I was thinking about what was said in this thread earlier about ABDL et al. all insisting that having the fetish as a lifestyle is a-ok.
Top of /r/sadcringe today is
this video of a German "plushie lover" arguing with his mother. Basically he has a toy tiger that he's shoved a fleshlight into. His mother is trying to get him to leave it behind or in the car for
just one day so that he can go to a water park with his younger siblings, but he insists he won't be parted from it because he doesn't want to play "ordinary son" and the sex toy is "important and meaningful" to him and she needs to understand that. He's also old enough to drive. Oh and he uploaded the video elsewhere to show how unreasonable she's being.
There's loads of (heavily downvoted) comments arguing that the mother is unreasonable or a prude. Some of the comments equate it with her being homophobic or transphobic. Sure enough, loads of the profiles are "trans girl littles" or have posts in extreme fetish subs.
It's really changed my view on these sorts of arguments. I used to think this was tiresome wokescolds but it really just is insane perverts trying to justify their fetishes.