Kelly Lenza / LividLipids / softbodytendermind / ass_child / photopotamus - "Radical body liberationist”, Intentionally Repulsive, Uber woke middle-aged SJW influencer wannabe, doxed her former therapist for getting WLS, ate her way to heart failure

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While most people have put on the covid 15, it looks like Kelly has put on the covid 50. I remain amazed that her legs are able to maintain balance, especially when she walks. I imagine her breasts shifting position and throwing her center of gravity out of whack.

Fatties like Kelly are snowflakes in more than one sense: no two patterns of fat accumulation are exactly alike. All horrifying to be sure, but uniquely so.
 
Translation: “a lot of malignant narcissistic traits apply to me and like a true narcissist, I refuse to believe it!!”

I love that she’s so fucking self-absorbed that she must actively remind herself to give a fuck about her friends and remember things they say, much less deliberately force herself to remember when they did her favours and kindnesses, because otherwise she’ll forget.

Weird, you seem VERY good at trotting out the ole woke drum to bang on about how indigenous peoples are violently oppressed and how much you “redistributed” your gubmint monies and won’t someone think of the (sufficiently brown) children???

No problems remembering to do that, but actually listening to people who are talking to you and reminding yourself to pretend to give a rat’s arse?

Yeah, nothing wrong with that, Kelly. You’re not an unfeeling narc who performs woke rain dances online to summon attagirls and arsepats, while posting nude pics of your kids online because you didn’t remember to respect them and treat them as people. You’re just neurodivergent.

You know who’s also technically neurodivergent? Narcissists.
 
I guess that'll be the new trend among the woke and the mentally ill (I repeat myself, I know) - no more stigma against narcissists! It'll become "ableist" to want to keep your distance from emotional vampires and people who have no qualms against hurting others for kicks 🙄

ETA: "Abuse doesn't make someone a narcissist and narcissists deserve care and no stigma"

Except narcissists cannot be helped by mental health care services. The most therapy can do for them is teaching them new ways to pretend they're not soulless monsters and the language to manipulate people into thinking they're harmless. They don't think they need improvement or care in the first place, except as a source of narcissistic supply (asspats). No wonder Kelly's ugly personality, behavior and thought patterns don't improve in the slightest even though she undergoes therapy.
 
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Gawd, I‘m a bit of a fat cow, but chicken tendies at bed are a no from me, dawg. I have a large glass of water. I’m 50, I don’t need any more protein or fat.
We get it, you're special and different to the cows on here.



Back on topic, is it just me, or would Kelly shitcan her Husband tried to divorce her? He wouldn't be unreasonable for wanting to run,run far away, but she'd take all she could from him.

I cant imagine waking up next to that. It must be an eldritch horror of a life for the poor bastard.
 
In case anyone doesn’t understand the context here, she’s almost certainly talking about her mom, who she has referred to as a narc in the past. She is likely seeing the same types of behaviors in herself too, maybe pointed out by therapy, which is why she’s starting to back off the label. But tough shit Kelly because narc behaviors are passed down so that’s not surprising. Also, let’s say she’s autistic and not a narc, it’s almost a moot point because being extremely self-absorbed is a hallmark of that disorder too, so it’s almost like saying you’re a narc but just too socially exceptional to be able to successfully manipulate others.
 


"think carefully about nice things they have done for me and learn to emulate that kindness in the future" sounds so odd. You don't need to emulate kindness with your social contacts, it just comes naturally. Caring about what's going on in your friends lives also comes naturally because they're your friends and you genuinely wonder how they are doing.
It sounds like she has that fake empathy that high functioning narcissists have where they understand what they should be feeling but don't feel it, so they just play along without feeling any compassion or sympathy. It's like an alien who has spent some years observing humans and is adopting their ways to blend in.
It's not necessarily bad to keep track of social contacts, like whose turn it is to invite the other person but friendships are not meant to be rigid and transactional. She puts it down to being neurodivergent but it comes across more like a narcissistic trait.

"narcissists deserve care and no stigma" - narcissists are monsters who make the lives of people who can't escape them a complete misery, sometimes driving them (especially their children) to suicide. What care does Kelly think narcissists can get? Personality disorders are not like mental illnesses. As of January 2021 there is no known cure for narcissism. Diana Diamond has claimed to have had success with some of her patients with NPD but I remain sceptical.
 
"think carefully about nice things they have done for me and learn to emulate that kindness in the future" sounds so odd. You don't need to emulate kindness with your social contacts, it just comes naturally. Caring about what's going on in your friends lives also comes naturally because they're your friends and you genuinely wonder how they are doing.
It sounds like she has that fake empathy that high functioning narcissists have where they understand what they should be feeling but don't feel it, so they just play along without feeling any compassion or sympathy. It's like an alien who has spent some years observing humans and is adopting their ways to blend in.
It's not necessarily bad to keep track of social contacts, like whose turn it is to invite the other person but friendships are not meant to be rigid and transactional. She puts it down to being neurodivergent but it comes across more like a narcissistic trait.

"narcissists deserve care and no stigma" - narcissists are monsters who make the lives of people who can't escape them a complete misery, sometimes driving them (especially their children) to suicide. What care does Kelly think narcissists can get? Personality disorders are not like mental illnesses. As of January 2021 there is no known cure for narcissism. Diana Diamond has claimed to have had success with some of her patients with NPD but I remain sceptical.

She's setting the groundwork for the inevitable "get out of jail free/muh mentalz" defense for when someone finally calls her out for messing up her daughters.
 
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