- Joined
- Sep 30, 2020
In my many years in the field of troonery I would say that often as Gender Non Conforming and Socially Awkward men they have a really hard time fitting in and getting attention in the ways that men usually so. I also think there is that whole "become the waifu" tie in. Also, there is an overwhelming consensus that being a woman is life on easy mode. They are jealous of what they "perceive" womanhood to be: Basically to be a sex object that doesn't have to work or think or care for itself. To basically shed the burden of real life responsibility. The female imagery comes right out of textbook misogyny - showing women as being weak submissive sex dolls.Here's something I've been wondering:
It is said often that MTF trans people are men imitating the women they are attracted to, "their type." The female image they imitate is very idealized, and usually doesn't resemble real women at all. Yet, many of these people seemed to have started out as shlubby, dorky beta males who had nothing much going for them.
Why is it that they strive to be their best selves as "women," but not as men? Why do they find it so freeing to be women? Do they see the idealized woman as attainable, but the idealized man as not? Or are they just too autistic to have real self-awareness, and only think of the kind of person they're attracted to?
Deep down I think they know that they are men but we are talking deep in the hidden gooey layers of ones ego and psyche. After all - if this was some part of there would not be so much cognitive dissonance.
The parts of womanhood that are idealized are always the toxic and shallow parts. There is never a caring for the sick, selfless raising of children, or bearing of pain with grace. MtFs seethe with deep levels of misogyny. Even the non screeching "good ones" will let it slip about their bimbofication fetishes eventually...
Trans people suffer from a mind body disconnect and that is why they do not have an authentic self. Narcissists also have this (I am starting to believe more and more every year that transgenderism is a manifestation of NPD) and when you don't have a "self" you have to create a whole lot of copium bull shit to exist. Why aren't they trying to be their best selves as men? They look inward and see a void. Emptiness. That is the source of their despair - not their bodies. Every single one I have known had intense feelings of emptiness. We cannot be our best selves if we have lost the ability to see ourselves.