental illnesses. As of January 2021 there is no known cure for narcissism. Diana Diamond has claimed to have had success with some of her patients with NPD but I remain sceptical.