I’m interested in why all of Steph’s heterosexual spectral lovers are either horribly depraved serial killers, or mentally ill celebrities that suffered and died tragically before their time (and even then one of said celebrities had been involved in a high profile pedophilia scandal that pretty much branded him guilty, regardless of what you or anyone might believe). She screes about protecting children and gay rights and how fascism is bad while at the same time (in her mind) getting in bed with cis men that perpetuated and committed the very acts she just condemned.
I think this also ties into her cringey Kylo Ren/Adam Driver thirsting. It’s obvious she has a thing not just for bad men, but for men that are absolute tyrants, monsters, and that stand against everything she’s supposed to fight for, like a weird sort of domination fetish.
Which brings me to this question...if you really aren’t attracted to cis men Steph, how come you’ve never given Aileen Wuornos’ ghost a booty call? What about Elizabeth Bathory, or Marie Antoinette? They all fit into your criteria for ghost lovers, and they also historically (some alleged) weren’t strictly dickly like Dahmer was or whatever the fuck MJ was.