Oh, no, Terry, no. You were living your best life as a transvestite. Everyone always said you were the happiest goddamn troon ever seen on this thread. You have a good job, you seem to be as well put together mentally as most people are, and you have a wife who not only loves you but is tolerant and accepting of your kink. I hope you two have hot TV sex after each one of your Glamour Shots sessions. I don't know that you needed to share the photos with the world, necessarily, but, y'know, you do you, boo.
And now what? Every one of your friends, colleagues, and students is going to have to say goodbye to the person they knew, and watch you be replaced by this unholy duplicate who swears he's still you, and they're going to have to suppress the cognitive dissonance that is going to add stress to all of their lives during the entire time they have to deal with you. Everyone in your life is going to spend all their time walking on eggshells around you for fear that they're going to say something wrong and you'll chimp out and try to get them fired. The smart ones will learn to avoid you as much as possible, going out of their way to avoid referring to you using your "Alicia" name or any third-person pronouns. And you'll wonder why your entire support network is drifting away, and you'll start thinking of them all as evil transphobe Nazis, and you'll spend more and more time on Reddit complaining about them and just generally staying in a bad mood a lot of the time, and the other troons will enable you and urge you to nurse your grudges, which will just make you feel worse.
And have you given any thought to your wife in this? You hit the jackpot, man, you landed a woman who was fine taking pictures of you wearing dresses and makeup and a wig so you could post them to Reddit. Maybe she was even into it, we don't know. Now you're forcing her to be a "lesbian," and introduce you to people as her "wife," and I guarantee you she never thought she was getting into this when she married you. She'll probably tell you it's fine, but she's going to die inside a little bit each day, and in all likelihood you will end up with an empty shell of a marriage if she doesn't wise up and leave you. Good luck to her getting back into the dating pool at this point.
I don't know if we did this to you by finding your identity, but speaking for myself and probably a lot of others here, I'm really sorry.