Plagued Incels.is (Previously known as /r/incels) - Subreddit's banned, entitled Manchildren whine about why they can't get laid.

[Mr Snek]

Yeah, and while I'll admit some can be vapid hoes, there are certainly a good number worth dating.

I've legitimately never met a woman worth dating. The only one I even considered told me I wasn't good enough for her when I asked and is currently a drug addicted street whore. The only positive relationship I've ever had with a woman is with my grandma who's just as jaded as I am.

 

[EthanDude]

https://qz.com/1546677/around-40-of-us-couples-now-first-meet-online/ here you go.

This says online, not tinder. @Protistology So does your post. Point moot.

To be a self-identified incel is to simultaneously believe you cannot get laid while refusing to accept the fact. When you start with a contradiction like that it gets bonkers pretty fast.

So saying "i'll never get laid" but also saying "I can get laid" makes you an incel. I honestly don't get it.

Of course, if you believe you have a chance they'll just call you a bluepilled idiot. If you just don't want to have sex they'll call you a bluepilled cuck. If you actually had sex you're obviously a chad or (more often) lying. They're the only group I know that aggressively insists that their enemies are secretly one of them. And if you're a woman you're obviously untrustworthy, clearly they know more about female behaviour than you would.

Bluepilled just means someone who refuses to "see the light" i.e agree with them. Hypergamy just means "women are picky" which is true to an extent but grossly exaggerated (80% of men have married by age 45, which is a lot more than 20%).

Is it just me or does this shit sound like goblydegook?

 

[White Pride Worldwide]

To be a self-identified incel is to simultaneously believe you cannot get laid while refusing to accept the fact. When you start with a contradiction like that it gets bonkers pretty fast.

Of course, if you believe you have a chance they'll just call you a bluepilled idiot. If you just don't want to have sex they'll call you a bluepilled cuck. If you actually had sex you're obviously a chad or (more often) lying. They're the only group I know that aggressively insists that their enemies are secretly one of them. And if you're a woman you're obviously untrustworthy, clearly they know more about female behaviour than you would.

Bluepilled just means someone who refuses to "see the light" i.e agree with them. Hypergamy just means "women are picky" which is true to an extent but grossly exaggerated (80% of men have married by age 45, which is a lot more than 20%).

Nah most of the mainstream people in the community are not virgins but are still blackpilled. Having sex doesn't matter its about getting sex on demand when you want it, incels don't have that privilege.

Yeah, and while I'll admit some can be vapid hoes, there are certainly a good number worth dating.

Only virgin women not whores are worth taking seriously.

 

[White Pride Worldwide]

This says online, not tinder. @Protistology So does your post. Point moot.


So saying "i'll never get laid" but also saying "I can get laid" makes you an incel. I honestly don't get it.

Is it just me or does this shit sound like goblydegook?

https://web.stanford.edu/~mrosenfe/Rosenfeld_et_al_Disintermediating_Friends.pdf

This is the study they site which says 40% meet on online dating platforms. This is a study from Stanford.

 

[EthanDude]

https://web.stanford.edu/~mrosenfe/Rosenfeld_et_al_Disintermediating_Friends.pdf

This is the study they site which says 40% meet on online dating platforms. This is a study from Stanford.

Because tinder is obviously the only dating platform. No such thing as match, or discord, or eharmony, or plenty of fish, or okaycupid, or the countless christian dating sites. Nah, never heard of them.

 

[White Pride Worldwide]

Because tinder is obviously the only dating platform. No such thing as match, or discord, or eharmony, or plenty of fish, or okaycupid, or the countless christian dating sites. Nah, never heard of them.

All of them are the same. Here is a study from Okcupid rating 80% of men as below average. If there was a "singles in your area" type of site where easy sex is a norm, men would've found it by now.

 

[Meriasek]

I was never really a fan of online dating stuff. Did give Tinder a try, though. It can work, although it might not be for everyone.

