I also interpret Digi's transition this way. To add on, his neurotyping theory painted male thought processes as logical/structured and female thought processes as emotional/abstract. When Digi described starting HRT he's said that he's excited to "feel emotions" as if he hasn't before.
He repressed sides of himself (emotional, and perhaps now sexual with the new homo lifestyle?) in order to fit his stereotype of what a man is. To fix this repression, he now thinks that he needs to become another person (what he calls his true self) in order to finally express it. When really he just needed to face what kind of man he is: someone who is extremely emotional, bitchy, gets sidetracked easily, can't finish a project (no strike no kill), and is apparently attracted to men. Trans ideology is so bizarre.
Also I don't know if it was Digi or May's ass-backwards idea for May to also be trans and be a "demiboy," but again that shows this very boxed-in thinking. If Digi's going to be female (emotional, abstract AKA distracted and not working), then May has to be the male (logical, structured AKA the one getting shit done). They tried to entirely rethink themselves and their gender dynamic, but somehow ended right back into traditional gendered roles.
