I get you, but FWIW, I am a lesbian and for the past more than TWENTY years, I've called shit out and have always done what I could to shame, shun, and police the LGBBQWTF crowd.
The reality is... when we DO, we are shamed. Deplatformed. Unpersoned. Smeared as a bigot a KKK or a closet heterosexual. I've been banned multiple times on facebook--more than six times--for--I shit you not--"hate speech" and promoting "White Nationalism" per facebook's own warnings on my account--and all for extremely critical call outs of the gays, bisexuals, and troons.
Many of us have to misspell words on facebook and other platforms to get around the algorithyms. Otherwise you get a strike on your account or a ban-for using faggot or tranny--your OWN FUCKING WORDS, BTW--God knows blacks can spout N I G G E R all day everywhere on the internet since it's "their word", but Christ help any of us for using our own words to fight back.
So we do. And where does it get us? Deplatformed. Slandered. While shitheads like Johnny Weir and Martina Navratilova get front page spreads on Curve and Out magazines as "activists."