ITT we sperg about rape

[Steinercard]

And now everything just clicks into place. Also yeah doing half-assed Tik Tok dancing to this is even worse than those Holocaust Tik Toks. At least those were funny.
Now as others have likely said, this is clearly some kind of bizarre pandering or attention whoring. Her sticking point of "ALL MEN" and how common the abuse and rape is by men is out of nowhere. Very Feminist. I thought she was going to say something very important, though.
She says, "For years after I was raped I felt like I deserved it, like I was a dumb whore. But then I had therapy and realized how common it is..."

Spoiler: What I Thought

I thought she was going to explain how common that feeling is in victims of trauma. I was almost going to respect her. See, the term is "magical thinking". It's very common in children who believe they are somehow at fault or did something wrong when they've been abused. However, it's also very common for victims of any age, especially sexual victims, to have an inexplicable feeling of being defiled or tainted, sullied. Even if they know they did nothing wrong they, as adults, can have this looming vague sense of guilt that won't go away. They know it's a lie but it hounds them.
It's why a wife may not want to tell her husband she was raped despite knowing she did nothing wrong and he would only support her. Something within her tells her she was unfaithful and if she tells him it would hurt him. It's the reaction of a conscience wounded by trauma.

Even if most people already understand it, some people might need to hear it from someone else. It might've vindicated her Tik Tok retard shuffle. But no, she was just saying that rape is common.
...Wow. What a Mensan.

Give me the "mad at the internet" ratings, but in my experience. Women who constantly try to drop their "rape stories" into their social media are either lying or have extremely poor taste in men. From experience, most people who get raped don't WANT to talk about that. It drags up bad memories that are better dragged up with private therapy. You know the whole deal about "fool me once?"

Rape me once shame on you. Rape me twice shame on me for not getting the fuck out of an abusive situation.


As an aside, in bongland we got that woman who got raped and murdered by police a few days ago. Naturally middle to upper class women who've never been raped and never actually faced adversity in their life are suddenly giant victims who've been thrown around like a used condom. I sympathise with those women who actually got raped and are speaking out. But often, they do it as a bludgeon against Men and never ever take responsbility for dumb shit they did like go in a dark alley despite warnings from people or associate with people who are known to be shits. Also, don't you dare talk about Male rape. That's "taking away valuable attention from women" because we all know attention is a finite currency to be bought and traded.

Back on topic, tldr bitch is doing this for attention and sympathy. The end.

Thanks for coming to my Teddy Bear talk or whatever the fuck it's called.

 

[Danke]

As an aside, in bongland we got that woman who got raped and murdered by police a few days ago. Naturally middle to upper class women who've never been raped and never actually faced adversity in their life are suddenly giant victims who've been thrown around like a used condom. I sympathise with those women who actually got raped and are speaking out. But often, they do it as a bludgeon against Men and never ever take responsbility for dumb shit they did like go in a dark alley despite warnings from people or associate with people who are known to be shits. Also, don't you dare talk about Male rape. That's "taking away valuable attention from women" because we all know attention is a finite currency to be bought and traded.

Are you really implying it's the victims vault for getting raped just because they decide to take a shortcut/go a different path? Yes people are horrible, but in what way is it the victims vault?

 

[Steinercard]

Are you really implying it's the victims vault for getting raped just because they decide to take a shortcut/go a different path? Yes people are horrible, but in what way is it the victims vault?

No. I'm saying actions have consequences. People get warned not to do things and do them anyway then act like people didn't warn them and it wasn't their fault. Other than that I don't want to get into an autistic argument on semantics on a forum full of people dedicated to analysing the gash wound on an autistic tranny.

 

[Sen. Howell Tankerbell]

No. I'm saying actions have consequences. People get warned not to do things and do them anyway then act like people didn't warn them and it wasn't their fault. Other than that I don't want to get into an autistic argument on semantics on a forum full of people dedicated to analysing the gash wound on an autistic tranny.

We've actually gotten to a point where warning people is somehow offensive, but whatever.

 

[Steinercard]

We've actually gotten to a point where warning people is somehow offensive, but whatever.

For the sake of the mentally ill on this site I'll elaborate. I'm not saying it's someone's fault if someone gets raped. What I'm saying is that there are a lot of men and women who do dumb shit and are warned not to do it.

"Hey, I know you like that guy/girl but I've heard stories and you need to be careful."
"You know that whole area is a bit rough. I know it has that nice nightclub but seriously look after yourself. Weird stuff happens there. Carry some mace or a taser at least. "
"Dude, that guy has massive anger problems. Don't call him a dirty bastard when you've had a few stellas."

