Fixed that for you. Relationships are not where character is built but where character is tested.
Confidence alone means nothing. I've known a lot of retarded people who were confident they weren't retarded
and plenty of them post on this site. What matters is the quality of character, which is why mocking attention whores is so fun. It's why men (not boys,
men) can find a very aesthetically challenged woman to be the most beautiful girl, because she 1) she grooms herself, 2) isn't a bitch, 3) has a good character
I always like to show people something a Christian friend once noticed while arguing with a feminist.
Proverbs 31 is the wisdom of a king about the ideal wife--the virtuous wife--as taught to him by his own mother. It's really something else on its own but especially when considering this was thousands of years ago. The point is, the "virtuous wife" is shown to be diligent, independent, faithful, wholly respectful and "submissive" (not in a BDSM way) to her husband while also having her own things (businesses, finance) too, always places family first, is neighborly, etc. etc.
Not a single time is her physical appearance ever mentioned, only that she's a woman (obviously). What's more? The only line of dialogue comes from the husband
(implying that a woman who is virtuous would be rewarded with her husband's affection, and further implicitly commanding men to show affection daily to their wives) saying she's the greatest of any woman ever born. Sweet.
This is why it's so fun making fun of June, Venti, etc. because although we mock their appearance it's all they really have, and obviously that doesn't account for much beneath the camera filters and make-up. All these attention whores are exactly like the deathfats but not fat, and it's got nothing to do with confidence. They are very confident. All of them. It's that they all have miserable character.
That's also why you can't "turn a hoe into a housewife". The "virtuous wife" doesn't become virtuous by the magical power of hugs and dick. She's first a virtuous woman and then that virtue shines in a relationship. Realizing that is very important. It'll save you the genuine suffering of playing "hero boyfriend" to a dumpsterfire of a woman and it'll also sober you up as a man. All you need to do to get a June or Venti or Pokimane is have money/status/fitness/etc. But a virtuous woman? Ah, now that requires more. Good character is needed to be attractive to someone with good character.