She's not gonna fuck you, dude. Just because I don't support simping for some ugly radfem on a Brazilian basket weaving forum doesn't mean I love trannies
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Being a bit of a hermit when you're having mental health troubles is by itself not necessarily odd, but the one thing that I didn't come across was how she felt about friendships; did she have many friends? Did she worry about whether they were real friendships, have a tendency to gravitate towards boys or struggle to maintain lasting connections etc. This helps fill something of a gap in the picture.
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You didn't like pants because they felt weird because they were tighter in a certain area? Oh, lord. And again on this I felt like "I was just a character following orders, but it tired me out and made me feel as though I didn't exist" thing. It's like she's screaming for help and doesn't even know it. Again: View attachment 1873132
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It's like, this is all one time stuff and it's all about filling in a sort of fantasy space? None of it is abiding, none of it will ultimately have relevance to your life in the long durée. What will you do when there are no more names to change? To quote myself:
There are doubtless, lots of girls like Ayla here, but few so publicly and obviously show what's going on in their heads as she does. I think it's especially bad for her because she has this unexamined fact of her life just sitting there while she pursues this, this 'being a man' thing. One day, when she's had all the database entries changed, it's going to come out to her and then what will happen? How will she then process what she has done? What do you think and feel when you realize that there was another explanation sitting there? What does that do to you and your identity?
You know, it's always possible when someone transitions for everything to just "work out," but when you have something like this lurking in the background it's much less likely. From my perhaps limited observation one of the biggest triggers of de-transitions seems to be just this sort of thing; when all that you have done is justified in one way and then suddenly, all at once, that justification no longer seems to hold water - it all comes to seem fake and unbelievable. The last thing you want is to experience that moment sitting alone in your room, hugging your legs against your flat chest, a few sharp chin hairs poking into your cold knees.
It's just 14-15 year olds but I think the really high rates of uncertainty are of note and possibly dove-tail with the previous study. My personal hypothesis for a lot of the oddness in autistic sexual orientations is due to impaired mentalizing and that this is especially pronounced amongst women.
It's like all those green text stories of the form:
>Anon has some weird fetish
>Anon hires a prostitute/random man to act it out
>Anon ends up disgusted and feeling incredibly retarded
The vast majority of fetishes/paraphilias and especially the weird ones, are connected to the idea or to the narrative fantasy as opposed to the thing itself.
You are aroused by the features of women (or men, and maybe feet) themselves, but nobody is directly aroused by pregnancy or being defecated on or whatever, just by the thought of them. Thinking about them is arousing, but the thought has no natural connection with the thing. So, you get this strange disconnect where people desire to do the thing without any real knowledge of what it in fact is like. Then when they actually go act out the fantasy they find that the smell of shit is actually disgusting (who'd a thought). There are endless variations on this theme: the guy who gets obsessed with cuckolding then harasses his wife into "cucking" him except it turns out being cucked in your head is a bit different to real life and it blows up his marriage. Or the 21 year old guy who wants to be a "sissy whore" then discovers that getting sodomized by some 43 year old man is actually really humiliating and not in a good way. The disconnect problem, occurs even within porn, people imagine bizarre or deranged shit and jack off to cartoonized versions of it, but never the actual thing. I doubt many (any) autists who get off to 'guro' find mexican cartel videos titillating.
Now, some disconnects are a little less extreme which makes it easier and the thing generally does help vivify the thought.
However, for anything where you find yourself asking "how," you can rest assured that even they most likely wouldn't actually enjoy the experience of it.
I’ve seen people say that autism in women gets misdiagnosed as BPD, and I didn’t understand that, and now I do. The poor grasp of identity and the chasing the dragon with the ever shifting identity thing.
This thread is piles up fast, so apologies if someone has already posted this. According to one organization, Biden's assistant health secretary pick and troon Rachel Levine, while at his PA state job, came up with Covid-safe orgy protocol?