So often, ESPECIALLY with the fake rape stories, these women want you to believe they exist in a vacuum. That they acted like virtuous nuns and were suddenly assaulted in broad daylight in front of many people who just did nothing. No one ever looks at context anymore. No one ever goes "Hey, that police officer acted fucking weird to me. Maybe I should lie low for a few days. Police are dodgy in this area and I don't know what they'll do. I can wait to get a bar of chocolate"

Before any of you keep on. No one deserves to be raped. But no one deserves to fall off a cliff after being warned that the cliffs are steep either. But stupid people fall off cliffs all the time.

 

[Danke]

For the sake of the mentally ill on this site I'll elaborate. I'm not saying it's someone's fault if someone gets raped. What I'm saying is that there are a lot of men and women who do dumb shit and are warned not to do it.

"Hey, I know you like that guy/girl but I've heard stories and you need to be careful."
"You know that whole area is a bit rough. I know it has that nice nightclub but seriously look after yourself. Weird stuff happens there. Carry some mace or a taser at least. "
"Dude, that guy has massive anger problems. Don't call him a dirty bastard when you've had a few stellas."

So often, ESPECIALLY with the fake rape stories, these women want you to believe they exist in a vacuum. That they acted like virtuous nuns and were suddenly assaulted in broad daylight in front of many people who just did nothing. No one ever looks at context anymore. No one ever goes "Hey, that police officer acted fucking weird to me. Maybe I should lie low for a few days. Police are dodgy in this area and I don't know what they'll do. I can wait to get a bar of chocolate"

Before any of you keep on. No one deserves to be raped. But no one deserves to fall off a cliff after being warned that the cliffs are steep either. But stupid people fall off cliffs all the time.

Do you know how outrageous you sound? Imagine having to tell your female friends, "oh don't go down that alley. That's rape alley. And since I told you, and you get raped in that alley. That's your fault"
No, it's still the rapist's fault for not being able to adhere to social standards and keep his dick in his pants. The fact that you even THINK it's somewhat the woman's fault just because they COULD have been warned dictates you are clearly not mentally well.

 

[KiwiBeanie]

Do you know how outrageous you sound? Imagine having to tell your female friends, "oh don't go down that alley. That's rape alley. And since I told you, and you get raped in that alley. That's your fault"
No, it's still the rapist's fault for not being able to adhere to social standards and keep his dick in his pants. The fact that you even THINK it's somewhat the woman's fault just because they COULD have been warned dictates you are clearly not mentally well.

"Don't go out in those woods, I heard there's some mean bears there."
"But I love hanging out with bears and don't appreciate your mansplaining!"
Rip Timothy Treadwell

 

[Local Fed]

Do you know how outrageous you sound? Imagine having to tell your female friends, "oh don't go down that alley. That's rape alley. And since I told you, and you get raped in that alley. That's your fault"
No, it's still the rapist's fault for not being able to adhere to social standards and keep his dick in his pants. The fact that you even THINK it's somewhat the woman's fault just because they COULD have been warned dictates you are clearly not mentally well.

I think that you're being too hard on him, at least as it pertains to how I interpreted his post. It's not about blaming the woman for being assaulted/raped, it's about women (or anyone) needing to acknowledge the situation that they're putting herself into. Is it ever justified for someone to be raped? Of course not, nor does that poster agree from what I've read. It's a matter of acknowledging and acting accordingly on the premise that there are people out there who will rape and that they are more likely to choose certain advantageous situations to commit the act.

Should you have the same fear of being raped while standing in the middle of Time's Square at noon on a Wednesday as you would walking down some dark alley at midnight on a Friday? Of course not. You should, however, regardless of who you are be aware of your situation and take proactive steps to ensure your safety, whether that means having someone escort you, carrying a gun where permitted, avoiding the situation if possible, etc. At the end of the day, people shouldn't rape or assault others but one has to also acknowledge that as true as the statement is there are people who don't operate by those same rules.

 

[Bad Take Crucifier]

Should you have the same fear of being raped while standing in the middle of Time's Square at noon on a Wednesday as you would walking down some dark alley at midnight on a Friday? Of course not.

I want to point out that Anisa claimed she was drugged at a bar, at 18 with her friends (This is the legal drinking age in Alberta, Canada). If we assume this is 100% true and honest (since Anisa is a known exaggerator), what's the point of dancing around that story? And then making analogies about walking alone, unarmed, in dark alleys instead of addressing the story?

Let's at least be honest and talk about how women are supposed to protect themselves from being drugged at a bar, in full view of everyone. Unless you're implying the girls were drugged and then walked into a dark alley, while under the influence of rape-pills.