 

[Blatant hypocrite]

So saying "i'll never get laid" but also saying "I can get laid" makes you an incel. I honestly don't get it.

Is it just me or does this shit sound like goblydegook?

It is. Everyone one of these terms is just a way to justify themselves.

The word "incel" itself is a trap really. According to them "incel" means anyone who can't get laid, which means you'd be included somehow. However nobody other than self-proclaimed incels calls random people incels, because the more common understanding is "anyone who calls themself an incel". Because someone who calls themself an incel has a certain set of beliefs and behaviors that distinguish themself from someone who's merely single.

 

[Shadfan666xxx000]

>meet wamen irl
>everything is closed because a fake chink virus

Great advice.

Road trips are a thing. Take your buddies and pool money and plans together for a long weekend.

 

[EthanDude]

I was never really a fan of online dating stuff. Did give Tinder a try, though. It can work, although it might not be for everyone.

How did it work for you?

 

[Meriasek]

How did it work for you?

Had a few matches, some conversations. Only ever went on a date with one.
I'm still with her, though, so that's a positive.

 

[EthanDude]

Had a few matches, some conversations. Only ever went on a date with one.
I'm still with her, though, so that's a positive.

I have like maybe a dozen or so matches. Had some cool conversations, most stop talking, and the only cool girl I met clearly said she wasn't looking for a relationship. So I gave up after a while and just deleted it after no progress. I made like 3 or 4 accounts? Admittedly I did spend money which I regret.

 

[White Pride Worldwide]

It is. Everyone one of these terms is just a way to justify themselves.

The word "incel" itself is a trap really. According to them "incel" means anyone who can't get laid, which means you'd be included somehow. However nobody other than self-proclaimed incels calls random people incels, because the more common understanding is "anyone who calls themself an incel". Because someone who calls themself an incel has a certain set of beliefs and behaviors that distinguish themself from someone who's merely single.

While I agree that if you are a virgin or whatever going on these places won't help you or your mental health but to deny reality that it was your approach or if you said something else or some other shit will somehow get you laid when you got rejected is a massive cope.

Had a few matches, some conversations. Only ever went on a date with one.
I'm still with her, though, so that's a positive.

Point proven. Online dating works.

I have like maybe a dozen or so matches. Had some cool conversations, most stop talking, and the only cool girl I met clearly said she wasn't looking for a relationship. So I gave up after a while and just deleted it after no progress. I made like 3 or 4 accounts? Admittedly I did spend money which I regret.

Don't give money to jews to continue this fucked dating system.

 

[Shadfan666xxx000]

Tinder is literal shit tier. I got dates on Plenty of Fish and other places where there's a margin of error. Tinder will fuck you if you use it too much and it's an endless parade of trannies and deathfats for the average dude. J don't care how many relationships you find there, you're literally going down a tier if you're a dude compared to irl.

 

[White Pride Worldwide]

Tinder is literal shit tier. I got dates on Plenty of Fish and other places where there's a margin of error. Tinder will fuck you if you use it too much and it's an endless parade of trannies and deathfats for the average dude. J don't care how many relationships you find there, you're literally going down a tier if you're a dude compared to irl.

unironically tinder was the one I had most success on. POF is a bunch of bots, okc was okayish.

 

[Fanatical Pragmatist]

It is. Everyone one of these terms is just a way to justify themselves.

The word "incel" itself is a trap really. According to them "incel" means anyone who can't get laid, which means you'd be included somehow. However nobody other than self-proclaimed incels calls random people incels, because the more common understanding is "anyone who calls themself an incel". Because someone who calls themself an incel has a certain set of beliefs and behaviors that distinguish themself from someone who's merely single.

Ehh, I'd argue people who don't identify as incel (such as Lucas Werner, Russ Greer and potentially debatably MovieBob are incels, though the later might just fall into "thirsty permavirgin" territory) can be incels.

I'm certainly no fan of people who call married men they don't like (i.e. Tucker Carlson, Mike Pence) "incels", but there are people who fall into the incel category even if they don't admit or wear it like a badge.