Image of the full letter:
Supposedly the letter has quoted material from a Levine directive on how to participate in a sex party safely during the covid pandemic. Link to tweet https://twitter.com/crazypuce/status/1353776436071391238
This thread is piles up fast, so apologies if someone has already posted this. According to one organization, Biden's assistant health secretary pick and troon Rachel Levine, while at his PA state job, came up with Covid-safe orgy protocol? View attachment 1873609
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Supposedly the letter has quoted material from a Levine directive on how to participate in a sex party safely during the covid pandemic. Link to tweet https://twitter.com/crazypuce/status/1353776436071391238
For the sake of harm reduction, people in the health field have to consider all scenarios. It's the same as safer sex programs and tips for gay men. Or the leaflets on "sterilizing your works" for IV drug users that I used to see plastered in hospital walls and urban community clinics as a child. If it doesn't apply to you, then disregard the instructions.
That being said, during a deadly international virus epidemic, the last thing I personally would want is to interact with anybody at that level. Even with all the precautions, there's still a risk and it's just not worth it.
If this doesn't make Portner TERF out publicly I don't know what will. Also confirmation that trannies aren't relationship material. Bets on Ellen's new "girlfriend" being a MTF she can't bear to touch?
Ah, this one is married to Daniel (formerly Mallory) Ortberg.
The people who were ardent political feminists who then become men amuse me because they yammer about their 'privilege' non-stop. Someone mentioned it before, but it reeks of "Awe poor little women, let me use my new super male privilege to give you some help. I used to be like you once!"
I wonder if they're getting divorced because now that Ellen is a troon, she can't be with a lesbian, since that's invalidating since Ellen is now considered straight. And I don't feel bad for Portner. She's a crazy SJW and TRA, and probably was a reason why Ellen trooned out, if I remember the gossip correctly. Reap what you sow bitch.
the civil rights of trans people
have never been
are not
and must not be
"gender identity-based"
fight identity reductivism. support women. defend mentally ill men from themselves.
Joe has been obsessed lately with this pedantry about rights being universal, not class-based. Which, sure, male people have the right to get an abortion, too, should they never need one. When that's pointed out, the rebuttal seems to be that female people don't share enough in common to count as a coherent political class, whereas female people and male people with induced gynecomastia do?
MOTI, I know, but there's something about Joe that makes my stomach turn a bit more than other frequent fliers here. The barely concealed seething rage and jealousy is typical, so I dunno.
He and Mallory have a thread, fyi, but they've been so boring lately, albeit increasingly nasty to non-sycophants. I hope Joe finds a way to whip up some self-centered drama soon.
Yeah, that’s what troons don’t get: third genders only exist cultures with extremely strict roles for men and women. In the west, men and women can do what they want, so people determine perceived gender by biological sex. It’s not 1800 and we don’t immediately think anyone in pants has to be a man because women don’t wear pants.
Given that modern English speaking Western culture is basically owned by TRAs does it stand as the sole exception to the rule you describe? People who don't mind fucking troons are called "pansexual" rather than bi because even Tumblrettes know on some level that troons aren't fully the sex they identify as.
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Being a bit of a hermit when you're having mental health troubles is by itself not necessarily odd, but the one thing that I didn't come across was how she felt about friendships; did she have many friends? Did she worry about whether they were real friendships, have a tendency to gravitate towards boys or struggle to maintain lasting connections etc. This helps fill something of a gap in the picture.
This just pains me: View attachment 1872824
You didn't like pants because they felt weird because they were tighter in a certain area? Oh, lord. And again on this I felt like "I was just a character following orders, but it tired me out and made me feel as though I didn't exist" thing. It's like she's screaming for help and doesn't even know it. Again: View attachment 1873132
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It's like, this is all one time stuff and it's all about filling in a sort of fantasy space? None of it is abiding, none of it will ultimately have relevance to your life in the long durée. What will you do when there are no more names to change? To quote myself:
There are doubtless, lots of girls like Ayla here, but few so publicly and obviously show what's going on in their heads as she does. I think it's especially bad for her because she has this unexamined fact of her life just sitting there while she pursues this, this 'being a man' thing. One day, when she's had all the database entries changed, it's going to come out to her and then what will happen? How will she then process what she has done? What do you think and feel when you realize that there was another explanation sitting there? What does that do to you and your identity?
