- Joined
- Oct 4, 2020
It seems like a lot of dudes underestimate the sleep deprivation/stress involved with caring for an infant. Some of these types don't share the physical exhaustion their wives do after the baby is born, because they don't partake in the exhausting childcare aspect of it, so they have more "energy" for sex whereas the wife does not. Motherhood isn't like television, where the mother is always dressed to the nines, has a pristine house, is always sexy, with every hair in place and a 5-star meal on the table at 5pm. These dudes get pissy because their wives can't live up to the fantasy while caring for an infant.with that theres at least some degree of understandable behavior: wife doesnt want to fuck anymore because pregnant/baby -> go fuck hookers instead. not an excuse but theres at least understandable reasoning behind it
but with the trooning its just complete lunacy, absolute insanity, and it takes over the persons entire life (private AND public) and ruins it forever, and the wifes life along with it
Then there are the other ones who can't grasp that it can take 6 months or so for a healthy woman to "bounce back" physically after a pregnancy.
All that aside, these dudes want to live out their porn-inspired fantasies instead of dealing with reality, so they "check out" and go trooning, or they wind up on threads like "polyamory" because they browbeat their wives into threesomes, or end up trolling for tail online.
Some women "check out" after childbirth, too, but it doesn't seem as common for them to troon out. Maybe they might got the cheater route (some women get a more extreme sex drive after childbirth, but maybe not for their partner), or they dive into shopping/eating addiction.