 

[Local Fed]

I want to point out that Anisa claimed she was drugged at a bar, at 18 with her friends (This is the legal drinking age in Alberta, Canada). If we assume this is 100% true and honest, what's the point of dancing around that story? And then making analogies about walking alone, unarmed, in dark alleys instead of addressing the story?

Let's at least be honest and talk about how women are supposed to protect themselves from being drugged at a bar, in full view of everyone.

To be clear, when I was using those examples it was just about the larger issue in general, not strictly about Anisa's specific circumstance there as Danke (who brought up 'rape alley') and the person that they replied to weren't.

In the specific case of Anisa's story, assuming that it's 100% as she described, about all that one can do is exercise caution and common sense. Don't take drinks from anyone you don't know and thoroughly trust, or drinks you didn't personally see get made, etc. Even then there's the risk of, as you bring up, a friend doing something horrible. My overall point I guess is that rather than biting the head off of someone who is advocating steps to ensure one's own safety, it's better to at least acknowledge the risks (and take steps to mitigate them) and not dismiss someone of being a "victim blamer" for encouraging one to do so.

 

[Homer Simpson]

I want to point out that Anisa claimed she was drugged at a bar, at 18 with her friends (This is the legal drinking age in Alberta, Canada). If we assume this is 100% true and honest (since Anisa is a known exaggerator), what's the point of dancing around that story? And then making analogies about walking alone, unarmed, in dark alleys instead of addressing the story?

Let's at least be honest and talk about how women are supposed to protect themselves from being drugged at a bar, in full view of everyone. Unless you're implying the girls were drugged and then walked into a dark alley, while under the influence of rape-pills.

It does happen. Had a friend call me at like 2 in the morning to come get her. She had been drugged with something and was barely functional. She had to be carried to the car and buckled in. She was barely aware of anything going on around her either. She still can't remember that night. It can happen super easily. There was some girl on the net who put out a video of how easyily it can happen.

That said, anisa seems like a massive exagerator. I don't even watch her stuff, but, the small amount I have watched, she comes off as someone who would say and do anything for attention. Including lieing about being raped multiple times.

 

[Steinercard]

you are clearly not mentally well.

Look in the mirror, think about what you just typed, what forum you typed it on, and what you've been doing on this forum since making your account. Then come back to me.

I think that you're being too hard on him, at least as it pertains to how I interpreted his post. It's not about blaming the woman for being assaulted/raped, it's about women (or anyone) needing to acknowledge the situation that they're putting herself into. Is it ever justified for someone to be raped? Of course not, nor does that poster agree from what I've read. It's a matter of acknowledging and acting accordingly on the premise that there are people out there who will rape and that they are more likely to choose certain advantageous situations to commit the act.

Should you have the same fear of being raped while standing in the middle of Time's Square at noon on a Wednesday as you would walking down some dark alley at midnight on a Friday? Of course not. You should, however, regardless of who you are be aware of your situation and take proactive steps to ensure your safety, whether that means having someone escort you, carrying a gun where permitted, avoiding the situation if possible, etc. At the end of the day, people shouldn't rape or assault others but one has to also acknowledge that as true as the statement is there are people who don't operate by those same rules.

Yeah, that's a much better way to put it than my autistic rambling. If you're going to judge me, then getting really fucking tilted at the idea of taking personal responsibility for your actions is proof of lesser moral character. Now can we get back to moaning about this thot please?

 

[ogmudbone]

Do you know how outrageous you sound? Imagine having to tell your female friends, "oh don't go down that alley. That's rape alley. And since I told you, and you get raped in that alley. That's your fault"
No, it's still the rapist's fault for not being able to adhere to social standards and keep his dick in his pants. The fact that you even THINK it's somewhat the woman's fault just because they COULD have been warned dictates you are clearly not mentally well.

Your logic man. Why tf would anyone go down to any place named rape alley to begin with. Also, yes in some cases rape is entirely preventable based on personal decisions. Other times not so much.

 

[Kulee Baba]

Your logic man. Why tf would anyone go down to any place named rape alley to begin with. Also, yes in some cases rape is entirely preventable based on personal decisions. Other times not so much.

I remember people chatting about the Bill Cosby roofie rapings at a bar and a female acquaintance said "Why the fuck were they all going into his dressing room by themselves?"

Blame should not be placed on a victim for getting violated. It's never a woman's fault if she's sexually assualted. But yes it's important for a woman to keep their guard up because yes predators will always exist.