You know, it's always possible when someone transitions for everything to just "work out," but when you have something like this lurking in the background it's much less likely. From my perhaps limited observation one of the biggest triggers of de-transitions seems to be just this sort of thing; when all that you have done is justified in one way and then suddenly, all at once, that justification no longer seems to hold water - it all comes to seem fake and unbelievable. The last thing you want is to experience that moment sitting alone in your room, hugging your legs against your flat chest, a few sharp chin hairs poking into your cold knees.
It's just 14-15 year olds but I think the really high rates of uncertainty are of note and possibly dove-tail with the previous study. My personal hypothesis for a lot of the oddness in autistic sexual orientations is due to impaired mentalizing and that this is especially pronounced amongst women.
It's like all those green text stories of the form:
>Anon has some weird fetish
>Anon hires a prostitute/random man to act it out
>Anon ends up disgusted and feeling incredibly retarded
The vast majority of fetishes/paraphilias and especially the weird ones, are connected to the idea or to the narrative fantasy as opposed to the thing itself.
You are aroused by the features of women (or men, and maybe feet) themselves, but nobody is directly aroused by pregnancy or being defecated on or whatever, just by the thought of them. Thinking about them is arousing, but the thought has no natural connection with the thing. So, you get this strange disconnect where people desire to do the thing without any real knowledge of what it in fact is like. Then when they actually go act out the fantasy they find that the smell of shit is actually disgusting (who'd a thought). There are endless variations on this theme: the guy who gets obsessed with cuckolding then harasses his wife into "cucking" him except it turns out being cucked in your head is a bit different to real life and it blows up his marriage. Or the 21 year old guy who wants to be a "sissy whore" then discovers that getting sodomized by some 43 year old man is actually really humiliating and not in a good way. The disconnect problem, occurs even within porn, people imagine bizarre or deranged shit and jack off to cartoonized versions of it, but never the actual thing. I doubt many (any) autists who get off to 'guro' find mexican cartel videos titillating.
Now, some disconnects are a little less extreme which makes it easier and the thing generally does help vivify the thought.
However, for anything where you find yourself asking "how," you can rest assured that even they most likely wouldn't actually enjoy the experience of it.
Your armchair psychology is reaching such a professional level that I would like to congratulate you with a honorary PhD in word salad effortposting.
Can't wait for you to present your tesis on sexual pathology in the people with autism spectrum disorders that live rent free in your brain, me and your fellow doctors of kiwifarms dot net are awating for the defense of such tesis
im late as hell but it’s because they’re fucking autistic. I’m serious.
> According to research, children with ASD present with a higher incidence of strabismus (eye turn) ranging from 21-50 percent prevalence, as compared to children without ASD.
Eta: if ever you ask yourself, “why do so many troons [insert anomaly here]” just check it against common autism comorbidities. Strabismus, obesity, psychiatric disorders, troonery itself being comorbid with autism... they’re socially stunted men who self-soothed by beating off while wearing their mom’s panties in the mirror and turned it into a lifestyle.
Let me check that one source real quick, ah yes, a review article about the symptoms and common characteristics of Autism from the prestigious... optometrists network?
Not only it's a review article that casually mentions a study, so a second-hand source, but the article doesn't cite anything for its claim that 21-50 percent of kids with ASD have strabismus, it directly leads to recommend some shit called "visual therapy", no assertion of sample size, no statement of p-value, no disclosures, NOTHING, because there's no citation, the only link it has leads to a strabismus surgery and symptoms Q&A, by the way, such a huge range is hot trash from a statistical viewpoint, regardless of how well you're doing it.
Do you know what's also a sympton of ASD? Higher than average IQ, half a standard deviation above the mean is the consensus.
And furthermore, if you're so interested in armchair psychology and internet pseudoscience perhaps you should look into the correlation between having a room temperature IQ and having the picture of a cat as your avatar, we got some fine first subjects around here.
Kiwifarms today, Nature tomorrow.