That's the thing. There's a difference between being dominant (or even sadistic) and being abusive. I won't sperg too much or powerlevel, but BDSM and other degenerate shit is whatever. I don't care if either of them are into it (though it's worth nothing that Chantal has never said anything about that, and given her lack of filter/propensity to exaggerate, you know she would have told us alllllll about it). But key to those sorts of relationships (even casual ones) is a sort of meeting of the minds with regards to boundaries and when they can be pushed, etc. Chantal is mindless, and Egypt is a creep; she's indicated that he's constantly pushing at her boundaries, and while I accept that she's too happy to be getting laid to really put her foot down, that's kind of the problem; she's desperate and oblivious to normal human behavior and interactions, let alone something as nuanced and complex as a BDSM-type relationship. She's too stupid to know when she's in danger, and everything she's said about this guy indicates he gives zero fucks about keeping her safe (or respected, even). I don't buy that he wept with concern after she smoked out of the meth pipe he casually left lying around, for example, and while the physics of her sleeping in a bed with him would put me in fear of the bed collapsing, that really sounds like a cope for the fact that he makes her sleep on a fucking mattress on the floor.
She will defy him, she will be punished, and she won't have any idea how to deal with it. More drugs, I would imagine.
I don't get all the gorls in this thread and in chat chittering about how he's kinda cute. Whether he is or he isn't, he's displaying really concerning behavior between the beating and the drugs -- again, this isn't a "normal" or "good" Dom/sub relationship that's being described here. He might not be as hideous and obviously demented as we all assumed he would be, but come on.
tl;dr BDSM is cool or whatever, but don't confuse that for abuse. Which Chantal will 100% do because she thinks it makes her sophisticated.
I don’t think Egypt man is cute, dunno why other gorls think so here. He’s got a hell of an asymmetrical face, weak chin, and just a general weird oiliness.
But indeed it may be the halo effect: we imagine what Chantal actually deserves (a 1/10 mouth breather scraped out of the barrel bottom), so Nader looks incredible in comparison to that.
Also to add to the “dom” talk...Chantal is an absolute teen-brained virgin shut-in to call this arsehole a Dom. He’s
abusive, big fucking difference. A Dom sits down with you and discusses boundaries, what you’re both into, and a Dom religiously monitors you all the while to make sure you’re comfortable with what’s happening. Aftercare? Also involved.
Nader apparently bruises Chantal without any warning, slaps her body in places while insulting her looks, constantly pushes his own fetishes on her and ignores her limits (orgies, flashing his friend for money, dude
threatened her...jokingly!...with anal, ffs), orders her to come and go, and they haven’t discussed ANY boundaries at all. He just does whatever he wants to her, and leaves it up to her to reconcile herself with the consequences.
That’s not a dom, Chantal, that’s an abuser. Her idea of a dom comes from shitty movies and books and she thinks a dom is just someone who tells you what to do whenever, and you have to do it.
But now I’m trying to imagine her sitting down with an actual Dom to suss out boundaries and so forth:
“So Chantal, do you think you’d be amenable to light restraints?”
Chantal: (beet red and wheezing with awkwardness) “UHHHHH ARE WEINERS INVOLVED TEEHEEEHEEEEEEE!! CUZ I’M BEEEEEZIN IN THE BEEZOIRRREEEE!! Let’s just do this, whatever, put your weiner in my thing! My tummy just rumbled again, so I think I only have another ten minutes before I gotta POOPOOS INNA KITCHEEEEN!”
Sure, tell us how fat women have sex and it's pleasurable when you don't even know what you like yourself. That sounds like an AWESOME idea. Next we can have a sex podcast by a virginal nun. Wait...she might actually know more.
To be fair I would listen to a sex podcast done by Sister Mary Elizabeth and her no-nonsense squad of nun chums.
You'll get your wish sooner or later. Jabba seems to have forgotten that Ozempic was prescribed to her for her raging diabetes, not for weightloss. Her already severely compromised liver and other organs are screaming at her even while on Ozempic...they can only get worse now she seems to have stopped taking it. Bitch doesn't understand that diabetes meds are NOT optional for her, and all diabetes meds come with not so pleasant gastro-intestinal side effects.
I’m honestly willing to bet she actually HAS forgotten the Ozempic is for her raging diabetes and simply refers to it now as a her weightloss pills. Every time she gets a new, even firmer confirmation of having diabetes, she sighs and moans for two days over it, then walks it back as “maybe diabetes” or “not actually that bad.” I’m sure she believes it a lot of the time too.
