Well... Nader did prove his lust and infatuation with HER at the beginning of their relationship with extra phone calls. She was completely over the moon that he had called her "like 18 times." His dominance equalled romantic obsession in her mind.
So he kinda taught her to be a maniac with the phone on redial. Yeah? That's his LOVE LANGUAGE.
He love bombed her at the beginning which is what narcissistic abusers do, but unfortunately for him, he failed to recognize how bat shit crazy and narcissistic Chinny. She has no problem going Fatal Attraction on him, but at the same time, she has zero self worth so she will go right back to him the second he gives her a morsel of attention.
I honestly wouldn't be surprised if this is all projection onto Egyptian Musk by Chantal.
The real plot is that SHE probably chased him down with excessive phone calls in the beginning and figured she couldn't deal with him anymore, not because he was some control freak, but because SHE couldn't be with a man SHE couldn't control. She couldn't exercise her tyranny over him like she does with Peetz and in the past with the then-suffering Malan.
Egyptian Musk had a girlfriend and relationships before her that he mentioned, he has friendships with guys he hangs out with and spends time with, and allegedly he has various avenues of employment.
The fat bitch could absolutely NOT have that. All attention must be on her at all times and she HAS to feel important at every waking moment. She said this out of her own pig snout. How dare he have a social life that doesn't include her? She has none of that, so no one else should have it either, especially a "lover" of hers.
This is a woman who fell head over heels for the Gunt Grabber whom she met for all of 15 minutes in a desolate parking lot and he rightfully ghosted her psychotic ass after she let her mask slip. Therefore, I have no doubt she was the aggressor and obsessed from the very beginning, and, alas, she's finally gotten around to admitting it.
In my humble opinion, this is classic Chantal projection. Every story she's ever told about some former hot girl turning into a complete loser, was about herself. Every fat (fatter than her, at least) and ugly chick who was rejected by a hot guy, was about herself. Every smelly, unattractive guy that she pity fucked, was about herself.
This woman really doesn't have that many options in the dating pool. She's fat, balding, barren, unattractive, unhygienic, sickly, arms and legs are literally rotting, lazy, uneducated, unemployed, unambitious, unmotivated, mean, bitter, psychotic, gluttonous, greedy, selfish, has an addictive personality, a host of undiagnosed mental illnesses, and so much more. That's not to say some deviant won't screw her to get his dick wet, but taken seriously as a long-term partner? Fucking doubt it.
This woman is desperate and wants all the love she can get, especially when the person doesn't seem to reciprocate it. It's like a game to her. The more she's ignored (see Malan, Nick, and now Egypt), the more this cunt sees it as a cat and mouse game in which she has to come on stronger. Her and Malan probably lasted so long because he never really gave a fuck, and that signified years of challenges for Chantal to finally win over his affections, hence why she stuck around.
Peetz is safe from her psychosis (or is he?) because she already has him where she wants him, so no challenge there. Peetz is the dead mouse in the corner, no longer able to move or run, because the cat finally caught up to it, tortured it, and killed it. The hunt is over until a new prey emerges.
Peetz is what would happen to any man who treats that pig like a lady and is low enough to land in her firm clutches. He'll lose his mind, soul, hair, masculinity, sense of self worth, and ability to reason beyond hating all things in order to cope with the fucked up predicament he's gotten himself into.
This gaping twat is seriously fucking sick and I know I've said that she's way too fat and lazy to ever physically hurt or even kill someone, but I may have to retract that statement. I'm convinced now, more than ever, that she could be a danger to society, intentionally or due to her mentally unstable reckless abandon.