 

[Danke]

I think that you're being too hard on him, at least as it pertains to how I interpreted his post. It's not about blaming the woman for being assaulted/raped, it's about women (or anyone) needing to acknowledge the situation that they're putting herself into. Is it ever justified for someone to be raped? Of course not, nor does that poster agree from what I've read. It's a matter of acknowledging and acting accordingly on the premise that there are people out there who will rape and that they are more likely to choose certain advantageous situations to commit the act.

Should you have the same fear of being raped while standing in the middle of Time's Square at noon on a Wednesday as you would walking down some dark alley at midnight on a Friday? Of course not. You should, however, regardless of who you are be aware of your situation and take proactive steps to ensure your safety, whether that means having someone escort you, carrying a gun where permitted, avoiding the situation if possible, etc. At the end of the day, people shouldn't rape or assault others but one has to also acknowledge that as true as the statement is there are people who don't operate by those same rules.

Also because I was born in the Middle East, I should be proactive and move to a safer area, right?
well not everyone gets that choice, not everyone has friends they can rely/trust on. And sometimes they do everything fine, yet still get attacked.

so they did everything right but were still attacked, so we disregard that statistic right? That doesn't fit the original argument's point therefore it's wrong.

no. It should always be the rapists fault, and NEVER the victims fault, regardless of how stupid or moronic their choice was.
No one but the assaulter should EVER have to take accountability for being sexually assaulted.



While this is definitely a semantics argument, I wanna leave something a comedian said on how Women feel all the time, and I agree with it.

"
You cant scare women. thats the thing ive learned
have you ever been scared?
'Maybe a few times in my life.'
thats what women feel of every second, of every minute, of every day.
that just at any moment, the lights will go out and everyone will try to touch their boobs.
"

 

[Bad Take Crucifier]

I don't know any women who aren't at least somewhat paranoid about men. Most women already know these things and are scared of men at times, so it sounds retarded to come into the women's board and act like this is a big revelation that women need to hear.

You can only go so far with this "Take steps to prevent rape!" argument before you're basically repeating the same talking points as the "#YesAllMen" and "All men are rapists" crowd. Yes, you can get raped "at any time anywhere by any man," galaxy brain shit right there.

Don't we have a rape sperging containment thread somewhere?

 

[Jack Awful]

no. It should always be the rapists fault, and NEVER the victims fault, regardless of how stupid or moronic their choice was.
No one but the assaulter should EVER have to take accountability for being sexually assaulted.

I disagree, there are a select few cases when theoretically it was the woman's fault for being retarded. When Corinne Forever went to Compton and was alone flirting with that gang member in the middle of the night and he got handsy, as cruel and heartless as it may be, it would have partially been her fault if she didn't get lucky and escape.

The gang member of course would be at fault, but at what point should we expect women to take personal responsibility? Like if she had no other choice and had to walk home alone and was raped it's 100% the rapists fault, but if you choose to go to the most notoriously shitty neighborhood in America and flirt with a hardened criminal, I lose sympathy for you. It's like willingly covering yourself in bacon and jumping into an alligator pit.

 

[Stray Bullet]

People always tell women to keep their guard up and then act like women are just paranoid, so which is it? If you could genuinely "take proactive steps" to not get raped, rape would just not be a thing.

 

[Danke]

I disagree, there are a select few cases when theoretically it was the woman's fault for being retarded. When Corinne Forever went to Compton and was alone flirting with that gang member in the middle of the night and he got handsy, as cruel and heartless as it may be, it would have partially been her fault if she didn't get lucky and escape.

The gang member of course would be at fault, but at what point should we expect women to take personal responsibility? Like if she had no other choice and had to walk home alone and was raped it's 100% the rapists fault, but if you choose to go to the most notoriously shitty neighborhood in America and flirt with a hardened criminal, I lose sympathy for you. It's like willingly covering yourself in bacon and jumping into an alligator pit.

So women aren't allowed the same freedoms of men because they might make a mistake, and get raped for it?

Also are you really comparing conscious men horny thinking compared to instinctive alligator hungry thinking? You're actually braindead, and you might just very well be the same guy in your pfp.

Also you're now implying people who are criminals lack morality/values.
Not everyone who's a thief is a rapist.


Not everyone who lives in a impoverished community is a criminal.
While statistics show, yes, they are pushed to it. That doesn't mean some random 'hardened' criminal is going to rape the first woman who gave him attention.

 

[Bad Take Crucifier]

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I'm not saying you're wrong. But if the best example you have for this argument is a retarded lolcow literally going to a gang-infested den of niggers, then your argument isn't very compelling.

White women think the danger of the inner city doesn't real, what else is new?

OP is very simple. He makes the easiest, most stereotypical argument he can make, and assumes that's all there is to life.

Okay but this is a thread about iDubbbz retarded girlfriend