Had a few matches, some conversations. Only ever went on a date with one.
I'm still with her, though, so that's a positive.

I noticed most Tinder girls are only interested in sex, and not serious relationships (or maybe I'm in the "fuck zone" but not the "boyfriend zone"). I've been on a handful of Tinder dates and only one ever turned into a second date.
Tinder is also shit and finding GF material on Tinder is like fishing for sharks in a manmade lake. Tinder attracts a certain type of woman.

Didn't give any other dating site a try, because I realized I was having more luck in-person.

If you are insistent on a virgin fucking find a church(/synagogue/mosque) and get involved with a youth group or young adult group.
If you are an atheist and want a virgin you can eat shit.

 

[Meriasek]

I have like maybe a dozen or so matches. Had some cool conversations, most stop talking, and the only cool girl I met clearly said she wasn't looking for a relationship. So I gave up after a while and just deleted it after no progress. I made like 3 or 4 accounts? Admittedly I did spend money which I regret.

It can be rather weird. Most women on there don't really say much about themselves, just some flattering pictures and what they're looking for in a man. It's hard to even find an interesting woman there, because you'd need to match and talk to them to find out anything about them.
Might be worth it to give it another shot. Don't be disparaged, women get bombarded with with messages and dickpics on there, so they'll weed out heavily. The incels are right, the game is indeed rigged against men.
Don't base your life around Tinder and don't let rejection over the Internet get to you. It's just one way to meet women without having to go out.
If you have any special hobbies or interests I'd try and see if there are any online dating platforms more catering towards that group. Could be good or bad, on the one hand it'll basically only offer women with whom you already share an interest, on the other hand it might be a very male-dominated hobby and the disparity will be even worse.
If you don't have some special interest or hobby, fuckin' get one. Even if you remain a virgin forever you'll at least not be idle or alone.

I had four years with no matches (except bots). That's why you don't get it. You're hot.

According to the other guy I'm either an incel, a cuck, or a faggot.
The reality is that it doesn't matter who I really am because I'm just a rando on the Internet who alternates in this between shitposting and trying to give them genuine advice. Advice that isn't going to work for everyone, that isn't universal, but that's up for anyone to decide and/or try.

 

[TherapyMan]

you're literally going down a tier if you're a dude compared to irl.

Online dating makes a lot of men unhappy for this reason, and it's a problem that dating apps still haven't really been able to crack, although sometimes they don't want to, because they profit from desperation. Even on the most popular dating apps, men outnumber women by a ratio of at minimum like 3:1, with most being around 10:1. You can get lucky with online dating as man, especially if you're particularly attractive, but the odds are against you no matter what.

This is not the say that women aren't negatively affected by this system either. The signal-to-noise ratio for female matches with men makes it difficult to actually address people individually since they are so immensely outnumbered in terms of matching. Sifting through 100s of "eyy baby wan sum fuk" and dick picks is another way the process of online dating demoralizes people, regardless of gender.

Staying away from online dating I think is a good move. It is a much more enjoyable and fulfilling experience to cultivate relationships with those around you, in my opinion. Online dating makes people jaded and frustrated more often than not while neglecting the necessary social skills to actually meaningfully connect to other people. The plus to online dating is that it takes little effort to put yourself out there, but again, putting yourself out there is a way to develop sociability.

 

[Shadfan666xxx000]

Another piece of advice is to not aim down. I've noticed that its attractive (and nice) women who like attention and people hitting on them. Trying to even be nice to a short, fat and insecure chick almost feels like trolling them and the "lol, so quirky" girls are actually even worse. Stacies and tomboys will get teary eyed with you and play around but the last ditch girls know the meta and can't get over it.

 

[EpicGamerMoment]

Every girl I have ever been with has just blackpilled me further on female nature and convinced me they don't need rights like men, they vote to let niggers and faggots destroy society anyway.

According to you isn’t it a good thing that they’re destroying soyciety