Um, this entire enterprise is to entrap a man so she can move out and get the fuck away from Peetz. She literally brought furniture to his house for a hookup.
Completely. Her apparent MO is to slowly move her rubbish over and into his life, which apparently may also be how she got her trotters on Bibi. I mean she even admits this is why she’s bringing things over...she told us in a live that she “just needed to get into his house” with the guy before this, forget his name, who only met up with her for a few minutes. And she told us she planned to “forget” things at Egypt’s house so she would have ongoing excuses to come back and see him...meaning even
she predicted he’d get sick of her and she would need to manipulate him into letting her back in, much like the things she left behind when Bibi booted her.
Chantal weirdly fetishes getting access to men’s houses. She told us how she was a disturbance to a boy she stalked as a girl, peering into his bedroom window and
obsessing over trying to be allowed into it...and also she purportedly broke into the house of an older man she fancied. She fixates on getting access to their personal spaces, likely because she has NEVER been given that before, voluntarily. She’s the fat girl a homeless man fucked on a rock, or a co-worker behind the job she was once at, or a drunken grope at a party.
She knows she’s a drunken mistake or embarrassing dry-spell lay. She’s not the pretty girlfriend you invite into your flat and give her drawers to use, a shelf for her cosmetics, her side of the bed, a cupboard for her favourite foods, or other gestures to show you want to share your space and life with this person in a relationship.
So I think she obsesses on “getting into his house” in this worrying way, the way a perpetual incel obsesses over “the right pick-up technique.” Chantal thinks if she can JUST get an invite back to his place (as she put it, “I feel like if I can JUST get into his house...”) this will be a Major Step and practically guarantee expedited progression to Real Girlfriend, not possible one-night stand.
Both she and the proposed incel have an underpants gnome approach:
1. Meet potential mate
2. Use pick-up technique/get into his house
3. ?????
4. RELATIONSHIP!!
Neither is sure what step three is, so they tend to imagine it’s optional or not important.
Plus Chantal has no concept of other people’s boundaries...she isn’t stopped from crossing them by morals or decency, only by physical impasse or the law. She eats all her flatmate’s food, gets in his space, takes over most of the house all day, etc. She drove away that first potential feeder by texting five thousand times a day in an increasingly personal
manner. She wouldn’t stop trying to let herself in or crash at Bibi’s once she moved out, not until he likely told her she
does not live there anymore, and it is no longer her space. Then changed the locks.
She likely feels that once she gets past the gatekeeping man and into his house, it’s now HER space too. He gave her access to it, so why would he revoke it? She acts like it isn’t even his TO revoke once she’s in. After like TWO days of visiting Egypt Man, she told followers she will now split her living time between his place and the Luxury Villa. No invitation, his space is now her space.
Chantal seems to feel that she gains irrevocable and permanent access to a private space if you allow her into it
once.
